Relaxed NSA fun.

Man in Basildon, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 11 hours ago

**new update, partially edited for clarity**

I've not updated for a while so this is long overdue. I have had several fun meets over the years with women, couples, TS and guys (and some not so great lol). I've experienced some great moments of pleasure in all these scenarios and learnt quite a lot about myself and what I'm ideally looking for.

Generally speaking, I'm pretty fluid and enjoy many dynamics, depending on the chemistry and situation. I'm looking for relaxed mutual fun. Total sub/dom either way doesn't work for me, I like a bit of give and take. I've got a few things I'd like to try which I did have listed on here but I think they were coming across as a must rather than anything else. We can discuss them if we click.

Unprotected bare sex is a no for me, and won't entertain meeting those who do.

In the meantime, all the below still stands lol.

**update**

Not so bi curious anymore, definitely fully fledged bi and very willing to experiment more. Ideally like to meet a bi couple but all offers welcomed. When meeting for bi fun the meet must involve mutual oral to interest me.

Hi all, thank you for taking the time to have a read of my profile (especially now that it has more than 1 sentance in it - I've been a bit lazy).

Anyway 1st things 1st, I am very bi-curious and married (wife does not know) and hence the need for discretion. I do have photos that I can send privately and I would never expect to meet without swapping face pictures 1st, after all there has to at least be a little bit of sexual attraction doesn't there? If you have no face pictures to swap then it is highly unlikely that I will meet. Also I would class myself as bi-curious rather than bi even though I have had a couple of experiences. Perhaps I need to explore further in this area. Also please do not send friend requests without actually messaging first, I really don't get what that's all about and wont be accepting.

So a little about me then for those who have decided to read on. I dont think it would be very useful for me to try to give a full on physical description of myself, the basics are sort of covered in other areas of the profile and the rest is kind of down to personal preference. If we decide a meet might be on the cards you can decide for yourself when we swap photos. However I am always clean, well presented and polite.

I travel about the UK with work a lot and quite often find myself a little bit lonely and bored. I am quite often without a car (either travelling with others or by train) so would prefer meets at the hotel or within walking distance.

So what am I looking for then? Well im pretty much up for anything with single females or couples. I am more than happy to play completely straight for couples. Ideally I would love to meet a couple with a bi male. With regards to single males I am looking to participate in mutual sucking/wanking.

I generally update my profile with my current location and if I'm online I'm looking to meet. Please feel free to drop me a line and lets see what happens.

Have fun and take care.

48 years old, Bisexual

6'3" 191cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Heavily tattooed
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Men Women TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Soft Swing, SM, Safe Sex, Role Play, Rimming, Oral, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Dogging, Cuckolding, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

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*emyselfandI ABC (59), Woman on 3 April 2025 by Meeting in person:
An impromptu meeting with this fine specimen of a man. Wow!! Had a drink together at his hotel and the banter flowed. Went up to his room after a while and the banter wasn't the only thing to flow. Absolute genuine guy, great manners and a tongue to die for. Thanks sexy man for a lovely night. I would definitely meet you again if you're back down south xx

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