Hey, what advice would you guys offer for me being nervous to go to a club??
CJ’s in Glasgow is the closest but still 3 hours away. Is it worth it? Would this open my eyes to new things? Etc etc. I’ve unfortunately got a ‘seedy’ vision in my head and it’s bugging me.
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By *ukaMan 3 weeks ago
Dunstable |
Absolutely go to a club! The first time you do, your anxiety will be through the roof. But as Baz Lurman said "do one thing each day that scares you". The excitement of walking to the door of the club not knowing what's inside is part of the experience.
I'm normally quite a quiet sort of guy but in a club you don't have to worry about what people think of you.
Do it, enjoy it and love it! |
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By *oxesMan 3 weeks ago
Southend, Essex |
I love clubs or gives me a chance for a night out meet people and If I'm lucky maybe I will get to play or watch people playing.
My advice is don't be stranger talk to People network. If you don't talk you you won't get to play you never know you might make freinds for lifr
I would also say that playing is no garebtee and that sex is not a certainly bit an entitlement. |
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CJs is a good first club. Not seedy, very clean and welcoming. You’ll get a tour of the club as a first timer then introduced to one or two of the regulars before let loose. Try to socialise downstairs, have a drink(don’t get wankered) chat to folk and things will happen. Go upstairs, look in the playrooms, you might be invited to join in. Nobody bites, we’ve all walked through that door for a first time too, I almost ran back out it after half an hour my first ever visit. Yes it’s worth the three hour trip. |
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