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How old if too old ...lol or as the case may be
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By *ustme55 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
Never posted in this forum before , but here goes
Any advice and critisism welcomed ( within reason lol )
Been on FAB for about two years and beginning to think it may me my Maturity ( hate the term age lol ) is the reason I have not yet prevailed and I emphasise yet !! lol
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I agree with oldie!
And... I find on here that guys over 50... focus too much on their age and think that's the only reason they struggle here!
I will say the same as I say to any guys struggling for meets.
Put photos, work on your profile text, go to socials if you want to meet like minded people, review your approach if the current one is not working.
And I don't think that reaching a certain age makes you more experienced!
Am sure you have a better selling point than that lol
Anyway, my honest opinion here.
Good luck OP  |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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Some people don't meet under 25s others only meet under 25s.
Some don't meet married men/women others only meet married men/women.
Some don't meet over a size 14, others only meet over a size 14.
.... the point I'm trying to make is there is something/someone for everyone.
Enjoy fab x |
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over a year ago
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"Some people don't meet under 25s others only meet under 25s.
Some don't meet married men/women others only meet married men/women.
Some don't meet over a size 14, others only meet over a size 14.
.... the point I'm trying to make is there is something/someone for everyone.
Enjoy fab x"
This x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As has been said... Fab has something for everyone regardless of preferences...
I think in regard to the subject of age then just like most things there is a mainstream which has a high volume of people in it, lets just say thats 30-50 and that's where most of the "activity" takes place.
Outside those ranges it maybe does get less due to others preferences for instance a lot of folk are uncomfortable with wide age differences. For example a lot of people dislike meeting someone in their children's age range.
However it most certainly does not mean you won't meet.
I hope that makes some kind of sense  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hay mate. I am 64 this year. And as said by previous ladies. Put yourself out there. Go to socials. Get in the forums and chat to people. I dont get inundated with offers. But i do meet a few and have fun at socials and partys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with oldie!
And... I find on here that guys over 50... focus too much on their age and think that's the only reason they struggle here!
I will say the same as I say to any guys struggling for meets.
Put photos, work on your profile text, go to socials if you want to meet like minded people, review your approach if the current one is not working.
And I don't think that reaching a certain age makes you more experienced!
Am sure you have a better selling point than that lol
Anyway, my honest opinion here.
Good luck OP "
words of a wise woman  |
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By *ustme55 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
The forum mentioned that I cannot accommodate so therefore I must be married
Been there twice before and not going back there there again !!!!! ..lol
The reason I can't accommodate is because I live with my disabled Sister and help look after her
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"The forum mentioned that I cannot accommodate so therefore I must be married
Been there twice before and not going back there there again !!!!! ..lol
The reason I can't accommodate is because I live with my disabled Sister and help look after her
Happy Fabbing "
You don't need to justify yourself to anyone ignore remarks like that never understood it myself. We don't accommodate what category would someone like to put us into??
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"The forum mentioned that I cannot accommodate so therefore I must be married
Been there twice before and not going back there there again !!!!! ..lol
The reason I can't accommodate is because I live with my disabled Sister and help look after her
Happy Fabbing "
This usually applies to males |
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"The forum mentioned that I cannot accommodate so therefore I must be married
Been there twice before and not going back there there again !!!!! ..lol
The reason I can't accommodate is because I live with my disabled Sister and help look after her
Happy Fabbing
This usually applies to males"
I have to agree... because when it is a female it is assumed in the first instance that she has kids and the second, that she doesn't want the risk to invite a wolf in the hens barn!
OP, you don't need to justify yourself.
Personally, people can assume what they want from reading my profile and post! I won't lose sleep over it lol
Enjoy OP |
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"Never posted in this forum before , but here goes
Any advice and critisism welcomed ( within reason lol )
Been on FAB for about two years and beginning to think it may me my Maturity ( hate the term age lol ) is the reason I have not yet prevailed and I emphasise yet !! lol
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Op there are many older guys on this site do okay from meets .
Not sure how you approach people but maybe give that a wee think and if its not working for you then change it.
Also sometimes meets dont happen because both sides are scared for one reason or another to ask each other if they would like to meet.
Your an attractive older man so keep trying |
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Wish u luck x