I rarely make plans to begin with and always cagey when people start planning. Unless it's with my kids, I'm fine with the kids
I get terrible social anxiety
My friend has invited me to her hen weekend in Liverpool, I said I would go but not stay over. I plan to drive down and drive back before they get leery
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If it is a big social thing then I will often just decide not to go because they are not really my scene and no one will realise I am not there anyway.
If it is a smaller thing where my lack of presence will be noticed then I will turn up if I say I will. |
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All the time... Seems like a great idea when plans are made. Seems like a shit one when a wet and miserable Friday night rolls round, and I'm spending a fortune to traipse around pubs and hating it. |
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I get this unpredictability of my mood sometimes. Sometimes I make plans for weeks or days in advance. And I was in a headspace or mental place at the time that made the plan exciting. Then suddenly I’m not. Various factors. Socialising is really difficult some days. It’s really exhausting. Work. Kids. So mean suddenly I can just be like ‘eurgh I wish I could stay in and sleep’. I don’t. Because like everyone says- I’ve made plans. I’ll probably enjoy it. I don’t want to let people down. But I do get a ‘eurgh, I’m not even feeling this’ sometimes. |
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I try not to make many plans because something always seems to get in the way. When I do make plans, I really try my utmost to make them happen. However, sometimes, life gets in the way.
I've learned that you can't be disappointed if you didn't have anything to look forward to in the first place. |
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