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"What do you do? Do you seek revenge? Or do you let karma do it's thing?"
depends where it is - Karma is a wonderful thing and revenge is a dish best served cold - most joyful when some idiot get it and you can sit and smile  |
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"I believe in the whole revenge thing doing more damage to you than it ever does to the cunt. So i dwell for a little but then get over it and move on."
This for me too. Sometimes I wish I could get over it quicker. |
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"Neither. I just cut them off if possible.
I don't believe the universe is waiting to exact revenge on my behalf and I can't be bothered enough with horrible people to take my own"
This. The people I've known who have been hellbent on getting revenge never seem to feel any better once they achieve it. |
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"Neither. I just cut them off if possible.
I don't believe the universe is waiting to exact revenge on my behalf and I can't be bothered enough with horrible people to take my own
This. The people I've known who have been hellbent on getting revenge never seem to feel any better once they achieve it."
True.
It's a terrible waste of time and energy |
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I’m not going to do anything but cut them off. Not interested in grandiose schemed of revenge, this isn’t kill bill. I’m going to use the energy to move on with my life and focus on all the good things I have |
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I tend to disassociate myself from them, and if the opportunity arises at some point in the future, to shat on them from a great height I generally make good use of that opportunity, I don’t, however, pursue that opportunity as such, that would credit them with too much of my valuable head space. |
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By *eliWoman 4 weeks ago
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I don't really believe in karma.
For a brief moment I think about revenge. What can I say? I'm dramatic.
And then I remember the best thing to do is to carry on being me. Enjoying life. I'd rather have a life filled with great cunt. |
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I might try to understand their motivation - jealousy, fear, loneliness etc
I don't do drama people, so if it was relatable i might put effort into trying to fix.. If its just malicious I'd likely just move on and not look back
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Revenge is rarely worth it, karma I'm not sure I believe it.
I just get on with my life, too much cuntish behaviour and they'd be removed from my life.
Time is precious & I wouldn't spend it being angry.
Mrs |
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"Neither. I just cut them off if possible.
I don't believe the universe is waiting to exact revenge on my behalf and I can't be bothered enough with horrible people to take my own"
this is what I do  |
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In many ways im really glad when someone reveals their true personality traits/temper shortcomings early on and at the message stage, whether they reveal themselves to be aggressive, disrespectful, emotionally immature, bullying or just plain stupid. Then they can simply be expunged - by blocking or just ignoring their persistent or nasty comebacks and consigning their trash to delete oblivion.
Always a relief when they've shown their true colours early on and its quite clear Ive dodged a bullet. xx |
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It depends - is this someone I know well and is truly out of character for them? Then I'm going to set my anger aside and first see if they are in trouble/sick etc and they actually need help and are lashing out instead.
If they are just suddenly being horrible for no reason then they are cut off forever. If they need help, I help them.
Someone who I have had little interaction with etc then they are blockedy blocked. Here or real life.
No time for that in my life.
MrsAbz |
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I try to understand that they're being that way for a reason, and that reason may have nothing to do with me. I therefore always aim to forgive -which I admit is often difficult. The world doesn't need continual revenge right now.
I also aim to remove myself from their company, because I don't need or want that type of energy in my life. |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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If this person is being a cunt to you the chances are they're being a cunt to someone else too.
Try and keep as much distance as yiu can . It won't be long before they upset someone who hasn't stopped to think like you have . |
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In my younger days I'd have sought revenge, or forgiven and ultimately been on the receiving end of their cuntishness again.
Now I cut them off. Sometimes I tell them why, but mostly not. And never give them another thought.
Karma? I think it's something "nice" people thought up to take pleasure in bad things happening to folk who were cunty to them, without actually exacting revenge
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I once had someone on fab spite-fuck me  He “groomed” me for about a year, we fucked and then made it clear it was a vengeance thing. It was really weird. The most upsetting thing was that someone would take that much time out of their life to waste on hating me  |
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"I once had someone on fab spite-fuck me He “groomed” me for about a year, we fucked and then made it clear it was a vengeance thing. It was really weird. The most upsetting thing was that someone would take that much time out of their life to waste on hating me "
That's so weird! And creepy! And just why?! 
Obviously a nutter!  |
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"I once had someone on fab spite-fuck me He “groomed” me for about a year, we fucked and then made it clear it was a vengeance thing. It was really weird. The most upsetting thing was that someone would take that much time out of their life to waste on hating me
That's so weird! And creepy! And just why?!
Obviously a nutter! "
It was really weird. Plus he left in such a hurry he left behind the toy he brought - a life size dildo that was a silicone replica of his own dick. So I got to keep the cock without having to bother with the deeply unbalanced man! |
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"I once had someone on fab spite-fuck me He “groomed” me for about a year, we fucked and then made it clear it was a vengeance thing. It was really weird. The most upsetting thing was that someone would take that much time out of their life to waste on hating me "
What in the fuck?? I’m sorry this happened to you darling. |
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"I once had someone on fab spite-fuck me He “groomed” me for about a year, we fucked and then made it clear it was a vengeance thing. It was really weird. The most upsetting thing was that someone would take that much time out of their life to waste on hating me
What in the fuck?? I’m sorry this happened to you darling. "
Thank you. It wasn’t nice but I’m ok. Hopefully it says more about him than me. |
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"What do you do? Do you seek revenge? Or do you let karma do it's thing?"
I trust in the universe remembers...
And revenge makes me feel shit about myself, and takes up to much space in my head...so I let it be, let go n let God so to speak
Mr |
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By *avexxMan 4 weeks ago
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"I once had someone on fab spite-fuck me He “groomed” me for about a year, we fucked and then made it clear it was a vengeance thing. It was really weird. The most upsetting thing was that someone would take that much time out of their life to waste on hating me "
,,, one sick man sorry to hear that |
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By *oody BMan 4 weeks ago
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Oh right. If they’re intentionally a Cunt to me, and that means they’re not showing me any respect, which means I won’t show them any respect. Which means we have a problem.
I don’t seek revenge, but I sure as hell want respect them time any soon. Which means I’m going to be an absolute Cunt back. |
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Eventually they all get Karma in the end regardless. 
