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"I have good and bad days. " ,,, you have a nice figure  | |||
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"nope im happy with the body i have "Very nice! | |||
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"I miss the time when I thought I was fat. Now I actually am, I wish I'd have had more confidence then. I think body confidence issues stick with those that have them regardless of shape/size/physique "I think you’re right. I think as you get older you start to care less what other people think, and that helps a bit. If people don't like you for what you are, they can do one | |||
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Apart from that, I do love my body!
Miss S x | |||
"I miss the time when I thought I was fat. Now I actually am, I wish I'd have had more confidence then. I think body confidence issues stick with those that have them regardless of shape/size/physique
I think you’re right. I think as you get older you start to care less what other people think, and that helps a bit.
If people don't like you for what you are, they can do one "We should only care about what ourselves think right ? Self love | |||
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My body has changed a lot since my 2nd child, I'm bigger than I've ever been, I'm not sure how to dress for my current size & the reflection in the mirror is alien.
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My body has changed a lot since my 2nd child, I'm bigger than I've ever been, I'm not sure how to dress for my current size & the reflection in the mirror is alien.
Mrs "Sorry to hear that gorgeous lady…. Hopefully your confidence reflects your sexy photos again x | |||
"I’m confident with mine now, it’s not what it once was but I’ve accepted that’s how it is, could I make it better, yes but can’t be arsed I’ve got more exciting things to be doing." Got to keep the balance  | |||
"I sometimes wish I had a flatter stomach but hey it grew my daughter so I always remind myself of that
Apart from that, I do love my body!
Miss S x"Love yourself first x | |||
"I'm pretty much there now with liking my body. I've lost 6.5st and am the slimmest I've been since I was in year 9 at school 23 years ago. There's a couple of bits that I'm not totally happy with, but am working on them. "Very impressive | |||
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"Poor especially of late "Hopefully it will return | |||
"I wish my body didn't hurt so yes i wish i had my pre kids body back." The aches as we age  | |||
"Sometimes mine is okay... other times not so. Today is a not so day.. Cali " Here’s to a better day tomorrow | |||
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"I was pretty ripped about ten year ago, but age will do this to you I suppose. I’m carrying more weight than I did (if you can believe it) You can’t turn back time. Embrace what you’ve got and strive for what you want I suppose. "You still look good  | |||
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"I miss my 17 year old body. I thought I was fat and ugly back then (thanks, first Boyfriend!) but looking back, God, I was HHHAAAWWWTTT! "Well you certainly still look HHHAAAAWWWWWWTTTTTTTTTT! From where I’m looking | |||
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"I'm a bit fatter than I'd like at the moment but I'm still carrying a lot of muscle and I'm strong and healthy so I can't complain too much. But to quote Jimmy Carr, I don't have a slow metabolism, just very fast chip eating hands. " Got to love Jimmy Carr ha | |||
"I've always been fat. I've had a belly apron at the bottom since I had my son (I was 16) and my boobs sagged after that (as well as other bits of me). I've never been especially happy with my body. I mainly like my face. I don't think I'm especially pretty but my eyes are decent and I have good skin. I'm not hugely keen on how I look but also am not particularly bothered about other people's opinions on it. If people like it, great. If they don't, tough. " How you feel is what’s important not others | |||
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Maybe hates a strong word. Intensely dislike the majority of it, is maybe more accurate | |||
"I positively hate my body if that counts??
Maybe hates a strong word. Intensely dislike the majority of it, is maybe more accurate "Well I think it’s great …. But that’s just my opinion | |||
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"Body like a melted welly. Changing it is a slow process. Menopause weight seems to be harder to shift "“Melted welly” that’s a new one. I must be a couple or pairs of ‘em. | |||
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"I’m where I am, I know why, and I know I gotta change it. I just gotta stop being a bellend and get on with it. " Definitely this.... | |||
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"I miss the time when I thought I was fat. Now I actually am, I wish I'd have had more confidence then. I think body confidence issues stick with those that have them regardless of shape/size/physique "I wouldn't really consider you to be fat. | |||
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"I positively hate my body if that counts??
Maybe hates a strong word. Intensely dislike the majority of it, is maybe more accurate
Well I think it’s great …. But that’s just my opinion " | |||
"In normal clothes I’m not always of fan of my body but I lingerie I love it most of the time! But can’t be walking round the local supermarket like it "Who says you can’t | |||
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"I was pretty ripped about ten year ago, but age will do this to you I suppose. I’m carrying more weight than I did (if you can believe it) You can’t turn back time. Embrace what you’ve got and strive for what you want I suppose.
You still look good "Thank you. But we know how this works, in ten years, I’ll wish I had the body I have now. | |||
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"I was pretty ripped about ten year ago, but age will do this to you I suppose. I’m carrying more weight than I did (if you can believe it) You can’t turn back time. Embrace what you’ve got and strive for what you want I suppose.
You still look good
Thank you.
But we know how this works, in ten years, I’ll wish I had the body I have now. "Well yeah that's true lol... id like the body I had in my teens... instead I just look like I ate myself  .... | |||
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"I'm fairly comfortable with the I look most times. I genuinely think I look ok for a 49 year old who loves a beer and kebab " You look fab | |||
"Maybe around 3-4 years ago I would look in the mirror and think I’m not as fat as I was. Now I’m just fat and have no confidence, and don’t look in the mirror! "Looks good to me as always x | |||
"I'm fairly comfortable with the I look most times. I genuinely think I look ok for a 49 year old who loves a beer and kebab You look fab "I'll take all the compliments I can get. | |||
"Maybe around 3-4 years ago I would look in the mirror and think I’m not as fat as I was. Now I’m just fat and have no confidence, and don’t look in the mirror! "Looking fine to me | |||
"Maybe around 3-4 years ago I would look in the mirror and think I’m not as fat as I was. Now I’m just fat and have no confidence, and don’t look in the mirror!
Looks good to me as always x "Thank you x | |||
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"Maybe around 3-4 years ago I would look in the mirror and think I’m not as fat as I was. Now I’m just fat and have no confidence, and don’t look in the mirror!
Looking fine to me "Thank you x | |||
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"I'm fairly comfortable with the I look most times. I genuinely think I look ok for a 49 year old who loves a beer and kebab You look fab
I'll take all the compliments I can get.
"Mwah x | |||
"I'm fairly comfortable with the I look most times. I genuinely think I look ok for a 49 year old who loves a beer and kebab You look fab
I'll take all the compliments I can get.
Mwah x"Why can't you be closer lol | |||
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"I'm fairly comfortable with the I look most times. I genuinely think I look ok for a 49 year old who loves a beer and kebab You look fab
I'll take all the compliments I can get.
Mwah x
Why can't you be closer lol"I know ... fabs law | |||
"Learnt to accept my body over the years/needs work still "Boo you look awesome be proud of your body you are beautiful x | |||
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"I'm pretty much there now with liking my body. I've lost 6.5st and am the slimmest I've been since I was in year 9 at school 23 years ago. There's a couple of bits that I'm not totally happy with, but am working on them. "
Incredible weight loss. Kudos | |||
"I want more muscle but I like reclining with some biscuits " x | |||
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"Learnt to accept my body over the years/needs work still "Looks great from here | |||
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"At the minute, I think I'm good. I've noticed I've put on a little more fat while trying to bulk up but it's not been anything too uncontrollable I don't think "You look fab... | |||
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"I miss my pregnant body, I felt great! I don't overly care about body now, it doesn't need to look good, in the past it had to. " Why did it have to? Your pregnant body photos are beauty…. (As are your none pregnant) | |||
"At the minute, I think I'm good. I've noticed I've put on a little more fat while trying to bulk up but it's not been anything too uncontrollable I don't think "Bulking is as difficult as keeping it toned in my opinion | |||
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"I don't like my body. Guys prefer shorter petite women, with boobs. I reckon every guy I've ever spoken to likes me "despite" my height, or can overlook it for me or some other shite that is meant as a compliment. It's the reason I don't meet. " Why is height such an issue or something that even needs ‘overlooking’ | |||
"I'm pretty much there now with liking my body. I've lost 6.5st and am the slimmest I've been since I was in year 9 at school 23 years ago. There's a couple of bits that I'm not totally happy with, but am working on them.
Very impressive "Thank you... how do I turn that frown upside down? | |||
"I miss my pregnant body, I felt great! I don't overly care about body now, it doesn't need to look good, in the past it had to. Why did it have to? Your pregnant body photos are beauty…. (As are your none pregnant) "Non pregnant not so much hence why they're aren't many!!
Had to look good before for reasons that I can't put on fab. But none of that matters now anyway!
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"I don't like my body. Guys prefer shorter petite women, with boobs. I reckon every guy I've ever spoken to likes me "despite" my height, or can overlook it for me or some other shite that is meant as a compliment. It's the reason I don't meet. Why is height such an issue or something that even needs ‘overlooking’ "As a whole men prefer petite women. It's just a fact of life. | |||
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"I wish I could get back down to my original weight, but I just don't think 7lbs 14oz is realistic."
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currently loving my body I even shave my bits | |||
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"I don't like my body. Guys prefer shorter petite women, with boobs. I reckon every guy I've ever spoken to likes me "despite" my height, or can overlook it for me or some other shite that is meant as a compliment. It's the reason I don't meet. " Nah, I like how tall you are | |||
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"I don't like my body. Guys prefer shorter petite women, with boobs. I reckon every guy I've ever spoken to likes me "despite" my height, or can overlook it for me or some other shite that is meant as a compliment. It's the reason I don't meet. " Overlook? I love the words you use. There’s always a stand out reasons why I like someone, and it can be a the most simplistic thing that makes them unlike everyone else. It’s not that we overlook something about them, it’s the fact that because we fancy them now, we don’t need to ignore or brush away a certain preference we might visually like looking at ‘women in general’, it’s now evident that we fancy EVERYTHING about her. She is sexy. 1 certain preferences alone will never make someone sexy. | |||
As a whole men prefer petite women. It's just a fact of life.
Not always the case I prefer a woman to be around my height or taller, if you've gpt a good personality why would it even matter | |||
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"Like the lady who mentions guys who message her "despite" her height, I get a few messages along the lines of "I don't usually like fat girls but there's something about you that turns me on". I'm also as tall as she is and get messages from guys saying it's a shame I'm so tall. Double whammy, fat and tall. It doesn't help the body confidence on here when someone points those things out but is willing to throw a fuck your way "despite" them. " | |||
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"I’d like more ass / hips and thighs but it’s not something I get bent over at 40+. I am a burning star amongst of a galaxy of candles is how I see my body self / mental self "That’s an incredible description (I might steal that for next time I’m giving myself a pep talk in the mirror haha) | |||
"Like the lady who mentions guys who message her "despite" her height, I get a few messages along the lines of "I don't usually like fat girls but there's something about you that turns me on". I'm also as tall as she is and get messages from guys saying it's a shame I'm so tall. Double whammy, fat and tall. It doesn't help the body confidence on here when someone points those things out but is willing to throw a fuck your way "despite" them. " I’m shocked that those kind of things are written | |||
"I’d like more ass / hips and thighs but it’s not something I get bent over at 40+. I am a burning star amongst of a galaxy of candles is how I see my body self / mental self
That’s an incredible description (I might steal that for next time I’m giving myself a pep talk in the mirror haha) "Honestly it makes me sad seeing how so many people suffer from weak mental self image etc ... when I came out and transition to my parents my dad said to me , kiddo you are going to need to immovable as life is going to be and get very hard for you going forward if you dont nip it in the bud . be a bright star was his advice for me .. so. I took that onboard and its never faltered . some say I am arrogant / narcissist (A word randomly thrown around these years it seems ) as my mind is too small for doubt
So yes pep talk yourself up and believe in yourself .. your uniqueness is what makes you yourself . | |||
"I’d like more ass / hips and thighs but it’s not something I get bent over at 40+. I am a burning star amongst of a galaxy of candles is how I see my body self / mental self
That’s an incredible description (I might steal that for next time I’m giving myself a pep talk in the mirror haha)
Honestly it makes me sad seeing how so many people suffer from weak mental self image etc ... when I came out and transition to my parents my dad said to me , kiddo you are going to need to immovable as life is going to be and get very hard for you going forward if you dont nip it in the bud . be a bright star was his advice for me .. so. I took that onboard and its never faltered .
some say I am arrogant / narcissist (A word randomly thrown around these years it seems ) as my mind is too small for doubt
So yes pep talk yourself up and believe in yourself .. your uniqueness is what makes you yourself . "My self confidence tends to be good… as I give all I can … so I believe if I give it my all then I’m good…. I think the only reason I set up the thread is because I saw an old photo of myself yesterday and my body was at its peak… and as shallow as it sounds I for a minute wanted it back haha …. Hopefully some of the comments will give those less confident a boost …. And it’s also allowed me to steal your quotes haha | |||
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"I do zilch to improve my body, so I try to do zilch moaning about it. I mainly frustrate myself knowing that my current fitness level is shit and that the health implications of obesity going forwards aren't going to be great. I learned years ago that the confidence I exude is almost equivalent to having the 'perfect body' though, so that works for me "Your body looks great in your pics…. Far far away from obesity | |||
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"How’s yours? Do you look back and think ‘god I wish I had that body back’ or are you the type that is ‘I’m where I’m at because of x, y or z’ and have positivity no matter ? "can always change your body. I'm not quite as ripped as I was when I was 25 but I could easily get it back of I wanted to. Content being smooth at the moment lol | |||
"I do zilch to improve my body, so I try to do zilch moaning about it. I mainly frustrate myself knowing that my current fitness level is shit and that the health implications of obesity going forwards aren't going to be great. I learned years ago that the confidence I exude is almost equivalent to having the 'perfect body' though, so that works for me
Your body looks great in your pics…. Far far away from obesity "Have to second this. You look amazing | |||
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"I do zilch to improve my body, so I try to do zilch moaning about it. I mainly frustrate myself knowing that my current fitness level is shit and that the health implications of obesity going forwards aren't going to be great. I learned years ago that the confidence I exude is almost equivalent to having the 'perfect body' though, so that works for me "Works for me | |||
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"Like the lady who mentions guys who message her "despite" her height, I get a few messages along the lines of "I don't usually like fat girls but there's something about you that turns me on". I'm also as tall as she is and get messages from guys saying it's a shame I'm so tall. Double whammy, fat and tall. It doesn't help the body confidence on here when someone points those things out but is willing to throw a fuck your way "despite" them. I’m shocked that those kind of things are written "It happens. Daily almost. | |||
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"Mine is shot right now. Trying to lose weight and I’m constantly reminded that I’m failing by those close to me. "Wtf ! They should be supporting you not criticising you... you're doing amazing xx | |||
"Mine is shot right now. Trying to lose weight and I’m constantly reminded that I’m failing by those close to me.
Wtf ! They should be supporting you not criticising you... you're doing amazing xx"I wish, if I don’t do it their very specific way then it’s not worth doing at all. Honestly it’s taking a big toll on me xx | |||
"Mine is shot right now. Trying to lose weight and I’m constantly reminded that I’m failing by those close to me.
Wtf ! They should be supporting you not criticising you... you're doing amazing xx
I wish, if I don’t do it their very specific way then it’s not worth doing at all. Honestly it’s taking a big toll on me xx"I'm not surprised... my in box is always open if you need a chat lovely xx | |||
but dont over stress and both confident in our birthday suits . What you see is what you get | |||
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"I've recently asked someone if it's okay to keep my tshirt on sooo strong indication it's pretty shit right now " you look fine to me | |||
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