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When does straight become bi?
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By *uster OP Man
over a year ago
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Like most men I love 3somes and moresomes.Can't help bumping into the other males though lol. At what point does it become bi? helping guide him into her? wanking him to a hardie for her? Sucking his cock? entering him?
At what point does bi become gay? is it purely that gay doesn't go 4 gals?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like most men I love 3somes and moresomes.Can't help bumping into the other males though lol. At what point does it become bi? helping guide him into her? wanking him to a hardie for her? Sucking his cock? entering him?
At what point does bi become gay? is it purely that gay doesn't go 4 gals?
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If you have thought about any of those things you're bi curious, if you have done them, you're bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was straight for a very long time until I had an mmf and the guy sucked my cock and I liked it. "
But isn't a mouth a mouth, whether it's a man's mouth or a woman's mouth.
I mean, the sensation is pretty much the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was straight for a very long time until I had an mmf and the guy sucked my cock and I liked it.
But isn't a mouth a mouth, whether it's a man's mouth or a woman's mouth.
I mean, the sensation is pretty much the same. "
Unless the woman has a beard  |
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"I was straight for a very long time until I had an mmf and the guy sucked my cock and I liked it.
But isn't a mouth a mouth, whether it's a man's mouth or a woman's mouth.
I mean, the sensation is pretty much the same.
Unless the woman has a beard "
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"I was straight for a very long time until I had an mmf and the guy sucked my cock and I liked it.
Ye but did he?   "
Of course he bloody did!  *
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* I think....actually, I didn't bother asking
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There is a difference between Men who like sex with men, bi-curious,bi-sexual and gay.
Men who like sex with men, like the physical act.They are not attracted to the other guy.
Bi-curious is what it says it is.
Bi-sexual is someone who enjoys sexual activity with both parties.
GAY is someone who is attracted to the same sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was straight for a very long time until I had an mmf and the guy sucked my cock and I liked it.
Ye but did he?
Of course he bloody did! *
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* I think....actually, I didn't bother asking
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Just checking it wasnt slipped in 'accidentally'  |
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"I was straight for a very long time until I had an mmf and the guy sucked my cock and I liked it.
Ye but did he?
Of course he bloody did! *
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* I think....actually, I didn't bother asking
Just checking it wasnt slipped in 'accidentally' "
Actually, he didn't ask! I'm so terrified of social faux pas, I decided the polite thing to do was to let him continue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was straight for a very long time until I had an mmf and the guy sucked my cock and I liked it.
But isn't a mouth a mouth, whether it's a man's mouth or a woman's mouth.
I mean, the sensation is pretty much the same.
Unless the woman has a beard "
Ok, next time I'll shave but you seemed to enjoy the bristles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought the definition of gay/bi sex =
Anything that 2 men do together that makes either or both cum. "
I, of a smilie mind , perhaps we are pre conditioned by our upbringing , but as far as I see it, a man who has any form of sexual contact with another man is bi |
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"I thought the definition of gay/bi sex =
Anything that 2 men do together that makes either or both cum.
I, of a smilie mind , perhaps we are pre conditioned by our upbringing , but as far as I see it, a man who has any form of sexual contact with another man is bi "
No because there is no sexual attraction between them, they simple enjoy the act. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought the definition of gay/bi sex =
Anything that 2 men do together that makes either or both cum.
I, of a smilie mind , perhaps we are pre conditioned by our upbringing , but as far as I see it, a man who has any form of sexual contact with another man is bi
No because there is no sexual attraction between them, they simple enjoy the act."
Hmmmm |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
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It pains me to say this, but when it comes to sexuality, things aren't black and white, but a million shades of grey.
Some guys can be sucked by other guys. Some to further, and can suck too. Some like anal, either giving or receiving or both. Some guys will do all that, but not kiss a guy. Some guys appreciate the physical sensations, but don't actually find guys attractive.
Like I said, shades of grey  |
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"It pains me to say this, but when it comes to sexuality, things aren't black and white, but a million shades of grey.
Some guys can be sucked by other guys. Some to further, and can suck too. Some like anal, either giving or receiving or both. Some guys will do all that, but not kiss a guy. Some guys appreciate the physical sensations, but don't actually find guys attractive.
Like I said, shades of grey "
50 shades of gay? |
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As has been pointed out; It's a spectrum.
I think it's important to remember that there is a difference between performing gay acts and being gay/bi.
Ask yourself whether you would only enter into a relationship with someone of the opposite gender. If so you are straight. If you would only do so with someone of the same gender you are gay. If you would consider a relationship with either gender equally then you are bisexual.
You can be straight and still enjoy gay acts or vice versa. That doesn't change your orientation (at least not overnight). Some people may call that bi-curious but where is the curiosity if you've had plenty of gay experiences, know that you enjoy them yet still prefer the opposite sex. Bi-Curious is a woefully inadequate term that tries and fails to categorise a massive range of sexual orientation.
I would suggest you google the Kinsey scale if you are more interested in this topic but overall it doesn't matter one bit where you or anyone else falls on the spectrum. To paraphrase the Wiccan Rede "If it harms none, do what you will"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As has been pointed out; It's a spectrum.
I think it's important to remember that there is a difference between performing gay acts and being gay/bi.
Ask yourself whether you would only enter into a relationship with someone of the opposite gender. If so you are straight. If you would only do so with someone of the same gender you are gay. If you would consider a relationship with either gender equally then you are bisexual.
You can be straight and still enjoy gay acts or vice versa. That doesn't change your orientation (at least not overnight). Some people may call that bi-curious but where is the curiosity if you've had plenty of gay experiences, know that you enjoy them yet still prefer the opposite sex. Bi-Curious is a woefully inadequate term that tries and fails to categorise a massive range of sexual orientation.
I would suggest you google the Kinsey scale if you are more interested in this topic but overall it doesn't matter one bit where you or anyone else falls on the spectrum. To paraphrase the Wiccan Rede "If it harms none, do what you will"
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I think the Kinsey scale is a bit too simplistic from what I've seen but otherwise your analogy is pretty spot on.
I'm bi. I'm married to a woman but now I've experienced plenty of same sex sex and spent nights with my lovers I realise I could just have easily married a man. My soul mate just happened to be female.  |
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