Seeking an ongoing dynamic w a woman or cpl

Man in Bassingbourn, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 9 hours ago

UPDATE: 01 Dec 25- Mrs has unfortunately decided to take an indefinite hiatus from the lifestyle…. Again. Whether permanent or not, who knows as I leave that w her and respect the ebbs and flows she may experience. Now only Hubby playing. Seeking ladies (married or single) and cpls for ongoing dynamics. If you’re still interested I welcome you to read on.

What am I lookin for??? The essential question... Yet the hardest to lock down. Most of all I am looking for individuals who are much like me and aren't afraid to vocalize their wants and desires. Individuals who complement me and add to our collective overall happiness and sexual indulgence. Just as we would yours.

- For couples I am looking for attractive individuals 18-65 yrs old who are well educated professionals like me. Those who are supportive of one another and who are here to add to their already happy relationship, not those here doing it simply for the other part. Jealousy and ego have no place is the type of couple I seek to explore with. I am seeking those who are equally willing and receptive to full carnal pleasure whether it be together as a group, as a MFM or even separately if all agreeable. Ultimately this should always be something that is fun and above all EASY! We are all adults here and we are all here for the same reason, to make friends and let go sexually. If you crave something, SAY IT. I no longer have the patience or time for reading people's minds. In addition, discretion, safety, and respect must remain paramount. Condoms are a must initially and only optional if all parties are comfortable. I am vasectomy safe (had the snip) and am tested regularly due to the nature of our professions. Also it goes without saying we seek those who take care of themselves physically and emotionally. While I don’t have a six pack any longer, and don’t expect you too either, I can easily complete a 5k and pride myself on presenting to the best we can.

- Couples or Ladies (Married and Single) I am seeking attractive, confident women who above all are comfortable with who they are inside. I seek those who are understanding and supportive of my happy marriage and wish only to add to our mutual sexual pleasure. We prefer women who, while confident in their personal or professional lives, are uninhibited in the bedroom. Willing to initiate mutual play but eager to please once in the bedroom (or any other location). A woman who thoroughly enjoys giving and receiving oral sex. Who is a great communicator and who entrusts that their sexual desires will be encouraged by me always in a trust, safe, environment w me. Bonus points if you are open to anal play, rimming, and cum swallowing (but individual boundaries will always be respected). While I have a personal affinity for married women (playing w permission or not) I also love single women looking for a mature man who know words besides “hows yous”. I seek women who are HWP and healthy, but also curves are absolutely loved and full perky breasts (natural or enhanced) is always admired. Downstairs ladies must be clean shaven or well groomed and it goes without saying all must be disease and drug free.

For women playing solo, your personal status at home is not a major factor to me. I fully understand that life is full of grey areas and I have zero interest in changing your home life. All I ask is that you remain respectful and supportive of my private life and I will always remain discreet, respectful, and supportive of yours as well.

Description:

Sexually enlightened mid-40s married male. Part of a happy fully open married Cpl of 20 yrs. My wife, while taking an indefinite pause from active playing is aware and fully supportive of me finding my own connections here. Committed to engaging in a sexual journey of exploration, self discovery, and fun. I am a well educated, white collar professional who enjoys the finer things in life. Great friends, great wine (and scotch), travel, and uninhibited carnal fun. While I am far from new to swapping or swinging, I still find and relish in the excitement of reentering the lifestyle with hopes of making incredible new friends and playmates. We do have young children and they always are my top priority, so if this is an issue then please move on.

Him (as described by Wifey)- Mr. Tall, Dark, and Handsome is a true gentleman but with an incredibly hot dark side. He is strong and demanding while wanting to make your fantasies a reality. He's amazing with his hands and enjoys taking the time to learn and experience your body; the way you move, what turns your on, what makes you quiver. It's important to him for you to feel comfortable and free with your desires while allowing him to show you the full potential of his abilities, which I promise are incredible. He is 7" of riding fun!!

Fantasies and / or real experiences:

I have had some amazing and some not so amazing fmf, mfm, and mfmf experiences. I am looking to expand my amazing moments with exceptional people. Over the years I enjoyed some amazing memories w couples and women solo. I have found that while ONS have there place and are fun, I tend to enjoy an ongoing dynamic and have even enjoyed poly dynamics. Nothing is off the table w the right person or people. If you’re open to taking the next steps send me a message. I am also on the tele—-gram or K1K at GInVA21 xx

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Luke

47 years old, Straight

6'2" 188cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Men Women TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 65
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Watersports, Voyeurism, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Rimming, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Dogging, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

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*nJ4fun (50), Couple on 31 August 2023 by Meeting in person:
We had a very enjoyable evening with L, just drinks and chat. He is really interesting, an easy guy to chat to and very sexy too! Looking forward to next time when we hope to get him naked for some naughtiness.

*6r1ng3r (52), Man on 23 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
Soooo sexy. Meeting with C alone. We didn’t have long but that focuses the mind! I left with a big smile on my face!

*icofuqs (37), Man on 10 November 2020 by Meeting in person:
Came over all the way from the UK and was dying to taste some delicious American pussy and I found the best! These two are fit, friendly, very welcoming and.so down to earth. Had a chit chat over a drink and then his Mrs took me downstairs into their play room where she dropped too her knees and started gagging on my cock. My new wingman came down after and together we were making her squirt all over our cocks. Drenching the bed. From then on we were spit roasting her, taking turns pounding at each end as if we were trying to meet in the middle lol was awesome! What a girl! What a team! Thankyou for inviting me over and making my trip to the states one to remember. If you are lucky enough to get the chance to meet these two you’ll be sure to have an ace night like I did. Hope our paths cross again xx

*enson100 (41), Man on 6 November 2019 by Meeting in person:
Wow wow wow.....mrs loved the DP. What an amazing night we had spoiling this lovely sexy lady. She came so much it was unreal, thought she was gonna pass out at one stage . Until the next time

*enson100 (41), Man on 12 October 2019 by Meeting in person:
Genuine fun couple, treated with respect. Very good hosts and made me feel right at home. In the bedroom mrs came to life and enjoyed the Mmf fun. She tasted amazing . Sexy bod, great smell. Great fun . Well recommended. Thank you both for enjoyable evening

*urvyandCurious999 (42), Woman on 29 August 2019 by Meeting in person:
After chatting for most of the day, I met this sexy gentleman the same evening. He knows exactly what he wants and what he's doing and had me completely aroused and cumming hard. A VERY enjoyable evening! Until next time xxx

*uncreativecouple (38), Couple on 24 May 2019 by Meeting in person:
I’ve had the pleasure of meeting this gorgeous, sexy gentleman a few times now and have always had a thoroughly enjoyable evening. Very charming and attentive and so easy to talk to, with a naughty streak a mile wide ?? Very much looking forward to seeing him again xxx

*atchmade (53), Couple on 18 May 2019 by Meeting in person:
Met this wonderful couple at The Vanilla Alternative, several times now. Both of this pair are amazing, great laughs and drop dead sexy. See you again soon xxx

*rew322r (38), Man on 6 November 2018 by Meeting in person:
What an evening with these two! They are the perfect hosts, so welcoming and instantly made me feel comfortable. We had a glass of wine and got to know each other a little before heading upstairs for plenty of filthy fun. Christina is stunning! The perfect mixture of naughty but sensual, I couldn’t keep my hands off her. Intoxicating is definitely the right word to describe her and boy does she squirt! Luke is a really nice guy, very sociable and loves to see Christina enjoy herself. I’m so glad we’ve met and I’m sure that was just the first of many more evenings together. Thanks again guys, I look forward to our next meet! X

*layersdelight (51), Couple on 14 July 2018 by Meeting in person:
Well Friday 13 unlucky for some but not for us this gent turned up as he said he would with no agenda and no dramas. I was pleasantly surprised opening the door to find this tall dark handsome man with a sexy accent. As it was lunch time I was getting hungry and needed a sausage or two and he did not disappoint. I was treated to a glimse of his dominant side in the bedroom which was exciting and fun move over Mr Grey. This man knows his way around a woman and expertly kissing licking and teasing. Well he cettainly pressed all my buttons. Ladies you won't be disappointed I was left happy and fulfilled. Would defo see again. Thank you P n G x