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WHAT LADS SAY AFTER MEETING STE…

“This profile is 100% real.”

“He’s genuinely one of the safest, nicest guys I’ve met on Fab.”

“I was nervous as fuck… and within minutes I felt completely at ease.”

“His massage is unreal — proper hands.”

“Clean, discreet, calm confidence… and then filthy when it’s time.”

“I didn’t expect it to be THAT good.”

“I’m meeting him again. No question.”

That’s not hype.

That’s the consistent pattern in his verifications.

Ste isn’t a loud-mouth. He isn’t desperate. He isn’t pushy.

He’s calm, confident, discreet, and knows exactly how to handle straight/curious lads without making it awkward.

First time curious? Perfect.

He’s exactly the kind of man you want for that.

No pressure. No ego. No weird vibes.

Just a relaxed meet that turns into something you’ll be thinking about for weeks.

If you want someone genuine…

If you want to feel safe…

If you want to feel wanted…

And if you want to explore properly without feeling judged…

This is that profile.

Most lads come out of curiosity.

They leave thinking:

“Fuck me… why didn’t I do this sooner?”

Not for skim-readers.

IMPORTANT — READ THIS FIRST

I don’t drive. At all.

Not “sometimes”. Not “if it’s easier”. Not “just this once”.

Asking me to pick you up is like asking a fish to drive a bus —

amusing… but absolutely not happening.

(If I owned a flying carpet, life would be very different. Sadly, I don’t.)

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WELCOME

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I’m Ste.

Calm. Strong. Direct.

And I’m very good at what I do.

Everything I offer is completely complimentary.

No fees. No weirdness. No games.

Just a private space, real touch, and proper energy.

And yes — chemistry sometimes takes things in a more… interesting direction.

That part is always natural, mutual, and consent-led.

Also:

All the guys you see me playing with are straight boys.

Every single one.

Discretion is non-negotiable.

Privacy is absolute.

And you will always be treated respectfully here.

But make no mistake:

When you come here, you’re stepping into MY space.

And I set the tone.

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WHO I AM (THE QUICK VERSION)

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• Former rugby player — strong build, steady hands, full control

• Confident, grounded, and quietly dominant

• Not loud, not needy, not chaotic

• I don’t chase — I invite

• I don’t do drama — I do presence

I live with narcolepsy, so yes — sleep can happen unpredictably.

It doesn’t affect what I do, it’s just part of my life.

And something unique about me:

I have musical eidetic memory with HSAM-like recall linked to sound.

I remember music like a machine — word for word, beat for beat, timing and cadence.

My mum calls me iTunes.

(Shame I can’t sing for shit, or I’d be dangerous.)

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WHAT I OFFER

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A quiet, private space to fully switch off.

Sessions are:

• unhurried

• tailored to your body

• intensely hands-on

• pressure-based and controlled

• built around what your body responds to

I use a normal bed — not a massage table.

That means better angles, deeper pressure, and full body control.

When I work, I use my weight properly.

It’s intense… and it hits different.

Some lads come just for a proper reset.

Some come because they want to feel something they’ve never felt before.

Either is fine.

Nothing is assumed.

But I won’t pretend I don’t know what I’m doing.

And if you’re straight or curious?

Trust me — that’s the point.

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QUALIFICATIONS & EXPERIENCE

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This isn’t guesswork — I’m trained and I know the body.

Academic / professional background:

• BSc (Hons) Sports Science

• Level 6 Sports Massage & Soft Tissue Therapy

• MSc Nursing

• Former senior nurse (Matron level / Band 8 in final years)

In practice, that means:

• anatomy knowledge

• clinical awareness

• deep tissue skill

• safe, structured handling

• confidence in boundaries and communication

You will feel looked after here.

Properly.

Not “random hands on a bed” looked after.

Professionally.

Calmly.

In control.

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WORKING WITH STRAIGHT & CURIOUS MEN

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This is where I shine.

A lot of straight lads are curious… but they don’t want “gay energy”.

They want it calm, discreet, controlled, and masculine.

They want to relax, switch off, and be guided.

No awkward chat. No pressure. No labels.

If that’s you —

you’ll feel safe here.

And yes… the body sometimes reacts before the mind catches up.

That’s normal.

You’re not broken.

You’re just human.

I’m not here to convince you of anything.

I’m here to give you a space where you don’t have to pretend.

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EXPECTATIONS / ENERGY

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Let’s keep it simple:

• You arrive clean

• You arrive respectful

• You arrive open-minded

Some sessions stay purely therapeutic.

Some become more charged.

If the yin and yang work together properly… we’ll both know.

And that’s when things get fun.

I don’t do frantic.

I don’t do awkward.

I do controlled intensity.

Quiet confidence.

Steady hands.

And a pace that makes your head go a little blank.

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MY PREFERENCES (HONESTY SAVES TIME)

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I’m not drawn to:

• chubby men

• Asian / Oriental men

• men with very large backsides

And to be crystal clear — I don’t mean “a nice arse”.

I mean gaping holes.

I’m not trying to do the hokey-y…

or the can-can…

while I’m trying to enjoy myself.

(If you laughed, you’re probably my type.)

Either way — I’m always respectful.

If we’re not a match, you’ll still get courtesy and a reply.

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INTERESTS (THE FUN BIT)

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I like:

• athletic / masculine bodies

• straight lads with curiosity

• power exchange (calm, controlled)

• blindfolds / sensory play

• discipline + reward energy

• teasing, edging, restraint

• oral fixation

• anal play (if you’re properly prepared)

• voyeur / shared-space dynamics (when aligned)

• gear aesthetics: jockstraps, boots, rings, uniform looks

I like confidence.

But I like it even more when confidence starts to crack.

I like the moment you stop thinking…

and start feeling.

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MY LIFE OUTSIDE THIS

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I’m not one-dimensional.

I love:

• music (I’m basically a walking jukebox)

• food (real comfort food + good flavours)

• films / nights in (especially when life’s heavy)

• laughs, banter, and direct conversation

If we click, I’m actually very easy to be around.

But I will warn you:

I’m calm… until I’m not.

And most lads don’t realise they like that… until they do.

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FINAL WORD

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If you’re straight and curious…

If you like strong hands…

If you want discretion, control, and zero awkwardness…

You’ll enjoy this.

A lot.

Message me.

And be direct.

Ste

FINAL FINAL WORD:

When you leave… you leave full to the rim and leaking.

My final final final word

Sexual orientation isn’t defined just by what someone does sexually. It’s mainly about who someone is consistently romantically and physically attracted to, and how they personally identify. Attraction, behavior, and identity are related, but they are not the same thing.

A man can have sex with another man and still identify as straight. That doesn’t automatically make him gay or bisexual. Sexual behavior alone doesn’t determine orientation, and frequency doesn’t either. Doing something occasionally, rarely, or even regularly doesn’t “turn” someone gay. Orientation is about deeper, ongoing patterns of attraction — not a tally of experiences.

Identity is also personal. If a man says he’s straight, that’s his identity. Some straight-identifying men are open to occasional same-sex experiences without feeling romantic or emotional attraction toward men. Others might use terms like heteroflexible, bi-curious, or no label at all. There isn’t one single path or rulebook.

It’s also important to understand that sometimes the motivation isn’t about gender attraction in the usual sense. In certain situations — especially in consensual BDSM or power-exchange dynamics — a man may have sex with another man because he’s drawn to the experience of dominance, submission, control, or vulnerability. In that case, the focus can be the psychological role or power dynamic, not attraction to men as people. The appeal may be about the act, the energy, or the headspace, rather than sexual orientation.

On the other side, being gay isn’t about how often someone has sex or “living a certain lifestyle.” A gay man is simply a man who is primarily romantically and sexually attracted to men — even if he’s celibate or hasn’t had many partners. Orientation is about attraction, not daily activity.

A clean way to summarise all of this would be:

Sexual behavior doesn’t automatically define sexual orientation. Some men who identify as straight may still have sex with men occasionally, and for some, the appeal may be about a power dynamic or specific experience rather than attraction to men themselves. Sexual identity is personal, and attraction, behavior, and labels don’t always line up in a simple or predictable way.

STR8GUYSLUVMYCUM

39 years old, Bisexual

6'1"  185cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Men
Aged from 18 to 49 only
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Cannot travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports

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*aibux (30), Man on 20 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Such a pleasant experience. He’s genuinely kind, respectful, and humble. We enjoyed our time together a lot, and the communication was really nice and easy. The environment was calm, peaceful, and discreet. Everything was clean and well organised, and hygiene was spot on. Overall, a very good and comfortable experience.

*hilledtime255 (24), Man on 18 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely gentleman a few weeks back, lovely clean home and very friendly. Spent hours talking while laying on his sexy chest. Definitely wanting another meet and hopefully more fun ;)

*awpleasure (49), Man on 27 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
We've been chatting for a couple of months and finally i got to meet this guy at his home for a relaxing massage. Nice polite and clean guy, he is great at massage which really did the job. Hopefully meet again very soon and possibly have the MMF we chatted about.

*gg56 (37), Man on 19 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Been speaking to this guy for a good few years on here and met socially quite a few times too. Always friendly, down to earth and welcoming, enjoy catching up and from the experiences he's told me about he sounds like anyone wanting to meet for more than a social are in for the experience of their lives. We keep talking about arranging an mmf but haven't managed to get our calendars to align whenever theres an f who wants to get involved. Hopefully soon. Please don't mess this guy about and treat him with the utmost respect as thats what you'll get in return aswell as a great time

*aked73 (46), Man on 18 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
What an amazing experience with a totally genuine friendly guy. Hot naked massage and an even better ending. This guy will soon become the 1st guy to take my virginity ( one step at a time ??). Thanks Ste

*eelon (48), Man on 16 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy at his home and had a relaxing massage. Nice polite n clean guy great massage really did the job and hopefully meet again very soon for more

*ohnny06905 (44), Man on 13 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
I met this charming gent this afternoon at his home. He’s a very nice guy and we just sat and chatted for about half an hour. I’ll definitely be back to see him again and hope there is a little fun too

*igal87 (38), Man on 13 November 2025 by Webcam:
So I randomly messaged Ste, aka Str8FitHungMassaChill, six days ago because I was bored and stuck in hospital—I’ve been here for six long weeks, and honestly, it’s been lonely and exhausting. I’ve only spoken to him a few times via video, but already he’s made a huge difference. He’s one of the politest, most respectful, genuinely kind people I’ve ever met. He goes out of his way to make you feel better, to lift your spirits, and to remind you that there are still amazing, caring people in the world. I’m so glad I sent him a little wink and a simple hello—it was honestly one of the best decisions I’ve made in years. Even in just a few days, he’s made these long hospital days feel brighter, warmer, and a lot less lonely. If you haven’t spoken to him, seriously—you should. He’s a lovely guy, and even a quick chat can make a huge difference. I can’t wait to meet him in person myself, because he’s the kind of person who leaves a lasting mark on everyone he meets. Thanks, Ste, for being such a wonderful, uplifting presence. People like you make the world feel a little brighter—and right now, that matters more than ever

*assguy47 (53), Man on 12 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Meet with this gentleman a few months ago for a massage, genuinely nice person , fantastic massage, nice clean place. Left relaxed and very happy thank you . Please respect this true gent

*4hrHorn (30), Man on 7 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Me at his late night, I was a bit too nervous, but lovely cock. Very welcoming and gebuine Will meet again, if he have me back

*objob (43), Man on 28 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely genuine guy at his home for a social. Convo flowed but time got away with us so hopefully we'll get to play next time. X

*ommk91 (33), Man on 14 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Really nice guy very friendly excellent message and great evening

*anny159 (36), Man on 7 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met in person wow he really can make me cum had an amazing massage of him he really is not to be missed till the next time keep fabing x

*edog91 (34), Man on 7 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Fun, respectable genuine guy good at messages good laugh and chat recommend highly

*antit24 (33), Man on 4 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy today for a massage. All I can say is unbelievable. The massage was worth the visit, never-ending everything else that came with it. I will definitely be returning.

*igdede90 (32), Man on 14 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Really genuine and nice guy, even better masseuse.

*ucatti1 888 (44), Man on 8 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this genuine guy tonight What a nice caring guy he is. Non pushy great to chat with. We didn't have a great deal of time but tbh we didn't need it. I can't wait for the next time we meet it will definitely be a lot more relaxed xxx

*uriousfabdave (47), Man on 1 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met him on two occasions now Always polite and respectful, genuine house is very clean He is very entertaining He has a lovely cock a nice helmet to suck on. Know how to dominate a guy’s arsehole If you wanna lose your virginity to anybody, I’d recommend him. And that’s all you hung fit straight boys.

*inkybiguy2000 (33), Man on 29 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
Great guy so chilled and relax to be around Had nice suckable cock also gave me good fucking too can't wait round two

*eterpan696969 (42), Man on 25 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
Great, friendly guy and delivers a great massage. Had a great time

*asygoing guy 2025 (45), Man on 8 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy at his for a social and he was so polite and none pushy with in the group fun friendly and most of a good laugh till next time

*ack.Balls10 (33), Man on 8 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this genuine great guy Sunday, gave me the best massage ive ever had, true master of the art, made me feel very comfortable and didnt push boundaries, only down side, I wish id asked him to fuck me before I left, very hot guy and next time hes getting me

*ark654 (42), Man on 7 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met at his place made me feel comfortable and no pressure at all very clean home and genuinely nice guy

*ungvers81 (39), Man on 7 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
Known This lovely guy many years now .. kind experienced and genuine .. always welcomes guests into his lovely clean home .. and knows how to look after his guests :) Don’t pass him by guys .. :)

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