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"The majority response here will be; look for greedy girl events where solo guys ARE actually wanted in clubs. Just take your ticket and wait in line…..  "
That is so not the case even at GG events. I suggest you put your tin hat on! |
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"The majority response here will be; look for greedy girl events where solo guys ARE actually wanted in clubs. Just take your ticket and wait in line….. "
Yeah and lines are always long lol and have lots or patience |
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"The majority response here will be; look for greedy girl events where solo guys ARE actually wanted in clubs. Just take your ticket and wait in line…..
Yeah and lines are always long lol and have lots or patience "
I’ve never actually attended one of these style events, but the majority response for single guys asking about clubs is to look for one of these “where single guys are in demand”…….Have you been to a few, would you recommend them? Should I take a book to read in the queue lol?  |
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"I like Jaydees, for me it's the most sociable and single guys can go on Saturdays."
It would be nice to visit Jaydees, as they do genuinely seem to make single guys feel welcome, and included, especially with the option for a Saturday night available |
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"I’d be interested to hear what people think are the best clubs for straight single males, any tips and advice. "
Pleasures club in Kent welcomes single guys on a Friday night.
We were there last week and it was mostly couples with horny wives and very few single guys!
Other weeks it can be the opposite
Kestrels (Heathrow) on a Sunday can be a lot of fun and welcomes single guys. |
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What are your main considerations:
Distance
Price for single males
Ease of admittance policy
Membership v no membership
Male:female and/or couples ratio
Single male facilities
Dress down or not
The amount of areas open to single males in the club
Spa facilities
Reputation of the quality of males who attended (this may effect the expectations and default warmth to how other women and couples treat you initially)
Maybe pick your top three or just give us a better feel for what you want from a club night as a single male. All clubs are different and many of these points don't necessarily go hand in hand with some of the others.
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By *abioMan 13 weeks ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"I’d be interested to hear what people think are the best clubs for straight single males, any tips and advice. "
Whenever I hear this question… and the way it is posed…. I always hear in my head “what is the best club for getting my leg over maximum return for minimum effort!”
So… home truths time!
To be honest.. no club is better than another… different nights in clubs will tend to try to attract and cater to different people
Do your research and diligence!
Don’t just go round a club not saying boo to a goose! If you are adult enough to go a club then you are adult enough to go and talk to people
Go with an open mind and no expectations…..
Time, patience, basic common sense… anything other than that you learn from being the best you you can be!!! |
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"I’d be interested to hear what people think are the best clubs for straight single males, any tips and advice.
The local nightclub "
They have all been put out of business by late opening bars .. |
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You should go to a club night where the demographic will enable you to meet the kinds of people you want to meet.
If you want to meet “greedy girls” (such an ick phrase) then go to those nights.
If you want to meet a different type of woman, go to the nights when she’s likely to go. |
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"I’d be interested to hear what people think are the best clubs for straight single males, any tips and advice.
The local nightclub
They have all been put out of business by late opening bars .. "
To be fair; you’ll meet more women in your average Weatherspoons than you will in a swinger club…. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"I’d be interested to hear what people think are the best clubs for straight single males, any tips and advice.
The local nightclub
They have all been put out of business by late opening bars ..
To be fair; you’ll meet more women in your average Weatherspoons than you will in a swinger club…. "
Agree. Earlier in the night is definitely the time to make your move lol |
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"In my personal experience Libs elite and VA hold the best events for single men...sheer indulgence, hot wife and what women want are the best events for single men."
Totally disagree with this.
Last hotwife event we went to there they had a bout 6 single guys and 50 odd couples.
Felt very cliquey. |
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"In my personal experience Libs elite and VA hold the best events for single men...sheer indulgence, hot wife and what women want are the best events for single men.
Totally disagree with this.
Last hotwife event we went to there they had a bout 6 single guys and 50 odd couples.
Felt very cliquey. "
You went as a couple though, not as a single guy, so your experience of the event was from a different side of the fence. I imagine it was a great night for the few single guys in there, and what a refreshing change that must have been for them….. |
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"In my personal experience Libs elite and VA hold the best events for single men...sheer indulgence, hot wife and what women want are the best events for single men."
Your verifications back this up mate, and fair play to you! Great to hear some clubs actually make single guys so welcome!  |
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"In my personal experience Libs elite and VA hold the best events for single men...sheer indulgence, hot wife and what women want are the best events for single men."
We're certainly hoping there will be a good selection of guys there for our visit to the indulgence event on 3rd may |
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"In my personal experience Libs elite and VA hold the best events for single men...sheer indulgence, hot wife and what women want are the best events for single men.
Totally disagree with this.
Last hotwife event we went to there they had a bout 6 single guys and 50 odd couples.
Felt very cliquey. "
That's not really a hot wife event! |
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The last Dangerous Curves I went to at Liberty Elite was packed with single women and couples, many of whom were looking for single guys. Only 15 guys had registered for the event, and half didn't show up.
The last What Women Want I attended at the VA was at least 60% women as well, if not more.
So the myth perpetuated that club nights are overrun with single guys all running around competing against each other is bollocks.
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I’d say clubs that limit the number of single males. You’re far more likely to play if you’re 1 of 10 vs 1 of 50.
Ime the single guys who play the most are the ones that make the effort on the social side, that can have a laugh and make people feel comfortable. The ones that hang around the playrooms are off putting for a lot of people |
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By *bi HaiveMan 5 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I’d say clubs that limit the number of single males. You’re far more likely to play if you’re 1 of 10 vs 1 of 50.
Ime the single guys who play the most are the ones that make the effort on the social side, that can have a laugh and make people feel comfortable. The ones that hang around the playrooms are off putting for a lot of people"
The numbers won't help if those 10 guys aren't what any women and couples are seeking though.
A sociable, respectful guy will have opportunities in a club regardless of numbers. |
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"The last Dangerous Curves I went to at Liberty Elite was packed with single women and couples, many of whom were looking for single guys. Only 15 guys had registered for the event, and half didn't show up.
The last What Women Want I attended at the VA was at least 60% women as well, if not more.
So the myth perpetuated that club nights are overrun with single guys all running around competing against each other is bollocks.
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I’ve been to several clubs, and I can honestly say, I never felt in the minority as a solo guy, on any occasion. Quite the opposite…. 
I’ve never been to Libs or the VA though…. |
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"The last Dangerous Curves I went to at Liberty Elite was packed with single women and couples, many of whom were looking for single guys. Only 15 guys had registered for the event, and half didn't show up.
The last What Women Want I attended at the VA was at least 60% women as well, if not more.
So the myth perpetuated that club nights are overrun with single guys all running around competing against each other is bollocks.
I’ve been to several clubs, and I can honestly say, I never felt in the minority as a solo guy, on any occasion. Quite the opposite….
I’ve never been to Libs or the VA though…. "
Maybe you should give it a try especially on the 3rd of may  |
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By *abioMan 4 weeks ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"The last Dangerous Curves I went to at Liberty Elite was packed with single women and couples, many of whom were looking for single guys. Only 15 guys had registered for the event, and half didn't show up.
The last What Women Want I attended at the VA was at least 60% women as well, if not more.
So the myth perpetuated that club nights are overrun with single guys all running around competing against each other is bollocks.
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The other issue is that too many will only go if they think they are “guaranteed” something because of what is asked money wise.. And a particular night is only judged of whether they played or not
It’s a case of forgetting what the “social” in socialising means!
The amount of single guys I have seen complaining there is nothing going on to other single guys, but when you ask if they have actually tried to talk to couples or women… it’s like crickets!
I know it’s said a lot, what’s the quickest way for a single guy to stand out.. go round and say hello and talk to everyone!
It’s so true, and it’s so simple! |
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I agree with Fabio, and I can give you a very clear example, from my most recent visit to Kestrels with my FWB. I am going to concentrate on 2 guys only as they stood out the most.
1- kept sitting near us without saying a word, kept flashing his cock and wanking near us, making zero effort to engage with us.
2- asked if we minded if he sat near us, introduced himself and got chatting, his hands nowhere near his cock. We even found a common topic, a club that he went to and I was interested in.
Guess which one got invited to play? |
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By *entenTeaCouple 4 weeks ago
Buckley North Wales |
"I agree with Fabio, and I can give you a very clear example, from my most recent visit to Kestrels with my FWB. I am going to concentrate on 2 guys only as they stood out the most.
1- kept sitting near us without saying a word, kept flashing his cock and wanking near us, making zero effort to engage with us.
2- asked if we minded if he sat near us, introduced himself and got chatting, his hands nowhere near his cock. We even found a common topic, a club that he went to and I was interested in.
Guess which one got invited to play? "
You have hit the nail on the head!
There is huge difference between the wanking wonders and the social guys. We have certain male friends that we miss when we don't see them at a club night.
Swinging is, in our experience, 90% social 10% sex. Both are great fun. But you can't get to the 10% with out the 90%. So get out there, mingle, chat and flirt. |
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"The last Dangerous Curves I went to at Liberty Elite was packed with single women and couples, many of whom were looking for single guys. Only 15 guys had registered for the event, and half didn't show up.
The last What Women Want I attended at the VA was at least 60% women as well, if not more.
So the myth perpetuated that club nights are overrun with single guys all running around competing against each other is bollocks.
I’ve been to several clubs, and I can honestly say, I never felt in the minority as a solo guy, on any occasion. Quite the opposite….
I’ve never been to Libs or the VA though….
Maybe you should give it a try especially on the 3rd of may "
If I ever see an opportunity to be down that way, I will definitely be trying both venues. I've been to 8 clubs so far, two more on my tally would be a chuckle |
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"In my personal experience Libs elite and VA hold the best events for single men...sheer indulgence, hot wife and what women want are the best events for single men.
Totally disagree with this.
Last hotwife event we went to there they had a bout 6 single guys and 50 odd couples.
Felt very cliquey.
You went as a couple though, not as a single guy, so your experience of the event was from a different side of the fence. I imagine it was a great night for the few single guys in there, and what a refreshing change that must have been for them….. "
You would imagine, but actually the single guys were all clearly already with couples that they seemed to know very well. |
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"In my personal experience Libs elite and VA hold the best events for single men...sheer indulgence, hot wife and what women want are the best events for single men.
Totally disagree with this.
Last hotwife event we went to there they had a bout 6 single guys and 50 odd couples.
Felt very cliquey.
You went as a couple though, not as a single guy, so your experience of the event was from a different side of the fence. I imagine it was a great night for the few single guys in there, and what a refreshing change that must have been for them…..
You would imagine, but actually the single guys were all clearly already with couples that they seemed to know very well. "
Well I would have loved to have been that stranger in the crowd, hoping to meet a couple like you  |
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"The last Dangerous Curves I went to at Liberty Elite was packed with single women and couples, many of whom were looking for single guys. Only 15 guys had registered for the event, and half didn't show up.
The last What Women Want I attended at the VA was at least 60% women as well, if not more.
So the myth perpetuated that club nights are overrun with single guys all running around competing against each other is bollocks.
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Exactly what I've been saying for awhile now. When I started going to clubs there were a lot more single guys at various events I've been to. Gradually the % is getting less and less.
I've messaged a certain London club on here about a year ago and the organiser basically said they don't handle applications on fabs and that I should email. No reply and I'm not the only one.
Trying to convince a few mates to come with me but they are put off by cost, excessive obstacle/rules and general feeling that they're not wanted at these venues. A lot of the clubs I've attended over the last year or so could do with a few more single men. |
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