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By *nfrared97 OP Man 4 weeks ago
weston super mare |
Hey FAB!
Been on here a while, only just started using it properly but not having any luck which is frustrating! Wondering if I’m actually ugly - let me know how I can improve my profile  I’m open to all really apart from single Males haha ?? |
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By *dquestCouple 4 weeks ago
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There are a million and one single guys on here thinking they foundnthe fountain of eternal sex... bottom line, most swinging is a couples activity with a little threesomes thrown in for variety. |
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"Trying to actively use it haha "
Finding the reply and quote button under the message you're replying to makes using the forums a bit easier if that helps? Have a good time sir! Tis a great site for a guy  |
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By *viatrixWoman 4 weeks ago
Back in Gatwick! |
"?? You a fan of it or nah? All feedback welcome lol"
I don’t like furry bs at all. I’d recommend waxing but of course you’re super far and you should do what makes you comfy, not other people |
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Why do you call yourself a regular '27' year old guy ..... BUT your profile says 31 or 32 can't remember....
Does that mean you've not updated your profile in 4/5 years ? You've not grown at all ? Changed your desires or what you can offer ?
Or are you lying 
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By *nfrared97 OP Man 4 weeks ago
weston super mare |
"Why do you call yourself a regular '27' year old guy ..... BUT your profile says 31 or 32 can't remember....
Does that mean you've not updated your profile in 4/5 years ? You've not grown at all ? Changed your desires or what you can offer ?
Or are you lying
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Hey so I am 27! I don’t know why my age is older it was a mistake, I wouldn’t intentionally lie about something like that |
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"Hey FAB!
Been on here a while, only just started using it properly but not having any luck which is frustrating! Wondering if I’m actually ugly - let me know how I can improve my profile I’m open to all really apart from single Males haha ?? "
You are far from ugly lovely x |
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"Why do you call yourself a regular '27' year old guy ..... BUT your profile says 31 or 32 can't remember....
Does that mean you've not updated your profile in 4/5 years ? You've not grown at all ? Changed your desires or what you can offer ?
Or are you lying
Hey so I am 27! I don’t know why my age is older it was a mistake, I wouldn’t intentionally lie about something like that"
Well you can change your birthdate in less than a minute and that would show more honesty.
It's just going to keep on counting up from 32 every year unless you do |
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"Hey FAB!
Been on here a while, only just started using it properly but not having any luck which is frustrating! Wondering if I’m actually ugly - let me know how I can improve my profile I’m open to all really apart from single Males haha ??
You are far from ugly lovely x"
I thought that. He has a nice face and nice smile. |
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"Why do you call yourself a regular '27' year old guy ..... BUT your profile says 31 or 32 can't remember....
Does that mean you've not updated your profile in 4/5 years ? You've not grown at all ? Changed your desires or what you can offer ?
Or are you lying
Hey so I am 27! I don’t know why my age is older it was a mistake, I wouldn’t intentionally lie about something like that"
97 in your name makes sense, I believe you |
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"Hey FAB!
Been on here a while, only just started using it properly but not having any luck which is frustrating! Wondering if I’m actually ugly - let me know how I can improve my profile I’m open to all really apart from single Males haha ??
You are far from ugly lovely x
I thought that. He has a nice face and nice smile."
Definitely.. I'd have a cheeky snog with him |
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By *nfrared97 OP Man 4 weeks ago
weston super mare |
"Hey FAB!
Been on here a while, only just started using it properly but not having any luck which is frustrating! Wondering if I’m actually ugly - let me know how I can improve my profile I’m open to all really apart from single Males haha ??
You are far from ugly lovely x"
Thank you I appreciate that! You aren’t too far away either x |
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I love a furry bum 
Maybe update your bio a bit, says no face pics yet there you are. Cute too. Not trying to shag the whole of fab blah blah it's off putting. And in my opinion, one dick pic is enough. I'm sure some ppl will disagree with me tho  |
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"Hey FAB!
Been on here a while, only just started using it properly but not having any luck which is frustrating! Wondering if I’m actually ugly - let me know how I can improve my profile I’m open to all really apart from single Males haha ??
You are far from ugly lovely x
Thank you I appreciate that! You aren’t too far away either x "
You're welcome.. you should update your profile to reflect the correct age, you don't say what your type is though.. |
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Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. This isn't about ugliness, just the facts of human existence, in Fab and everywhere.
If someone doesn't grasp this, I struggle to understand how they cope with adult life. Couple it with swinging and you have a myriad of sexual, relationship and psychological aspects of compatibility.
Single men are not in short supply and nobody has to compromise. Men must sell themselves as well as or better than an equivalent, if they are to get competitive advantage. Ask yourself how well you are doing this and what your expectations are from swinging. |
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"Hey FAB!
Been on here a while, only just started using it properly but not having any luck which is frustrating! Wondering if I’m actually ugly - let me know how I can improve my profile I’m open to all really apart from single Males haha ??
You are far from ugly lovely x
Thank you I appreciate that! You aren’t too far away either x "
Not too far away from what and for what ? |
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"There are a million and one single guys on here thinking they foundnthe fountain of eternal sex... bottom line, most swinging is a couples activity with a little threesomes thrown in for variety. "
This is exactly that. Men flooded the market, unicorns are a rare thing, couples are selective and will find you! Ask 100 couples on here, you might get a reply. If we upload a picture, we normally get around 50 messages, mainly “you free tonight”, really think about what you’re after and if this is the place for you, or are you just another male thinking this is going to be easy because the women and couples are just going to open their legs with an open invite at the first sight of another penis! |
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"Op, you aren't ugly.
People can give you advice on your profile on what they want, just be you.
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just read your profile, and we absolutely love it! Anyone who hasn’t read the tagged profile, do so  |
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By *nfrared97 OP Man 4 weeks ago
weston super mare |
"Op, you aren't ugly.
People can give you advice on your profile on what they want, just be you.
just read your profile, and we absolutely love it! Anyone who hasn’t read the tagged profile, do so "
What my profile? If so thank you! Difficult to word it properly but I hope it comes across well x |
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I would say it's a bit "cock-heavy". The vast majority of women on (at least on the forums) are not attracted by cock photos. A knob is not generally an object of desire for a woman if they have never met the man (and often even if they have). |
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By *nfrared97 OP Man 4 weeks ago
weston super mare |
"I would say it's a bit "cock-heavy". The vast majority of women on (at least on the forums) are not attracted by cock photos. A knob is not generally an object of desire for a woman if they have never met the man (and often even if they have)."
That is fair enough I need to decide which pics to delete haha |
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I think it's good. I've always shown cock pics on my profile but not if I'm looking for women. If this was my profile I'd hide all cock pics. Take more of pictures of yourself either way, I want to see one of you in a nice shirt and add two more.
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"Too many dick pics
Okay appreciate the feedback - down to two now.. one with body and then just one when it’s hard x "
Personally... I would keep them in your friends album and have a variety of others for public. A man's dick is never going to be what attracts the majority of women. |
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Hey OP.
You're definitely not ugly & have a rather nice bod, too.
Sadly, your age may go against you on here as a lot of folk on here have kids your age. Of course, there ARE younger folk, and older women who actively like young guys, so just hang in there.
I'd maybe explain why you can't accomodate, as it can be construed as you're not single.
Good luck! X |
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