Creative man looking for woman .

Man in Bourne, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 17 hours ago

01/04/26

Below is the info on me but first off an Injury put my cock out of action. I thought it was all over until I met people on here. I have come back where it started.

I’m verbally independent and so control that way is fantastic. I love to use toys to deny or force an orgasm; see how I feel. When a woman gets aroused, in my mind so do I . When she cums my mind cums lol. I have a love/hate relationship with teasing. I love Teasing in text or in person.

In the past I’ve had foursomes which are amazing. It’s on the menu just not chosen yet. All this is based on trust and knowledge. Knowing how she thinks because lack of cock centred behaviour means she is the centre of attention is import to me.

One trip to the VA and OMG I want to go again, with a partner.

I was injured in armed forces and trying to get some excitement in my life. I’m married and don’t hide it. More to explain if we get chatting. Stuck in a wheelchair but had a great time on two other sites but back here where it all started. Completely different on here but it’s likeminded people who are non judgmental. Want to chat first, in the mind, then see what happens after that??? Life is too short to stay vanilla.

Carl

61 years old, Straight

5'8" 173cm
Curvy
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 30 to 61 only
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, DP, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Webcams

Verified Genuine Profile

*arelyBehaves40 (40), Woman on 26 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
I met C a couple of times and he is an absolutely gentleman. He took the time to find out what would work for both of us and delivered to perfection. I had an amazing time ??

*et6969 (57), Woman on 22 November 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met this wonderful man at the VA and what a beautiful, wonderful, intelligent and engaging man. Don't let his disability put you off. He is truly lovely and very good looking. His profile states his limitations but what he can do he does with expert precision and our time on the bed was very enjoyable. A pleasure to meet you so if you want a proper gent who is attentive, soft, great conversation and loves playing then he's for you xx

Friends

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