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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been on (and briefly off fab) for close to 18 months now. I've had mfmf meets with s brief partnership and also MMF's. Attended local club and local socials. I love the scene as such. However I had the best sex of my life with a recent fb ... When I realised that I was falling for him (I knew he was already attached) I walked away. Deleted everything without so much as a discussion.
Its been close to seven weeks now and I'm still really struggling. I just don't want sex.
I've tried some vanilla dating, absconding from sex, sex with an ex. But I just can't seem to get back to my normal self.
I guess what I want to know is has anyone else been through similar? And come out of it happier? With their sex drive in tact?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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take out the swinging its a vanilla problem that most people have seen, you had feelings but you had to walk away. time makes it better, always does, don't dwell just get on with life |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"I've been on (and briefly off fab) for close to 18 months now. I've had mfmf meets with s brief partnership and also MMF's. Attended local club and local socials. I love the scene as such. However I had the best sex of my life with a recent fb ... When I realised that I was falling for him (I knew he was already attached) I walked away. Deleted everything without so much as a discussion.
Its been close to seven weeks now and I'm still really struggling. I just don't want sex.
I've tried some vanilla dating, absconding from sex, sex with an ex. But I just can't seem to get back to my normal self.
I guess what I want to know is has anyone else been through similar? And come out of it happier? With their sex drive in tact?
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Maybe you should have had a discussion with him? Maybe you don't have closure?
I tend to go one way or another after stopping seeing someone. Either promiscuous until they are out of my system or get a mental block and just crave only them.
I walked away from a FB that I had feelings for. Couldn't have sex. Walked straight back to them 6 weeks later. |
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