BDSM/Swingers Club

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Please take note that I'm not here to hook up and you are no exception to the rule. I'm here to promote the club only!

The Velvet Rope is Wiltshire's exclusive Members only Fetish and Swingers Club.

Current and future members are welcome to enjoy a drink and dress in all things fun, sexy or fetish.

We do offer lateral testing should you wish to have it!

Situated in the heart of Swindon hosted in a 2 storey spacious venue. 

The lower level boasts a voyeuristic layout with a comfortable seating area, a bar, a super king size bed and a bespoke cage that will hold many naughty subs including a dogging corner with a kinky twist.

The upper level boasts 3 private rooms, a gloryhole with 2 entrances, a dark room, a designated smoking area, a bar and 2 additional voyeuristic areas includinga sex swing. I promise it will not disappoint your desire for filth.

Each room has well thought out equipment for you to use but you will need to provide your own play toys, should you not have any then you may purchase from our private selection. There is music facilities in each room so dont forget to sort out your play lists. 

Shower facilities are available to freshen up before or after your booking.

Regular workshops and social events will be hosted at TVR by the UK's finest influencers in the fetish industry. 

Please note that couples always get first preference and single men go onto a waiting list as the list for men is generally quite long. I will try rotate the list to make it fair to everyone. Please dont be offended by this, it is regular practice in this industry

if you want to be a member please go to our website and follow the process.

membership fees are required!!

Please make sure that you understand what night you are attending, it's not always a bdsm event nor is it always a swinging event. Read the Website properly instead of leaving reviews based on poor quality reading and understanding of the event of rhe night.

Future Meets and Events


Club night on Saturday 29 January 2022 in South West: Swindon
At this meet looking for: F M MM FF TV/TS
It's Mistress Ruby's birthday and we are having a RHPS themed Bdsm play event. Come dressed up and help her celebrate in style. £15pp Members Event New members welcome to apply.


Organised social on Saturday 26 February 2022 in South West: swindon
At this meet looking for: F M MF MM FF TV/TS
TVR are looking for stall holders for the Fetish Market. If you want to get brand awareness for your product or just test the waters on something you bought/made then please DM me. Rates are incredibly reasonable. Free entrance to afterparty with stall ticket. Spread the word - lets get kinky

View meet listings, add yours at the Meets & Events pages.

Mistress Ruby

43 years old, Bi-curious

5'9"  175cm
Non smoker
Don't drink
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Men Women TV/TS
Aged from 20 to 80
Won't meet smokers


Cannot accommodate
Cannot travel


Adult Parties

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*opeGuy (26), Man on 5 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
Fantastic host at NYE! Warm and inviting. Made my first time at a kink club very enjoyable. Great venue and punters! Will definitely be back to try out different events in the future.

*onBinaryGeek (30), Man on 29 December 2021 by Meeting in person:
Paid a visit to one of their femdom parties. My first time going to this kind of venue before, and overall it was a wonderful experience. The hosts were kind & friendly and the activities were very fun and educational! I only regret not realising there was a hot tub there as that sounds awesome! Hopefully less time I visit I'll be less shy about trying things!

*uest2021 (36), Man on 4 December 2021 by Meeting in person:
Wow what a great night. The team at TVR are truly amazing so welcoming and always make sure everyone has a good night. I was super lucky to lose of my first time. Spanking and pegging wow thank you mistress just glad we didn't need the tape but definitely looking forward to the next time xx

*aggedyAnne (66), Woman on 10 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
Mistress Ruby is a lovely lady and her club is second to none. Always have a wonderful time when I visit......

*uest2021 (36), Man on 31 October 2021 by Meeting in person:
Wow what a great night for at rv last night. It was my first time and very nervous but everyone made it so nice and I made what I hope to be a few new friends along the way. Keep up the good work all. Great host and team

*erandHerMan (39), Couple on 5 October 2021 by Meeting in person:
Weve attend this club a couple of times now and Mistress Ruby is a fantastic host along with all the staff. It's definitely a club we will attend again and again. Thankyou for having us.

*inkymonkey! (42), Woman on 2 October 2021 by Meeting in person:
Well where do I start this Lady is truly amazing with an awesome club and the perfect partner in crime for out tag team pegging, next time we will tag team a lady on ladies night next month xxx

*risty_tgirl (56), TV/TS on 19 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
I have been along to AJs tgirls and admirers events a few times now - it is hosted at the venue Ruby and the team run -The Velvet Rope club - and each time its getting better and better. The staff and Ruby are so welcoming too - nothing is too much trouble and they will do anything to make your visit a lovely experience. I will be going again for sure. Thankyou for a lovely afternoon and the best ever home cooked ham roll x

*erdCouple099 (29), Couple on 6 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
We visited The Velvet Rope as part of Swindon Swingers social. We're very new to this kind of play and so this was our first club experience. We were amazed and pleased by what we saw. To begin with we were greeted by Mistress Ruby's team and her exquisite self. All were so welcoming. We were immediately welcomed in and taken on a tour of the club, showing us the fantastic facilities already there as well as telling us the plans for the future. We were already so entranced after being there for only a few hours we decided to become members. We loved the atmosphere and other guests. We had so much fun in that evening. We can't wait to go back!

*ade1000Cool (61), TV/TS on 6 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
I have been to velvet rope many times the owners are amazing and work very hard to make everyone happy n relaxed its best bdsm club for miles around xx

*ATTONE (35), Man on 6 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Well yet another absolute amazing night at TVR but that is by far my stand out. This club has it all from the moment you step through the door you are greeted by the stunning Mistress Ruby and her team. The facilities and equipment that are available at this club make it a must visit for all you fabbers out there you will not have been to any other swingers club with the amount of equipment that TVR has available. Mistress Ruby or a member of her team are always on hand to explain the equipment and explain how the equipment can be used. If you hadn’t worked it out by now I’m sure you will, this club is a must visit they hold some fantastic events including the Swindon Social which is always a great place to meet people. Than you Matt PS nearly forgot to mention you won’t believe the BMW parked in the bar just see if your brave enough to sign the roof (7 so far).

*CMPartys (36), Man on 6 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Having attended Sunday night’s Swindon Swingers Social at Velvet Rope I must say it is a beautiful venue. The equipment and play spaces are really good and the atmosphere was amazing. The Social team were so welcoming and run a great night, and Mistress Ruby is a brilliant host. We’re pleased to say we will be holding a party there in the near future….

*om swing (66), Couple on 5 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
We had a very nice time at this club. Very friendly and very sexy lady. The club is a fantastic place. got all you would need for a sexy night out. Hope we will go again some time soon. HAVE A SEXY DAY.

*rwolfsbane (50), Man on 1 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
This club is without doubt the best in the area, friendly staff, cracking atmosphere and a hostess who is second to none, a lovely place for all who enjoy the kinkier side of life, cannot reccomend it enough.

*essie_CJ (48), Woman on 30 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
Another fantastic night spent at TVR on Saturday, was slightly worried as bdsm isn’t my thing but so glad I went. Lots of fun kinky people that were really friendly. Sorry I asked so many questions, I’m always keen to learn and understand more xx

*essie_CJ (48), Woman on 19 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
Had a fantastic time at velvet rope last Saturday, despite it being a little quiet with other things going on elsewhere it was great fun. Lovely sexy hosts, great rooms, huge potential and I’m chuffed to bits that it’s in my home time and I’ll be a regular to see this place really take off and earns it’s place on the map! xx

*hrissy-12 (64), TV/TS on 19 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
I met Miss Ruby yesterday at Amy-Jane's Party in The Velvet Rope Club and have to say that not only is she beautiful, charming and very helpful, her club is fantastic and has lots of potential for future developments. Thank you so much for hosting a terrific day.

* is never a crowd (31), Couple on 16 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
What an awesome person. We had the pleasure of meeting her saturday night at the club. She was welcoming, gorgeous and a great laugh! Then she helped us when we were in need due to a communication error after the club had shut - and thanks to her we got the party started. Look forward to seeing her again. What a legend ! X

*r.lopez (32), Man on 16 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
Met with my partner on one of the first swinging clubs until next time many thanks for being great hosts

*igboy and bi babes (47), Couple on 15 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
Visited the Velvet Rope last for the 1st time. The owners are very welcoming, friendly and have great ideas for the club. Although the club wasn’t massively busy, everyone was friendly and respectful. We can’t wait to visit again.

*andsolo21 (44), Man on 15 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
First time at VR . Me and a friend really enjoyed ourselves Perfect hosts made you feel welcome from the moment you walk in ,, great venue .. will def be back Handsolo21 x (I’ll bring the boerewors sausage next time)

*andyDaniel (38), Man on 11 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
Words can't do this venue and the mastermind couple behind it any justice. As a complete newbie to the kink and swing scenes I have been made to feel welcome and wow what a place, my mind is blown every time I go. Everyone is warm, friendly, respectful (until you don't want it to be), you will laugh until it hurts, and the venue is an ideal playground to enact your debaucherous fantasies, then go home in a spin wondering what the hell just happened. I love it so much this is my second home now haha! Thank you so much for all the effort you guys have put into this absolute gem!!

*xcitedchances (36), Couple on 26 July 2021 by Meeting in person:
Wow. What a night. So much fun to be had at this club. Owners are fantastic, welcoming, friendly and have big ideas for the place. Can not wait to go again. Loved the car. It is a fantastic addition. Look forward to seeing lots more of you very soon.

*inkyKitty (34), Woman on 25 July 2021 by Meeting in person:
Wow, where to start. Mistress Ruby and her partner are absolute legends. Being a single girl on the scene can be daunting and quite nervous. But from the moment you're greeted on the door you are welcomed with big smiles, and nothing is too much to ask for. Really took care of everything. The club is amazing, clean, fantastic layout, rooms, equipment, and even a CAR!! Wow yes the car, how very unique, and such fun hehehe. A fully stocked bar and an open bar area that’s so welcoming. Also a huge shout out to the other staff also, who are extremely lovely. Mistress Ruby, I can’t thank you enough for making my time at the club so memorable. I know this will be my favourite place to go for my naughty and kinky self to enjoy myself. P.s, sorry about the bed!!! Kisses xxx

*an-tinkular (44), Couple on 25 July 2021 by Meeting in person:
All I can say is THANK YOU; for creating an amazing club, and a safe space for all us Nymphs, Freaks and Kinksters. The owners know exactly what they are doing and its so refreshing to find something appropriate for us fetish couples in the swindon area. FINALLY a place we can let our hair down and go wild... & in my case Soak the bed, floor and all my new friends! Us girls took over last night and the place was electric! Can't wait for next time :)

*aster and Arieal (41), Couple on 22 July 2021 by Meeting in person:
Myself and my master have attended this club on a few occasions now. Love the whole atmosphere, always a friendly welcome. Mistress Ruby is lovely and we can't wait to come back ASAP! x

*irellaBella (33), Woman on 12 July 2021 by Meeting in person:
What a mistress and what a club. Met mistress on Saturday and wow she is stunning. The club did not disapoint and will be a regular spot once fully open. Thank you Mistress

*ornysofacouple (38), Couple on 11 July 2021 by Meeting in person:
Had a blast at velvet rope. Mistress Ruby and her partner are fabulous hosts, great people and are very passionate about what they do. The club itself was fantastic and love the beemer in the lounge. Can't wait to come back once we're aloud to play. Thank you so much for making us feel welcome.

*atch888 (40), Couple on 27 June 2021 by Meeting in person:
We had the pleasure of meeting ruby last night great night made us feel welcome and and ease can’t wait until we meet again very sexy lady great fun to be with hopefully not long until we meet again xx

*leasure player (54), Man on 17 June 2021 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of meeting Mistress Ruby today for an introduction into her world, felt very comfortable knowing how professional she is and it’s always an eye opener to push boundaries and find new limits Hope to visit this club again soon, especially when things open up to allow the swingers parties and other special events that Ruby has planned to take place . Highly recommend this club, excellent equipment and facilities with all the play areas anyone could possibly ask for , whatever their kinks or fantasy , don’t miss out fellow fabbers

*outhwestcpl69 (54), Couple on 13 June 2021 by Meeting in person:
Another lovely night at the Velvet Rope ! It feels so comfortable there ! Went there with old friends and had a fantastic night ! So glad we’re members and can’t wait for the club to officially open doors for Playtime. Mistress Ruby , if you find the link to your outfit please let me know ?? Harley and Joker Xx

*retendWeAreHuman (46), Couple on 13 June 2021 by Meeting in person:
Visited The Velvet Rope on Saturday night and had a great time. Mistress Ruby is a delicious host and the staff and regulars were all really welcoming. Met some new people and had a lovely evening. Definitely recommended.

*ool Steel (50), Man on 13 June 2021 by Meeting in person:
I would like to thank Ruby and her partner for making me so welcome and taking the time to chat I attended a socially distanced social event that was well planned and extremely friendly More importantly- it’s clear that Ruby and her partner are extremely warm people and genuinely make the effort to get to know their guests which is a rare trait. The venue is fantastic , discrete and with plenty of off road parking nearby It’s clear that Velvet Rope will be a complete success and become the leading venue in the region. Thank you both and see you soon R

*tarmax (57), Man on 7 June 2021 by Meeting in person:
Met Mistress Ruby and her partner on Saturday 5th June 2021 and she was the perfect hostess . Very friendly and welcoming and gave a great tour and explained her vision of the club. This was a purely social event and Everyone in the club was friendly and polite . I’ll certainly be back there

*ubcouple (65), Couple on 6 June 2021 by Meeting in person:
Mistress Ruby has a fantastic club Ruby and her partner so friendly showed us round the club and then to our table where table service was excellent So looking forward to when we can return and play after lockdown restrictions are eased If you are looking for a local you won’t find better We believe social saturdays are continuing until lockdown is eased so take a visit

*outhwestcpl69 (54), Couple on 29 May 2021 by Meeting in person:
What a fantastic venue and we were looked after so well we will definitely be regulars here new friends made tonight. Joker & Harley xx

*ubeylou321 (45), Couple on 23 May 2021 by Meeting in person:
So good to have this club in Swindon. Great host. Love the set up with playrooms and equipment. Look forward to when social distancing is over. We will be back very soon.

*jr41 (51), Couple on 23 May 2021 by Meeting in person:
Great night, great venue, great hosts. Was lovely to meet you both, and thanks for taking time out to chat. Hope you have plenty more successful nights. S&Z. Xx

*edwinelovers192 (47), Couple on 23 May 2021 by Meeting in person:
We were fortunate to be invited to the club grand opening on Friday and had a great time. The Velvet Rope is an ideal place for those on the Fet or Swingers scence, to meet up with like minded people. We are really looking forward to future events and supporting this great club.

*ookingandexploring (45), Couple on 23 May 2021 by Meeting in person:
Lovely to meet you. Really enjoyed chatting and getting to know a little about you and your place. You are both wonderful hosts. Wish you every success and looking forward to the next time... S&Txxx

*annabel (26), Woman on 22 May 2021 by Meeting in person:
The velvet rope is a new club open in Swindon. Fantastic venue and lovely people At the moment there are very strict covid rules in place to keep everyone safe.

*lternative Viking (41), Man on 30 April 2021 by Webcam:
A fabulous club, with the most enchanting owner. Definitely proud to be a member.