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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi what's the best way to introduce my girlfriend to the swinging scene?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple  over a year ago

Bolton

lol - not another one! don't worry about it, she's already got her own profile and is quite happy! Z

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And while your asking her mention our looking for a mistress (other thread)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Get to talking about fantasies, if she mentions threesomes etc drop it in or if you think the mood's right mention that you would like to try one or have enjoyed one in the past. If she's not interested, drop it and that's your lot!

If she's not interested, don't try to convince her it would be fun - if it's not for her it's not for her. If that's the case, you might want to consider deleting your profile...or not but that's for you and your conscience to decide.

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By *adchickCouple  over a year ago

Cyprus


"Hi what's the best way to introduce my girlfriend to the swinging scene?"

Tell her you have a single guy profile on here.......... if she doesn't knee you in the nuts and call you a bastard, ya in!

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By *havenangel1Couple  over a year ago

Worcester


"Hi what's the best way to introduce my girlfriend to the swinging scene?

Tell her you have a single guy profile on here.......... if she doesn't knee you in the nuts and call you a bastard, ya in!"

Just spat my out lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple  over a year ago

hexham


"Hi what's the best way to introduce my girlfriend to the swinging scene?

Tell her you have a single guy profile on here.......... if she doesn't knee you in the nuts and call you a bastard, ya in!"

You said it first

OP say i try to shag women behind your back...you are free to pick up men too

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By *aveandkate35Couple  over a year ago

telford

I agree with the general consensus, mention it in fantasies and talk about it - if she looks interested then you can fantasise mOre and more - that's how we started!

Key thing is do it together - even if you do the foot work ie looking on the web ( like you are) etc then you can talk to her more informed.

Good luck!

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo


"Hi what's the best way to introduce my girlfriend to the swinging scene?"

I would say the same as Poisonivy.

I would also say we all had to start somewhere when first discussing this with the OH, I find it sad that swingers can't give advice of how they started.

Good luck anyway and let us know how you got on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

well as I wanted to start my new realtionship on an honest footing I told her what my little hobby was lol.

And she was very very interested !!!!! so I told her everything and she then confessed her little fantasy !!!!!

We are now in the process of seeing if we can turn her fantasy into a reality lol.

So in my case honesty was most definitely the best policy lol.

So try it you may be pleasantly surprised.....

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