adventurous and open minded couple

Couple in Ivybridge, South West, UK   TickOn mobile site

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We are a couple who love mixing two worlds that seem to struggle with each other - swinging and BDSM. So what we would like to find is others that enjoy, or would like to enjoy, bringing those two worlds together. Alone, they are both a lot of fun....together ? Mmmmmmmmm

The BDSM world is the one where we met. He is an older, tall, slim, fit Dominant (but occasionally switch) guy. He is laid back, intelligent and humorous, and gets as much pleasure out of giving pleasure as he does finding fun ways to ..... Chastise :-).

He is very bi curious and would love to explore Domming a guy, and possibly to subbing to the right male as well.

He is also a very skilled photographer with a full studio set up - so if you would like photos taken we would be more than happy to help :-)

She is a beautiful, sensual, bisexual switch. She is very sub with her man, but is learning (and is very good at) the art of topping females. She is much younger, with a sensational body and a wonderfully rude and open minded attitude.

We aren't FBs or play friends. We are in a full relationship (married June 2018). We have a home on the edge of dartmoor, and have a LOT of toys and furniture, such as a custom four poster frame on a super king bed, a cage, a leather and steel frame and much more. We have toys that can be very sensual and erotic or evil and nasty.....but are very good at knowing which are right with different people. We also have a very large cupboard of sex toys lol

So what are we looking for ?

Couples, who are either into the BDSM lifestyle, or who would like to explore it. We are gentle and patient teachers who love showing people just how sensual and fun BDSM can be. We respect limits and are extremely safety conscious. We don't go in for notches on the bed frame.....we would prefer to meet a couple or two and develop lasting and genuine friendships.....for us the sex and BDSM get that much better with the trust that develops that way.

We are also looking for single females who want to explore our world - so if you are bored with vanilla and want some spice and excitement come and say Hi

Finally...single guys. Yes we would love to hear from you....BUT....we are interested in bi guys who are also interested in or curious about BDSM. You can be sub or Dom, as we would like to explore both dynamics. If you decide to e mail us, we want to know more about this in your e mail or we will simply not respond.

So, hopefully having read this you are tempted to reply.....and we can't wait to hear from you



An addition. We are looking for something specific, so if you fit the bill, we would love to hear from you.

We would like to befriend and play with (regularly) a bi male. So, if you are

1) Bi (curious MIGHT suffice)

2) Have decent sized equipment

3) Are slim and ideally smooth skinned

4) Are into, or excited by the thought of, BDSM

5) would like to explore cuckold or double Dom scenarios

We would love to hear from you. We can accommodate, so distance is not an issue if you can travel.

Please send a decent, full message to get our attention.

Note - if you don't have bi and SM in your profile we are likely to believe you can't read and simply ignore you

Fingers crossed

Rob and Danni

Future Meets and Events


Club night on Saturday 18 March 2023 in South West: Chudleigh
At this meet looking for: F M MF MM FF TV/TS
We are hosting our first kink/fetish night at an amazing new venue. The event is open to all but please note it is not a swingers party it is a fetish event. We will be posting full details on the Club Utopia website soon. It’s £20 pp entry Any questions please feel free to message xx

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34 years old, Bisexual

5'4"  163cm
Non smoker
Don't drink
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings


56 years old, Bisexual

6'3"  191cm
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 50
Will meet smokers


Can accommodate
Can travel


Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, DP, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*heKinkySurfer (42), Man on 23 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
What a amazing breath of fresh air.. These guys are sooo lovely. Thoughtful kind and very relaxed, oh and very sexy. R is a very cool interesting guy who loves watching D enjoy herself. D…..She is absolutely gorgeous! mind and body!!! With a incredibly cheeky smile ;-) Thanks so much for inviting me into your home guys. Hopefully we hang out again really soon :-)

*oBeastly (42), Couple on 11 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
Our second meet with this delicious couple, so much intrigue lays ahead of things to come. Looking forward to the new year and making some more plans xx

*ussoAndLioness (31), Couple on 4 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
Delighted to have met this awesome duo on holiday in GC. Very much our kind of open and likeminded people, interesting, engaging and with a filthy outlook very much in parallel to our own. They definitely made our trip a lot more fun thus far and we’ll be sorry to see them go! Keep it kinky guys : )

*urreyNotSoNewbies (50), Couple on 4 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
Lovely to meet this attractive and interesting couple in Pdi. Couple of fun nights of cocktails and chat. Hope to bump into you again x

*laytime269 (45), Couple on 4 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met these two on a few occasions in PDI she is a stunning pocket rocket and he is such a lovely gentleman x conversation with these two is so easy and could talk for hours x we didn't get to play with these two but we can tell they would be a lot of fun x thanks for making our holiday great x

*ne night only 2021 (49), Couple on 11 November 2022 by Meeting in person:
What a fabulous time with R he knows his stuff T loved the shibari, wand and flogger hopefully meet his wife to next time

*irWrestlerPhilxxx (31), Man on 2 March 2022 by Meeting in person:
I have known this incredible couple for practically my entire kink time on the local kink scene, meeting them both regularly at kink events such as munches and clubs. Where does one start with regards to such a genuine and fantastic couple. D is a beautiful young lady with a personality and character that matches her figure, shes down to earth, kind caring soul. R is an absolute gentleman, very much see him as a role model on the kink scene, wise and experienced. Always great to chat to, hes also a talented photographer. Very much looking forward to seeing you both again at club Utopia. Respect them both and you'll have an experience to remember.

*lackkirk (42), Man on 1 March 2022 by Meeting in person:
After meeting D and R and really connected with this amazing couple! I was invited for lunch which turned into omg a sexy afternoon, still so much smile on my face after spending an afternoon with D while R was at work ;) So much to explore in the future :-) I cannot wait already :)

*lub Utopia (41), Couple on 24 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
Was absolutely amazing to see you both after so long ;-) so pleased you managed to join our first party in the new venue. Always brilliant to see them and looking forward to some rope and wine ;-) xx

*rankie-Marcus (30), Couple on 24 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
We met these guys at club utopia on Saturday & enjoyed talking to them... D has a twinkle in her eye that leaves you thinking & the Mr is very complimentary in trying to make you feel good about yourself... Lovely couple, if you get the opportunity for a chat don't pass it by.

*2play (48), Couple on 24 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
Been on our radar for a long time!so was really pleased and delighted to meet them at club utopia..easy to chat to and very very easy to the eye.loved chatting with this lovely couple hope our paths cross again...soon...xxxx

*estcountrykink8990 (33), Couple on 24 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
We met at Club Utopias first meeting back at the new venue. At first we sat, rather awkwardly trying to work out who was who from the group chat and fab profiles, eventually plucking up the courage to say hello and have a chat. What a great evening, talking to such a great couple! Very much hope to meet up soon for some naughty fun this time around.

*fruits (44), Couple on 24 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met D and R at club Utopia. Only got to chat but both are lovely and can hold a decent conversation. D is beautiful with a stunning smile. Hope to see you both again x

*lackkirk (42), Man on 11 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
First of all I'd like to say I'm still in cloud 9 with this couple. Oh wow!!! Having chatted through most of lockdown it was wonderful to finally meet D and R both very intelligent and we have so much in common, very easy on the eyes and straight up wonderful couple. We could have chatted all night as conversations flew so easily and we were very comfortable with each other ;). The evening ended with a very passionate kiss with D $-). I'm looking forward to meeting D again for a date and to discuss desires and limits. I'm so excited already and I cannot wait until next time ;)

*R MRS HOPEFUL (51), Couple on 22 January 2020 by Meeting in person:
Its so refreshing to meet people with similar interests in the swinging world. They share a love of bondage and photography too which we can't wait to explore. Thanks for being such sweet, genuine and sexy folk. Look forward to more games in the future xxx

*orny and dirty (52), Couple on 15 September 2019 by Meeting in person:
Meet up with this fantastic couple again at silks its always a real pleasure to see them and catch up both lovley sexy people we love how they have there ritual picnic on the lawns hope to see you both soon xxxx

*ittyandlion (49), Couple on 15 September 2019 by Meeting in person:
Finally and at last we met this enigmatic couple after years of messaging, remote flirts and mutual picture Fabbing. Our first time at Silks and a very big first for Kitty as she was charmed and disarmed into her first true experience of bondage. For her first ‘toe dip’ into BDSM Kitty could not have been in better hands, these two kinksters really know what they are doing and to say that Kitty was ‘mind blown’ would be an understatement. Thank you both for ‘handling’ the subject so marvellously xx

*tocksandShares (46), Couple on 31 August 2019 by Meeting in person:
We met this super sexy couple at a party last week and they are hot.. She is sexy as hell with a very cheeky glint in her eye and has a delicious body.. He is tall, dark, handsome and a little mysterious which we both really like.. We really look forward to meeting up again in a more personal environment so that we can enjoy a more intimate time together...xxx

*rincessandpacman (61), Couple on 30 August 2019 by Meeting in person:
...the pain!?...the pleasure!! Delightful couple...who certainly aim to please! xx

*xclusivelysilks (53), Man on 20 August 2019 by Meeting in person:
We once again had the pleasure of this fantastic couples company at one of our events. These guys are what this lifestyle is all about. Hot stunning and such fantastic company. If you get the opportunity to meet them grab it with open arms they don’t come any better. Thanks guys for a fantastic evening. Your absolutely yummy. Xxx

*carlet_69 (38), Couple on 24 June 2019 by Meeting in person:
Had a lovely kinky time with D in the dungeon at Silks, thanks for the assistance ;) lovely couple who we’d love to meet again!

*xclusivelysilks (53), Man on 24 June 2019 by Meeting in person:
Had the absolute pleasure of being in the company of these two lovely people. They are a fantastic team and I can’t say enough about them. One word says it all. PERFECT. Thank you for your continued support xxxxx

*0outof10couple (38), Couple on 23 June 2019 by Meeting in person:
Absolutely lovely couple who radiate great vibes. Masters of the dungeon and inducted us a little in the art which was so erotic to watch. These guys clearly love giving pleasure. Mr is confident and calming in his nature and Mrs has a real sparkle in her eye! Meet then and you will know what we mean! Xx

*onderWoman Clark Kunt (41), Couple on 26 May 2019 by Meeting in person:
Another great meet with what we can say are a gorgeous, sexy interesting couple. They played perfect hosts to what turned out to be a very erotic, sweaty exhausting experience with life drained from us all :) Their dungeon was a cave full of what only can be described as an awesome bit of kit. WW really loved the way R and D teased, tickled and took her into a new world of being controlled. A very hot, steamy session followed. Well worth the trip and will look forward to seeing these lovely people again Mwah x

*onderWoman Clark Kunt (41), Couple on 1 May 2019 by Meeting in person:
Lovely couple that caught our eye but we didn’t get the chance to get to know each other more. Now that we are chatting it seems we have much in common and much interest in each other. We are looking forward to seeing these in the very near future :) N & S x

*p4funlove (50), Couple on 29 April 2019 by Meeting in person:
We met these two at the latest Silks party on Saturday. They were great company and certainly up for a bit of fun. Didn’t get to play but there’s always next time ?? x

*xclusivelysilks (53), Man on 28 April 2019 by Meeting in person:
We met this hot couple at one of our events and we are so privileged they are fantastic company. He is a total gentleman and certainly has the sex appeal. She is stunning with a body to die for and the sexiest eyes and lips you would ever want. These guys have it all and we can’t wait to meet them again. Thank you guys for your support looking forward to touching base again soon your company is second to none. Silks xxx

*inkyquay (28), Couple on 20 March 2019 by Meeting in person:
Had a wonderful night with these gorgeous two, lovely people - had a really great giggle and fantastic conversation! Really can’t wait to spend more time together on Friday xxx

*akeyourseatsforlanding (44), Couple on 22 November 2017 by Meeting in person:
I can honestly say that I can now die happy! I had the pleasure (and pain!) of spending an evening of debaucherous fun with R and D. Hot, filthy, depraved and more. Until next time...xx

*ovely kinky (32), Couple on 29 June 2016 by Meeting in person:
It's really difficult to put into words how amazing these two are. It's not often that I'm overwhelmed but their kinkiness and sexiness blew me away. R was so stunning and had a figure that I couldn't keep my hands off. Both beautiful people inside and out. We both feel really lucky to have met them xxx

*ammieandalex12 (30), Couple on 25 May 2016 by Meeting in person:
after meeting these guys the first time, It was hard to imagine it getting any better, we were treated to great food followed by an evening in the hot tub before heading upstairs into their amazing dungeon. There was no hiding our excitement when we saw the huge collection of kinky toys, it's safe to say we loved getting to try them all out in such great 'hands' :p this was soon followed by a truly sensual and erotic time in the bedroom that has left us grinning all day. Meeting these guys has been an absolute pleasure and is making leaving the south west for a while a whole lot harder. Really can't wait to see you both again. Thanks for such a lovely night, Sam and Alex xxx

*uff567 (27), Couple on 11 May 2016 by Meeting in person:
Went to this wonderful couples house for our second meet, they introduced us to their "dungeon" which was a lot of fun. Both of the couple know exactly what amount of play is perfect and can read body language fantastically! D looked absolutely stunning and L had a great time with both R&D. Can't wait to see how much fun we'll have next time, thanks again guys!! Xx

*ammieandalex12 (30), Couple on 4 May 2016 by Meeting in person:
We are literally lost for words! So what started with the most amazing food was soon over shone by this beautiful pair. We spent the evening chatting away like we had been friends years and was so excited to get invited back to there hotel for the most sensual, exciting and relaxing night of our lives. We are new to exploring BDSM but never felt in better hands as they teased, seduced and drove us wild with lovely cuddles to follow. Thank you so much for a great night and can't wait to see what you have in store for us next time! Sam and Alex xx

*uff567 (27), Couple on 28 April 2016 by Meeting in person:
Finally got to meet this exciting couple after a few weeks of exchanging messages. R&D are one of the most genuine couples you'll come across! They are an intriguing and sexy couple, and we can't wait to get to know them even better!! ;) xxx

*ennysunnie (32), Couple on 24 February 2016 by Meeting in person:
Wow, what can I say about these guys that we didn't say before. This was our second meet with Rob & Danni and oh my they are truly fantastic! After a quick drink and a catch up we swiftly headed back to our room to let the fun begin, and wow what an evening of playing, teasing, cumming & swapping! Both Kenny and myself had such a fabulous evening with you both, and we really can't wait to see you again, and thank you for joining us for such a fantastic night! Xxx

*ennysunnie (32), Couple on 22 January 2016 by Meeting in person:
This was our first foursome, and we were both definitely a little nervous beforehand: but we really didn't need to be. R & D stepped into the breach when another couple were unable to make it, and we were so pleased that they did. Our evening started in a bar, where conversation was easy, and we both felt very comfortable with them. After a drink, and a subtle flash by the knickerless Sunnie, we headed to our room. Without going into the details, it was fantastic! Lots of exploring, sharing, and cumming, with no one left out at all. They are a fantastic couple, and we are already trying to find dates for our next adventure. In summary: Wow!! Thanks guys xx

*y_Kink_Fun (32), Man on 8 December 2015 by Meeting in person:
Cy met this amazing pair whilst they were down in Brighton, had a lovely social coffee and before we knew it we were back to their hotel room, Danni dressed in delicious lingerie waiting on the bed for us, hours of fun followed with Danni feeling appropriately used and sore by the end of it. Fantastic meet, Rob is such a gent and relaxed the entire time and Danni is the most delicious thing I've laid eyes on in recent years, do not pass up an opportunity to meet these guys , can't wait to see the pictures ??

*ust_us69 (38), Couple on 18 August 2014 by Meeting in person:
Words cannot describe what a lovely time we had together,even if it was just over a drink...or ice cream :) They are a really nice couple and we can't wait to see what happens next... xx

*essalina94 (28), Woman on 28 January 2014 by Meeting in person:
Two great friends of mine, both are absolutely gorgeous, lovely, wonderful people that you will want to spend every minute playing with or simply hanging out with. Sexy, delicious and fun as well as just being fantastic in every way!

*ames-victoria (36), Couple on 13 October 2013 by Meeting in person:
WOW. Had our very first experience together Saturday and it couldn't of been any better. They both made us feel very relaxed and we had a fantastic time! R was very easy to chat with, handsome, funny and really enjoyed being around him. D is very sexy and has a FANTASTIC body! Very much looking forward to meeting again and hopefully Vic and D can go a bit further ;-) Lovely couple indeed xxx

*ames-victoria (36), Couple on 13 October 2013 by Meeting in person:
WOW. Had our very first experience together Saturday and it couldn't of been any better. They both made us feel very relaxed and we had a fantastic time! R was very easy to chat with, handsome, funny and really enjoyed being around him. D is very sexy and has a FANTASTIC body! Very much looking forward to meeting again and hopefully Vic and D can go a bit further ;-) Lovely couple indeed xxx

*ildswimmers (49), Couple on 28 April 2013 by Meeting in person:
Okay here is the thing!!!!! This gorgeous couple are utterly wonderful, we have met them a few times now and it just gets better and better, more intense and experimental!!!! Confident, free spirited and so so sexy, they are sensational company and we look forward to our friendship and sexual journey continuing!! Thank you both xxxxxxx

*omegetustigers (40), Couple on 19 January 2013 by Meeting in person:
Just met R and D for chilled out drinks and had an absolute ball. We had a very in-depth (and frankly eye-opening) conversation with them, felt utterly comfortable in their company and would happily meet them again any time. Love them to bits, thanks 'Sir' and 'Little One'.... ;-) XxXx

*ildswimmers (49), Couple on 22 October 2012 by Meeting in person:
Wow!!!!! We joined this lovely couple to attebd a very glamorous and decadent party in London at the weekend and had just a brilliant time. They are both friendly, intelligent, articulate and soooo sexy!!! We clicked on every level and enjoyed some naughtiness with them in different rooms!!! D has a wonderfully responsive and sexy body, gorgeous boobs and such a sexy smile, R is a great bloke, lovely to be around and a great cock (mmmm xxxx) We hope to be lucky enough to meet them again sometime soon to continue where we left off!!! Thank you both xxxxx

*ildswimmers (49), Couple on 19 September 2012 by Meeting in person:
We had the pleasure of meeting this very attractive, sexy and playful couple for a very illuminating and eye opening few hours last night and had just a great time. With our eyes wide open we cant wait to follow their sexy arses down the path and into the unknown!! xxxx

*roticRA (30), Couple on 15 July 2012 by Meeting in person:
WE met this so friendly, sociable sexy couple at abfab's as meeting point and glad WE did so, and look forward to seeing them very soon and keep in touch... xx