Experienced Polyam man looking for genuine connections

Man in Bristol, South West, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 32 minutes ago

*Reviving old individual account - Profile to be updated over time.*

*One half of the couples profile 'RitaandJohn' - Feel free to check on my shared verifications there.*

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He/Him - 6'0 - Bristol based; can accommodate & travel.

Looking for genuine connections with kinky, intellectual & likeminded folk.

Polyamorous for the past 2 years, with over 6 years experience in non-monogamous relationships overall. Currently cohabiting with a wonderful partner, but we're exploring separately for the most part.

I'm optimistically here looking for some fun, long-term connections; platonic, play partners, poly - open to all the possibilities. Please note I do not identify as a 'swinger', there are distinct differences between that and ENM/CNM and Polyamory - I will only meet those who identify as these.

I prefer to have a social meetup first to see if there's a mutual chemistry and connection.

Happy with group dynamics too if they're mutual and develop naturally. NSA / ONS is not my jam though.

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A few of my passions in life:

- Hiking, camping, mountaineering & via ferrata

- Growing fruit & veg in my garden & allotment

- Board games with friends

- Leathercrafting

- Kink, fetish & alternative fashion

- PC games

- Artwork of HR Giger (see my tattoos)

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Service top/dom; will switch if the connection feels right. Lover of compersion & aftercare. Described as "the right blend of wholesome & depraved".

Consent, mutual respect & connection are at the heart of my dynamics with anyone. Open, honest communication is my forte and I'm enthusiastic about self-improvement, reflection & learning new skills (especially kinky ones).

Vaccinated for HepB & regularly test for the main 4 STI's & HepC - Latest full panel negative results: May 2025.

If you don't regularly test for STI's or have detailed knowledge of basic sexual health information, I will not meet you - I've been shocked by how little some people know.

Have now been 'fixed' (vasectomy) as of June 2025, so hopefully in October this year I will have the test results to prove it's worked and that I've done my part in sharing the burden of contraception.

Active in the local Bristol scene & happy to provide additional references. Safety & reassurance through community vetting is always welcome.

Regular at Torture Garden London, ClubLove, RiotParty & other Bristol events.

~ John

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John

30 years old, Bi-curious

6'0" 183cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Don't drink
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women TV/TS
Aged from 20 to 40
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Watersports, Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Spanking, SM, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Rimming, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Dogging, Cuckolding, Anal, Adult Parties

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Verified Genuine Profile

*inkdeep (32), Couple on 19 June 2025 by Meeting in person:
One of the kindest and most respectful guys we’ve met on the scene. He’s a great communicator, relaxed, and genuinely enjoyable to be around. D has joined him and his partners a few times when a solo male was needed, and he’s always been our top pick for those kinds of encounters. Reliable, drama-free, and packing — he can perform like a pro when the moment calls for it.

*evonGuy1 (36), Man on 4 June 2025 by Meeting in person:
Do not miss out on meeting John!! I've met him and his other half multiple times now, he is so welcoming, intelligent and funny to be around, genuinely love spending time with him even when we all have clothes on!! As for clothes off, he has stamina for days, tonned body and a huge dick! Always love spitroasting a lucky lady with him, hopefully again soon!

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