Talk to him tell him how it upset you.expecting you to just drop everything for a meet is not on. But then again you are not exclusive to each other. If you not happy then get rid and just enjoy fab as a young girl on a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanku for all ur help.

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By *edylogosMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

It's just a fb, he can do what the fuck he likes. If you're that bothered find another.

If it was a relationship I'd be sympathetic however fbs can do as they please

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Complaning i dont think he should be doing.this he.should be telling me who he is.messaging me xx"

Tell him, not us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Omg ....life will end

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi my fuck buddy has been messaging couples without telling me, then arraging meets then expecting me to drop everything to meet. "

I did this all the time. Mine never complained. Saved him the hard work of finding suitable couples and me moaning as I'm a fussy cow lol. Just enjoy it and if you dnt like them dnt go.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Complaning i dont think he should be doing.this he.should be telling me who he is.messaging me xx"

Ah, right. My opinion is you clearly don't like being treated like that so don't be. Take control of the situation. I'm assuming its a NSA arrangement so just find someone else. Who needs hassle and drama? I come on here NOT to have that and not to get stressed and to have a happy good time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It be nice to get a message here and there once in a while lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A tad naught is that, without consulting you first.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Create a joint profile for joint meets ?

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Get yourself a new fuck buddy"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi my fuck buddy has been messaging couples without telling me, then arraging meets then expecting me to drop everything to meet.

Bin him off."

I'd say although you are only FB that is quite a serious breach of trust and communication so yep I agree with the bin him off approach

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

I would tell him how you feel,if he doesnt get it or carries on doing this,get rid of him.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's just a fb, he can do what the fuck he likes. If you're that bothered find another.

If it was a relationship I'd be sympathetic however fbs can do as they please "

If he's including her as part of the meet, then he can still do sgat the fuck he likes but he can't really expect her to go along with it though can he? and if she doesn't, the people he's arranging to meet with her without her knowledge or consent are going to be sadly disappointed

sounds a lot like he's pretty much pimping her out...not cool...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanku for all ur advice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He's pimping you out to fuck other women he fancies. Definitely bin him and get a more respectful FB.

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

"It's just a fb, he can do what the fuck he likes. If you're that bothered find another.

If it was a relationship I'd be sympathetic however fbs can do as they please "

Not totally...respect is not only for relationships or honesty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say find another FB, as you don't have an agreement that he can do this. You need to set boundaries with fb,s. XXX

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By *amdenfunMan over a year ago

London

'Fuck buddy' surely is a very broad term; and all relationships work differently. I understand that in many couples, one half does most of the emailing - some people like emailing strangers, others have better things to do. There are so many variable.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let's be honest (couple profiles) the bloke rule the profile (emails)playing the game...

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By *ay19720Man over a year ago

Ashford kent

"Talk to him tell him how it upset you.expecting you to just drop everything for a meet is not on. But then again you are not exclusive to each other. If you not happy then get rid and just enjoy fab as a young girl on a swinging site "

Oh yeah...giggerty.

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