Single guy with magic fingers

Man in Totnes, South West, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 13 hours ago

I have a functioning cock, and a tongue, which enjoy the usual things. But my real magic is my hands - I know how to pleasure every inch of your whole body sensually - for as long as you like! I'm really good at intuiting what your body wants, and following its energy.

I'm open to one-off swinging encounters with singles, couples, groups or parties, but would much prefer to make some good friendships - regular NSA or fuck-buddies, where we connect socially and emotionally as well as erotically. If one or more committed and loving poly relationships develops, that would be ideal, but there's so much short of that which is hugely nourishing. I've been on many non-sexual cuddle sessions, and had several women friends who trusted me to share a bed for the night, without being sexual. I've enjoyed sessions of Liquid Love (naked, blindfold sliding around in lots of warm olive oil). It's a matter of clear communications and boundaries, and negotiating what we each want. I'm always willing to meet socially in public the first time, to check out mutual chemistry, before choosing to go any further.

I bring an enormous amount of experience which isn't especially kinky or swinging, but I haven't found other sites to share these skills: I'm non-monogamous, and currently single. I've done lots of tantra workshops over 20 years, so used to getting very intimate quite quickly with complete strangers, and holding clear boundaries / offering respect / responding to subtle messages from the body. I'm very experienced, and much complemented, on my regular massage skills and sensitive touch - and have a fair bit of experience in all sorts of erotic or healing genital touch. I've done Wheel of Consent workshops, looking at taking and allowing touch, and checking who this touch is for. I've done lots of Contact Improvisation, so used to exploring a wide range of playful, spontaneous, sensuous and intimate ways of bodies interacting. I enjoy "dressing up", which doesn't have to mean the customary burlesque styles - can go into role play.

I'm much more likely to reply to messages if you have a face pic I can see, and a general sense of your physique - not just genitals. I'd also prefer some sense of who you are as a person, and what you like - so very short profiles or messages don't help. If you have no pic at all, you'll get ignored.

I'm sensual, honest, genuine, playful, open-minded, clean, articulate, with some swinging experience, but looking for more.

I'm very respectful, but enjoy being thoroughly naughty on request. So I don't launch into sexy chat / flirting until I'm clear that's what you're open to - but don't be put off if my opening sounds tame. I value clear communication, and clear boundaries, and sticking to agreements.

I live in Totnes, but now have a vanilla housemate, so can't host. I can travel as far as Exeter, Torquay or Plymouth, provided I can use public transport (no car).

I don't usually go in for online chat or meetups but, if you're concerned about covid, I'd be very interested in sharing some live action via webcam, until it's safer to meet in person. Just message me if you want to set this up.

Some pointers about my preferences: if you're overweight, you may make a very good friend, but it just doesn't turn me on erotically. I really like women with small breasts / flat chests. A warm smile is a killer attraction!

I'm down as bisexual - with a strong preference for women, but plenty of sexual experience with men. If you're a couple with a straight man - I'm not pushy or predatory. In the same way as I respect a woman who says "no", if you say you're straight, I'll leave you alone.

I am curious, though, about the number of men who describe themselves as "straight", but look at my profile or wink at me! If you are a male contacting me, the quality of your smile, of your touch and ability to communicate clearly will do much more for me than a photo of your dick. I'm not much into anal either way.

I'm not averse to kink, but nor am I heavily into it, or very experienced (not at all with men). I'm more inclined to be sub than Dom, possibly switch, so you'd need to be willing to work with a relative beginner whichever roles you'd like us to play.

I'm not strong on technology or other media, so only into communicating on this site, until such point as we might both want to exchange emails / phone numbers. I look forward to having fun with lots of you!

Stuart

55 years old, Bisexual

5'9" 175cm
Average
Non smoker
Don't drink
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Men Women TV/TS
Aged from 25 to 70
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Webcams

Friends

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