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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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HI guts so I have a female friend staying with me for a couple of days and we have made an agreement where she is dom for 1 night and me the. We have both agreed to no limits except she won't have full sex (and as long as it's legal)
I need some ideas... one is to tie her up and blind fold her and invite random guys to come round and make her give oral and swallow and and then rim them. She's 25 so I'm thinking some older guys too. I'm going to order a pizza and make her answer the door naked and then offer to give the guy oral too. Any other ideas? |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
Humiliation and degradation are very subjective. Things I find humiliating someone else wouldn't (eg some people would find watersports humiliating, personally I love it and find it hot)
To truly play with humiliation you need to know the person who and be able to read the signs of "Oh god no not this I hate this", instantly followed by "Oh god please yes this, shit no, no not this, why do I want this is horrible" in a continuing loop.
Two other things :
Everyone has limits, she will have more then just 'no full sex' unless you know her REALLY well you need to sit down and do a full negotiation, talk about some rough scenarios and get her to grade parts from 'oh yes, through maybe, to not if you want your balls'
Finally, bdsm is about consent, sending her naked to the door to the poor pizza delivery person is not consentual on their part. If that will work for her (or you) get a mate to pick up a pizza, have him come round expecting it, she won't know any different. |
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By *r 007Man
over a year ago
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"Humiliation and degradation are very subjective. Things I find humiliating someone else wouldn't (eg some people would find watersports humiliating, personally I love it and find it hot)
To truly play with humiliation you need to know the person who and be able to read the signs of "Oh god no not this I hate this", instantly followed by "Oh god please yes this, shit no, no not this, why do I want this is horrible" in a continuing loop.
Two other things :
Everyone has limits, she will have more then just 'no full sex' unless you know her REALLY well you need to sit down and do a full negotiation, talk about some rough scenarios and get her to grade parts from 'oh yes, through maybe, to not if you want your balls'
Finally, bdsm is about consent, sending her naked to the door to the poor pizza delivery person is not consentual on their part. If that will work for her (or you) get a mate to pick up a pizza, have him come round expecting it, she won't know any different. "
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By *arie_CDTV/TS
over a year ago
East Mids |
Another one here for saying you should splosh her.
Tell her to dress up nice as if she is going out for the night, short dress, black tights, high heels, then when she arrives tell her there is a change of plan and lead her to a messy sticky night in instead  |
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"Humiliation and degradation are very subjective. Things I find humiliating someone else wouldn't (eg some people would find watersports humiliating, personally I love it and find it hot)
To truly play with humiliation you need to know the person who and be able to read the signs of "Oh god no not this I hate this", instantly followed by "Oh god please yes this, shit no, no not this, why do I want this is horrible" in a continuing loop.
Two other things :
Everyone has limits, she will have more then just 'no full sex' unless you know her REALLY well you need to sit down and do a full negotiation, talk about some rough scenarios and get her to grade parts from 'oh yes, through maybe, to not if you want your balls'
Finally, bdsm is about consent, sending her naked to the door to the poor pizza delivery person is not consentual on their part. If that will work for her (or you) get a mate to pick up a pizza, have him come round expecting it, she won't know any different. "
Great advice My Lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest I find the whole idea somewhat disturbing, that you don't know this woman well enough to know what works for her, and that you're asking a group of strangers to give you ideas what to do. If you knew her well enough, and you wanted to make sure her desire for humiliation was fully satisfied, you wouldn't have to ask strangers for ideas.
My advice is to spend some time getting to know what makes her tick and then come up with ideas that stay within her boundaries, and that you know will push her buttons. |
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