Open to kinky friend applications

Man in Rutland, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 4 months ago

I’m a confident, grounded single guy who values connection, chemistry, and play without drama.

My ideal playmate mixes fun, genuine friendship, laughter, hot dates, clubs, nights/weekends away, and trust. A true kinky friend.

I have the same username on SH.

About me:

• Member at both VA and Liberty Elite.

• Naturally Dominant with a soft spot for women who enjoy surrendering control and exploring their obedient, playful side.

• Drawn to good girls with a wicked streak who love being teased and pushed just enough.

• Underwear obsession: guilty as charged.

• Conversation matters - sapiosexual through and through. If you can’t engage beyond one-liners, I’ll lose interest quickly.

My style of D/s:

I’m not crude or heavy-handed. I thrive on anticipation, the build-up, and the exchange of power. I believe respect, trust, and communication make the hottest experiences. I like my partners to feel safe enough to let go, and wicked enough to surprise me when they do.

On the bucket list:

- Respectful D/s dynamics

- CMNF play and parties

- Role play (casting couch is a favourite)

- Fun with a hotwife/straight couple

- Anonymous visit to blindfolded hotwife

- Rope play and restraint

- Blow (me) and go

- Live filming woman for partners pleasure

- Milking table

Where I play:

Happy to meet at clubs, private parties, or more personal encounters.

48 years old, Straight

6'0" 183cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 18 to 47
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Webcams, Watersports, Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Rimming, Phone Sex, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, DP, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

Verified Genuine Profile

*heSpicyBees (45), Couple on 30 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this charming guy at WWW. MrsB enjoyed sliding into his DM’s for a pre event flirty chat. Honestly one of the most genuine single guys on fab. Gorgeous smile and really confident, didn’t get to play this time but hopefully we ‘bump’ into each other again soon. Mr & Mrs B x

*una_Blue (37), Woman on 30 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this handsome man for a drink and hit it off straight away! Easy to talk to, funny, confident, and very good company. The spark was undeniable…..exceeded expectations and I’ve been smiling about it since. Looking forward to more very soon…

*aughtycp1 V2V CLUB (45), Couple on 15 March 2025 by Meeting in person:
We met this very handsome Gentleman at our V2V-Vegas Vixens event at Liberty Elite. He was dressed to impress and smelled gorgeous. He is intelligent and knows how to hold a good conversation. An absolute gem of a single gentleman. He was incredibly popular at our party and it's easy to see why. Ladies if you get the chance to meet this charming guy don't turn it down. We really hope to see him soon x Mrs N xx

*ixie888 (54), Woman on 15 March 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this sexy man at Libs tonight. What a killer smile, gets me every time (melt!) Was lucky to spend time with him, first chatting in the bar (lovely) and then I was glad he hunted me down in the playroom. Engaged in some hot bed action- great fun sharing him with my sexy friend. Don't forget to send me a song request gorgeous ;-)

*hatWomenWant (37), Woman on 10 March 2025 by Meeting in person:
This handsome gentleman came to our Cirque Du WWW party! His first visit with us and the club and he looked great :) Was chatting away with everyone and enjoyed the day. We hope to see you again at our Gatsby Night! Xx

*andC69 (41), Couple on 1 March 2025 by Meeting in person:
We are so pleased to have met this lovely gent through the www event at VA. We got chatting ahead of the event - he is funny, respectful of the couple dynamic and a great conversationalist too. Glad we got to meet in person at the event, albeit all too briefly, and we really hope that we cross paths again sometime in the future.

*icklexxx (37), Woman on 1 March 2025 by Meeting in person:
I met this really handsome guy at an event yesterday and I literally have one word to describe our encounter, 'Fireworks'! Already looking forward to the next time our paths cross x

*lackcanary (50), Woman on 28 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met This lovely man at VA today at the www event. We really hit it off in the chat beforehand. Such a lovely friendly, genuine gentleman with an amazing personality. Unfortunately didn’t get chance to take things any further but I hope you enjoyed your first www and hope to see you again at a future event xxx

*ountryTotty (41), Woman on 30 August 2024 by Webcam:
I had the pleasure of having a video call with this gorgeous man, instantly felt at ease with him and can not wait until we can meet in person - a man who I have a good feeling about.

*weet_and_Not_So_Innocent (43), Woman on 13 November 2023 by Meeting in person:
What a gentlemen this man is! He’s very handsome with a gorgeous smile, smart and funny with a lovely cheeky side. He’s also incredibly easy to chat to and on top of that, ohh the man can KISS! Glad to have met him as he’s definitely one of the more genuine guys on here x

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