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over a year ago
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It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult.
Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them? |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult.
Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them?"
Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult.
Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them?
Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify?"
Lol, yeah, that seems to be a theme. Maybe that's why nobody does it any more.
Cock Ball T*rture. Bit of bondage etc... |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult.
Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them?
Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify?
Lol, yeah, that seems to be a theme. Maybe that's why nobody does it any more.
Cock Ball T*rture. Bit of bondage etc..."
Ahh. And I mean ahhhhhh. No I like tickles and such. Falcon, practice on some grapes.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I sat mine then went straight for DAS LOL
my bff is a pro domme and she does it all the time her are plenty of girls out there do it "
Lol, I did my test on a TS100 waaay back. Straight on to a 600R and bounced a few times, but still didnt slow down. Only back on after a 25yr break during covid |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe trying other websites that more suited towards the bdsm lifestyle than fab might be more successful ."
Thanks. I don't honestly know of any. Its a long time since I partook. I've had a couple of DM's though, which may do for now. |
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"Maybe trying other websites that more suited towards the bdsm lifestyle than fab might be more successful .
Thanks. I don't honestly know of any. Its a long time since I partook. I've had a couple of DM's though, which may do for now."
Fetlife and collarspace used to be one called bdsm uk aswell years ago that was really good but that shut down . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do!  "
Oh wow. That's pretty much the full list covered right there. Unable to message you due to settings though  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are a number of males who love this to different degrees. I would suspect less females who are on the other end. Out of everything this is one of my favourites  "
I'd have thought it was reasonably popular with ladies to help relieve frustration and annoyance, and less guys were into it due to exactly what the ladies get out of it  |
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"There are a number of males who love this to different degrees. I would suspect less females who are on the other end. Out of everything this is one of my favourites
I'd have thought it was reasonably popular with ladies to help relieve frustration and annoyance, and less guys were into it due to exactly what the ladies get out of it "
I've never done cbt when frustrated. Never would! I enjoy inflicting pain with people who enjoy receiving it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've never done cbt when frustrated. Never would! I enjoy inflicting pain with people who enjoy receiving it "
Be interesting to know how the scale goes from mild to extreme and see how twisted I am? |
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"I've never done cbt when frustrated. Never would! I enjoy inflicting pain with people who enjoy receiving it
Be interesting to know how the scale goes from mild to extreme and see how twisted I am?"
A twisted mind and tolerance for pain I've found go hand in hand |
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"I've never done cbt when frustrated. Never would! I enjoy inflicting pain with people who enjoy receiving it
Be interesting to know how the scale goes from mild to extreme and see how twisted I am?
A twisted mind and tolerance for pain I've found go hand in hand "
House!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult.
Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them?"
The doctor sent me for some CBT when I had a shaky moment coming out of lockdown... I was so disappointed to learn it wasn't the kink! |
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult.
Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them?
Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify?"
Or compulsory basic training for bikers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just a wee update that it's still very much alive and well.
Met a lovely lady through this post and enthusiastic wasnt the word. She thoroughly enjoyed herself, smiling and laughing, which just added to the whole thing.
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult.
Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them?
Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify?
Lol, yeah, that seems to be a theme. Maybe that's why nobody does it any more.
Cock Ball T*rture. Bit of bondage etc..."
I see your Married. I thought you'd be getting plenty of the CBT or are you well passed the honeymoon stage |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see your Married. I thought you'd be getting plenty of the CBT or are you well passed the honeymoon stage "
My bits were thrown into a lonely dungeon years ago without even bread and water |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just put the summary into stories and fantasies tab. Seems I like a bit of exhibitionism as well.
*its toned down a little, but still not for everyone by a long shot |
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Cock and ball torture is a fine art of evil skill. The mix of pleasure and pain inflicted on genetialia gives me goosebumps..
Everyone has there limits of course. But I keep wondering if I could ever nail a ball sack to a wooden board... that's next level CBT.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Cock and ball torture is a fine art of evil skill. The mix of pleasure and pain inflicted on genetialia gives me goosebumps..
Everyone has there limits of course. But I keep wondering if I could ever nail a ball sack to a wooden board... that's next level CBT.... "
I think the Dark Edge couple said it earlier, doesn't hurt them at all. I dont want to give that lady more ideas as she has plenty already, but that's probably not a million miles away from what she did the other day |
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do!
Oh wow. That's pretty much the full list covered right there. Unable to message you due to settings though "
well there is also needleplay,cattle prod, stapling, fireplay and sealing wax let's not forget these little beauties. Dont go for just half measures. |
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do!
Oh wow. That's pretty much the full list covered right there. Unable to message you due to settings though well there is also needleplay,cattle prod, stapling, fireplay and sealing wax let's not forget these little beauties. Dont go for just half measures. "
OMG Stace now we are all afraid  |
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do!
Oh wow. That's pretty much the full list covered right there. Unable to message you due to settings though well there is also needleplay,cattle prod, stapling, fireplay and sealing wax let's not forget these little beauties. Dont go for just half measures.
OMG Stace now we are all afraid "
you should be,. I've done, all of those things I mentioned and loved every single one of them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do!
Oh wow. That's pretty much the full list covered right there. Unable to message you due to settings though well there is also needleplay,cattle prod, stapling, fireplay and sealing wax let's not forget these little beauties. Dont go for just half measures.
OMG Stace now we are all afraid you should be,. I've done, all of those things I mentioned and loved every single one of them. "
How do you find the cattle prod. That's close to the top of her bucket list with me. How many shocks did you manage on your genitals? |
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do!
Oh wow. That's pretty much the full list covered right there. Unable to message you due to settings though well there is also needleplay,cattle prod, stapling, fireplay and sealing wax let's not forget these little beauties. Dont go for just half measures.
OMG Stace now we are all afraid you should be,. I've done, all of those things I mentioned and loved every single one of them. "
Have you tried using a bander? That looks like a whole different level. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do!
Oh wow. That's pretty much the full list covered right there. Unable to message you due to settings though well there is also needleplay,cattle prod, stapling, fireplay and sealing wax let's not forget these little beauties. Dont go for just half measures.
OMG Stace now we are all afraid you should be,. I've done, all of those things I mentioned and loved every single one of them.
Have you tried using a bander? That looks like a whole different level."
whats a bander? |
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult.
Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them?
Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify?"
i love nipple play ,, being spanked but being hit in the balls and having them twisted and pulled hard makes me feel as if i will throw up within in a few seconds,, |
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult.
Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them?
Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify? i love nipple play ,, being spanked but being hit in the balls and having them twisted and pulled hard makes me feel as if i will throw up within in a few seconds,, "
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"We still like to apply a little CBT n our play including sounding, binding, catheterization and electro play. As you do!
Oh wow. That's pretty much the full list covered right there. Unable to message you due to settings though well there is also needleplay,cattle prod, stapling, fireplay and sealing wax let's not forget these little beauties. Dont go for just half measures.
OMG Stace now we are all afraid you should be,. I've done, all of those things I mentioned and loved every single one of them.
Have you tried using a bander? That looks like a whole different level.
whats a bander?"
Device used for animal castration, puts a very, very tight elastic band over the testicles. Left on long enough they drop off. Not for novice play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another big fan here! CBT is alive and kicking.
Been for a few 'Pro' sessions, and had partners that indulge - but still looking for a real enthusiast :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Enjoy having my balls restrained in a humbler, and playing a game with a deck of cards. The game being, each suit is designated to a spanking implement for example, deck shuffled, and each card turned over one at a time, the number on card relating to how many strikes to balls with implement. Love being blindfold so I don't know what's coming |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Enjoy having my balls restrained in a humbler, and playing a game with a deck of cards. The game being, each suit is designated to a spanking implement for example, deck shuffled, and each card turned over one at a time, the number on card relating to how many strikes to balls with implement. Love being blindfold so I don't know what's coming "
now that sounds like a fun game. what sort of implements? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Enjoy having my balls restrained in a humbler, and playing a game with a deck of cards. The game being, each suit is designated to a spanking implement for example, deck shuffled, and each card turned over one at a time, the number on card relating to how many strikes to balls with implement. Love being blindfold so I don't know what's coming
now that sounds like a fun game. what sort of implements?"
I’ve played something like this in the dungeon! Red was reward, black was bad. Everything from floggers to crops, and a rubber ball on a flexible stick! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Enjoy having my balls restrained in a humbler, and playing a game with a deck of cards. The game being, each suit is designated to a spanking implement for example, deck shuffled, and each card turned over one at a time, the number on card relating to how many strikes to balls with implement. Love being blindfold so I don't know what's coming
now that sounds like a fun game. what sort of implements?
I’ve played something like this in the dungeon! Red was reward, black was bad. Everything from floggers to crops, and a rubber ball on a flexible stick! "
Where is the dungeon? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Here I was thinking CBT was Compulsory Bike Training 
How times change 
It still does
Also
Cognitive behavioural therapy too
Tbh all 3 in my repertoire lol "
ive only 1 from 3. im too old for the bike bit. Got my license a long time ago and jumped straight from a 100cc to a 140mph+ |
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"Cock and ball torture is a fine art of evil skill. The mix of pleasure and pain inflicted on genetialia gives me goosebumps..
Everyone has there limits of course. But I keep wondering if I could ever nail a ball sack to a wooden board... that's next level CBT.... "
Out of everything cbt it's not as extreme as you think, the sensation is quick. When you look at heat play for example. The pain lasts a lot longer |
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By *ocdownMan 51 weeks ago
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"There are a number of males who love this to different degrees. I would suspect less females who are on the other end. Out of everything this is one of my favourites "
Me being one of her victims haha |
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I've performed various levels of cbt on consenting males , you'll probably find fetlife to be a better platform for that though
A lot on here just like the same old vanilla practices lol. Even a bit bondage has some running for cover. |
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"There are a number of males who love this to different degrees. I would suspect less females who are on the other end. Out of everything this is one of my favourites
Me being one of her victims haha"
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Enjoying this post. I'm a submissive guy and like to be restrained and tortured, humiliated etc. I'm getting more into CBT. I'd certainly be willing to chat and meet up with someone looking to explore more. |
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"There are a number of males who love this to different degrees. I would suspect less females who are on the other end. Out of everything this is one of my favourites
I'd have thought it was reasonably popular with ladies to help relieve frustration and annoyance, and less guys were into it due to exactly what the ladies get out of it
I've never done cbt when frustrated. Never would! I enjoy inflicting pain with people who enjoy receiving it "
My kind of gal |
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult.
Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them?
Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify?"
Compulsory Bike Test! |
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"I’d love to push someone’s pain threshold
Gentle slaps, binding, crushing… really want to try saline etc
That would feel great on the skin
On the skin is always where I feel things"
As opposed to? |
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"I’d love to push someone’s pain threshold
Gentle slaps, binding, crushing… really want to try saline etc
That would feel great on the skin
On the skin is always where I feel things
As opposed to?"
Well quite. I"m not opposed to it. Quite the opposite in fact |
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult.
Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them?
Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify?"
Compulsory Basic Training to me  |
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By *ocdownMan 30 weeks ago
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"Im doing wee expriments on myself in the house but need guidance lol
Honestly just try different things. Heat, wax, needles, pressure, jaggy things. Try everything "
She’s genuinely not scared to do anything lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"I built a CBT chair, exposed and restrained, do as you wish. Who fancies delivering the punishment?
Mereliably boring"
reliably squiffy apologies.Never boring(well maybe except when you ve got a bee in your bonnet about something/ someone and you won't let it go) but apart from that? ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"I built a CBT chair, exposed and restrained, do as you wish. Who fancies delivering the punishment?
Mereliably boringreliably squiffy apologies.Never boring(well maybe except when you ve got a bee in your bonnet about something/ someone and you won't let it go) but apart from that? )"
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"It appears I have quite a strong kink/fetish for CBT, but finding someone, F/M/MF appears to be quite difficult.
Is it a bit of a taboo and we dont talk about it, or are there still people interested around the central belt, but I just dont see them?
Sorry. That means Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to me. Maybe clarify?
Lol, yeah, that seems to be a theme. Maybe that's why nobody does it any more.
Cock Ball T*rture. Bit of bondage etc...
Ahh. And I mean ahhhhhh. No I like tickles and such. Falcon, practice on some grapes. "
Don’t you mean plums |
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By *isstucWoman 4 weeks ago
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There are plenty of us kinksters about , CBT is a dying art more because people think it's a swift kick in the balls and done with where it depends on preferences , degregation,cages , sound bars and so much more.toy just need to find the right person with the right experience . |
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"There are plenty of us kinksters about , CBT is a dying art more because people think it's a swift kick in the balls and done with where it depends on preferences , degregation,cages , sound bars and so much more.toy just need to find the right person with the right experience . "
E-stim and sounds are fun but svar s many off. |
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