Kinky subby pegasus looking for opportunities to be slutty

Man in Brighton, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 2 months ago

I'm 39, on the straight side of bi, the sub side of switch, and the Brighton side of Hove. I'm a dabbler in the Brighton kink scene -- if you've been to Filth, you may have met me -- and I'm interested in starting to explore swinging as well.

I'm primarily interested in meeting couples and exploring my bi side more fully, especially now that the lockdown has ended! I'm a bit picky about which guys I'll kiss -- there has to be an emotional connection for that -- but I like nothing more than being guided to take a hard cock between my lips, especially as part of a kink scene.

I'm poly -- my other partners know I play with other people and I'm completely honest with them about everything I do.

In bed, I'm cuddly and slutty and love to obey instructions given in a clear, commanding voice. I adore using toys, fingers, and tongue to give pleasure: probably more than I enjoy fucking if I'm honest (which is why I love playing with couples so much - that way, there's someone else around to insert tab A into slot B ;) ).

I'm also discovering more and more that maybe I'm not as subby as I'd always assumed. I'm particularly fond of switching if there's another dom around to provide guidance and encouragement and a little extra discipline, and I adore hearing the excited noises subs make as I deliver a spanking to them.

I'm a firm believer in kindness, affection and gentleness, both in bed and out of it, and I have no time for those who conflate cruelty with strength or being offensive with being clever. I hope it should go without saying that trans men are real men, trans women are real women, nonbinary is valid, and keeping our spaces free from predators is everybody's responsibility.

Things that will get my absolute undivided attention are profiles with lots of words, and which put as much effort into making the man look good as the woman. You're gorgeous, guys, show us your whole body and not just your dick!

James

40 years old, Bisexual

6'2" 188cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Women TV/TS
Aged from 30 to 60
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cybersex, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*he Brighton Social (34), Couple (FF) on 7 January 2024 by Meeting in person:
Lovely to have you at The Brighton Social last night. You’ll always be welcome at any of my future events. Thank you for attending. Until next time….. xTBSx

*ittleFoxBBW (46), Woman on 18 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this gorgeous guy at an event after previously having a teensy conversation. Clicked immediately. Fabulous cuddles and kisses and great to talk to. We shall meet again.

*oneylu (54), Woman on 3 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely soul several times, each time feels like the first ??. I’m sure we’ll get on famously at our next meet.

*he Brighton Social (34), Couple (FF) on 5 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
Love having this gentle giant at The Brighton Social. You’ll always be welcome at any future events. Thank you for attending last night. Until next time….. xTBSx

*irates and Penguins (51), Couple on 5 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
Second time seeing this wonderful gent at the Brighton Social. Easy talking and decently able to be fun to be around.

*izarreEvents (40), Couple on 23 May 2022 by Meeting in person:
It was an absolute pleasure to have this lovely, respectful and open-minded kinkster among us at Bi-KINK CLUB last Friday! N&A xxx

Friends

S (54), Woman
LF (46), Woman
Bizarre Events (40) & Bizarre Events (48), Couple
M (38), Man
Victoria (Ria) (34) & — (36), Couple (FF)
Emily (36) & Daddybear (42), Couple
J (36), Woman