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By *a and ka
Couple (MF) 48 weeks ago
Birmingham |
Having read a great deal of posts on this wonderful site over the years asking for a 'bisexual search option' we thought we'd suggest an idea!
We totally understand that the way the site is set up there is no way of the search software telling which is the male and which is the female, so the bisexual search option just wouldn't work for finding Bi-couples .....
So how about having a separate forum for bisexual couples??
This way we could find each other a lot easier, instead of the hours of searching that we currently have to go through!
We would like to say that this is in no way a criticism of this wonderful site, we love it and will continue to be staunch supporters of FAB 
So like we said, just a thought - Forum for Bi-Couples ..... It's not that much to ask for is it .... Come on, the Welsh have their own!!  |
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By *ucksam
Man 48 weeks ago
Walsall |
"Having read a great deal of posts on this wonderful site over the years asking for a 'bisexual search option' we thought we'd suggest an idea!
We totally understand that the way the site is set up there is no way of the search software telling which is the male and which is the female, so the bisexual search option just wouldn't work for finding Bi-couples .....
So how about having a separate forum for bisexual couples??
This way we could find each other a lot easier, instead of the hours of searching that we currently have to go through!
We would like to say that this is in no way a criticism of this wonderful site, we love it and will continue to be staunch supporters of FAB
So like we said, just a thought - Forum for Bi-Couples ..... It's not that much to ask for is it .... Come on, the Welsh have their own!! "
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Where would it end? Room for bbws and their admirers? Coffee and cream rooms? Tv/ts room?
I can fully understand regional rooms but I don't how segregating would work or help keep the cohesion of the site. |
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Would it not still be full of single guys looking to meet bi couples and half bi or straight couples going on looking to meet one or both of genuinely bi couples?
I can understand the idealism but I think enforcing it would be impossible |
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Would it be possible to provide a brief description of what the person or couple are looking for in the chat rooms i.e. M F or MF to avoid the embarrassment of checking out profiles of guys or couples and then getting blocked for doing so? |
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Or they could just implement a new search facility, tell everyone and let them update their profiles. Whilst the only way to add a search taht would do what people want requires people to update their profiles it doesn't follow that they would not do so. If they're willing to post about the subject then they're willing to change their profiles.
I don't think the forum would hurt but it wouldn't come close to just improving the search facility. |
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By *heRainMan
Man 46 weeks ago
Warrington & Glasgow |
"Would it be possible to provide a brief description of what the person or couple are looking for in the chat rooms i.e. M F or MF to avoid the embarrassment of checking out profiles of guys or couples and then getting blocked for doing so?"
I suspect that it they block you, just for looking at their profile, they probably aren't the type of people you'd be interested in, in the first place!  |
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By *owie
Man 46 weeks ago
Dundee, Arbroath |
"Wot a great idea.we have great trouble finning bi couples as so many men insisted on putting down straight ..grr! Grow a pair of balls men and fess up! "
An option of 'Bi (oral only)' might entice a few to fess up. I am not attracted to and have no interest in men so I say I am straight.
But in some meets I will be receptive to giving and receiving oral with a guy.
Putting myself as bi on a site like this just means I join the masses that get guys abusing them for saying no thanks. Even if I explain in profile what situation I might lean towards a bi act. |
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"Wot a great idea.we have great trouble finning bi couples as so many men insisted on putting down straight ..grr! Grow a pair of balls men and fess up!
An option of 'Bi (oral only)' might entice a few to fess up. I am not attracted to and have no interest in men so I say I am straight.
But in some meets I will be receptive to giving and receiving oral with a guy.
Putting myself as bi on a site like this just means I join the masses that get guys abusing them for saying no thanks. Even if I explain in profile what situation I might lean towards a bi act."
That's another mine field though. I'm bi-oral but only giving (odd way round I know but I really don't like watching another guy go down on me) and I very rarely fancy going down on another guy. Better just to stick down what you think is closest to your sexuality and explain in more detail on your profile what you're into |
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By *hriswill
Couple (MF) 46 weeks ago
Near Cambridge |
We whole heartedly agree, there should be more provision on this site for us that enjoy the bi side of life. Maybe a 'bisexual' option in the search or browse section or a 'bi only' filter, similar to the smoking/non-smoking one??
If you are like us and both bisexual, all you have to do is get in touch and we can deal with the rest.
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"Wouldn't the easiest way to implement a simple solution be to include a new interest, for example 'Both bi'. Then it would be really easy to search for bi couples?
What do you think admin?"
Any update from admin on this idea? |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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It is about time Fab makes the step and treats us Bi's to equality.
We can search for someone into adult parties to watersports in any postcode, but to search for a bi couple, bi guy or bi female we need to trawl through the profiles
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Having read a great deal of posts on this wonderful site over the years asking for a 'bisexual search option' we thought we'd suggest an idea!
We totally understand that the way the site is set up there is no way of the search software telling which is the male and which is the female, so the bisexual search option just wouldn't work for finding Bi-couples .....
So how about having a separate forum for bisexual couples??
This way we could find each other a lot easier, instead of the hours of searching that we currently have to go through!
We would like to say that this is in no way a criticism of this wonderful site, we love it and will continue to be staunch supporters of FAB
So like we said, just a thought - Forum for Bi-Couples ..... It's not that much to ask for is it .... Come on, the Welsh have their own!! "
We told you where to find us darlings
K&A
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By *a and ka
Couple (MF) 44 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"Having read a great deal of posts on this wonderful site over the years asking for a 'bisexual search option' we thought we'd suggest an idea!
We totally understand that the way the site is set up there is no way of the search software telling which is the male and which is the female, so the bisexual search option just wouldn't work for finding Bi-couples .....
So how about having a separate forum for bisexual couples??
This way we could find each other a lot easier, instead of the hours of searching that we currently have to go through!
We would like to say that this is in no way a criticism of this wonderful site, we love it and will continue to be staunch supporters of FAB
So like we said, just a thought - Forum for Bi-Couples ..... It's not that much to ask for is it .... Come on, the Welsh have their own!!
We told you where to find us darlings
K&A
xxx xxx "
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"Would it not still be full of single guys looking to meet bi couples and half bi or straight couples going on looking to meet one or both of genuinely bi couples?
I can understand the idealism but I think enforcing it would be impossible"
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"Where would it end? Room for bbws and their admirers? Coffee and cream rooms? Tv/ts room?
I can fully understand regional rooms but I don't how segregating would work or help keep the cohesion of the site. "
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By *rTongue
Man 44 weeks ago
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As a single bi fella, I find it really difficult to find couples with a bi male. Surely an amendment to the search function would be quite easy. Although from the endless crawling it doesn't seem there are that many couples with a bi guy in my area. Which is a pity!  |
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By *SandJ
Couple (MF) 44 weeks ago
Bristol |
"Wouldn't the easiest way to implement a simple solution be to include a new interest, for example 'Both bi'. Then it would be really easy to search for bi couples?
What do you think admin?"
WOW what a simple idea, go for it FAB
PLEASE |
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By *bi haive
Man 44 weeks ago
Here, There & Everywhere, SW |
"Wot a great idea.we have great trouble finning bi couples as so many men insisted on putting down straight ..grr! Grow a pair of balls men and fess up!
An option of 'Bi (oral only)' might entice a few to fess up. I am not attracted to and have no interest in men so I say I am straight.
But in some meets I will be receptive to giving and receiving oral with a guy.
Putting myself as bi on a site like this just means I join the masses that get guys abusing them for saying no thanks. Even if I explain in profile what situation I might lean towards a bi act."
Well - you sound similar to me - and I've never had abuse - from guys, couples or single ladies!
I've listed myself as curious (although past that!) and clearly described what I'm looking for in my profile (although I suspect my profile name also gives a hint!) and avoid contacting anyone with 'no bi guys' in their text!
If you make it obvious regarding your limits - you should have no problems! Half the guys listing themselves are straight that later claim a level of 'bi-ness' either are too embarrassed to be open - or are worried it'll impact on their chances of meeting straight folk.
Oh - and should a 'bi' search option ever appear it would benefit the bi singles as much as the couples - and also those not seeking bi as they could possibly choose to exclude in the same way other filters can be set!
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Half the guys listing themselves are straight that later claim a level of 'bi-ness' ..... are worried it'll impact on their chances of meeting straight folk.
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