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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Whoa before you lay into me, that's a local status update in my area...not mine.
Made me think...when did saying anything negative or doing anything negative turn positive for you? Probably hasn't so why do we do it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This site is what you ... And the men you (well. Me!!) ... talk to ... And then be honest, it's done me okay 
I'm rather happy with it most of the time and when I'm not, I just go quieter  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of folk blame other things for their failings (the site, other folk spoiling it for them) when they should be looking far closer to home."
 This. Some have an over inflated sense of entitlement when they join. I've seen one profile with the headline this site is shit and gets worse. Really, it has nothing at all to do with your totally blank profile and negative attitude then??! |
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" Whoa before you lay into me, that's a local status update in my area...not mine.
Made me think...when did saying anything negative or doing anything negative turn positive for you? Probably hasn't so why do we do it?
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I think in this specific instance they're waiting for women to prove them wrong by showering them with attention. Not that I'm saying it's likely to work... |
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"A lot of folk blame other things for their failings (the site, other folk spoiling it for them) when they should be looking far closer to home."
Absolutely on the money with that.
You can get lots from this place if you put the work in, loads do and are happy with how things go. |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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" Whoa before you lay into me, that's a local status update in my area...not mine.
Made me think...when did saying anything negative or doing anything negative turn positive for you? Probably hasn't so why do we do it?
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It's the conversation in the brain. Some people have it tuned to a negative wavelength, because they cannot relate to the world around them.
Some people you can help, some you cannot. I usually find sex is a temporary relief,
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"A lot of folk blame other things for their failings (the site, other folk spoiling it for them) when they should be looking far closer to home.
This. Some have an over inflated sense of entitlement when they join. I've seen one profile with the headline this site is shit and gets worse. Really, it has nothing at all to do with your totally blank profile and negative attitude then??!"
yes the profile seems to weigh it up pretty well, but I,m curious to know if admin go round cleaning up such profile status and perhaps banning such folk off site, otherwise admin are pretty good to folk who abuse this site like that, I can,t think of another site as lenient as fab..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been I’m the site a few times over the years and have noticed that sometimes it’s great I’m terms of making contacts and getting meets and other times it’s rubbish.
Can’t think of a reason other than sometimes it’s just a case of right time right place.
Anyone else find that? |
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do you even read the OP's ?