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I don’t know if you have posted this for actual advice, or to see which women reply that might be interested in helping you out with it but, no it won’t hurt (quite the opposite) if; 1. You have cleaned and “prepared” beforehand (if you know what I mean by “prepare”, then that’s cool - if you need clarification, let me know). 2. You start with something small. 3. You use plenty of lube. 4. You go slow. |
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Preparation is the key to success. As above start small, some pillows for support can help certain positions, if its hurting take a break/try a different position and the golden rule; lube, lube, lube. Of you think you have enough lube, add more lube  |
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If you’re worrying about it hurting, it’s guaranteed to hurt as you won’t be relaxed, so concentrate on the scenario and why you’re doing it: to be taking, for her to be in charge etc and enjoy it. |
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"Yes I think I need to stop worrying and just find a willing lady to help out with my fantasy"
There’s absolutely nothing for you to worry about. Maybe give it a go when you’re on your own, just so you know what to expect. You’ll be able to practice and perfect your preparation and cleanliness routine too. |
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You're trying to put something in your arse that does not exactly belong there. Therefore, if you're not prepared and relaxed enough, then of course it is going to hurt. Also, if you try to straight away put big toys in there, you're setting yourself for a fail. However, pegging can give you amazing experience and strong orgasms if you persevere.
As it was said above, ask the person doing the pegging to allow you to take your time and take it at your own pace- the spoons position works well, or the one with you on top. The latter one, however, can be uncomfortable for the strap on wearer as the base of the strap on can dig into their pubic bone.
Use good lube, make sure it's one compatible with the strap on you're using. Also, using some relaxant that you breathe in (can't use their name here as against forum rules? can help you relax.
All in all, enjoy. |
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