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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I am supposed to be meeting a couple this evening but they haven’t been on line in a couple of days should I still go to the meeting place or not and no replies about if it’s still on

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By *eah BabyCouple over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Don’t think we would bother, if you don’t have their number and only messaging through Fab I would think it’s a no go, depends how far you have to travel and is it there place or hotel?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It’s about a half hour drive and I’ve not got there number

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

And thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you have an alternative method of contacting, try that then if no reply, don't go. But I would send them a message on fab to say why you didn't go, just in case they report you.

We arranged a meet with a guy, weeks ahead of time, he was online on and off but never sent any messages to check we were still OK to go ahead so on the morning we sent him a message to ask if he was still going. As he didn't come online to check we hadn't cancelled him, we assumed he didn't care if we had cancelled, therefore we didn't go. Good call.

A couple hours after the meet time he messaged sorry he couldn't make it, he had friends visiting for last few days and they were still there. I was annoyed, just cos you have company doesn't mean you can't log in from the bathroom or from your bedroom to send us a message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just sent them a message letting them know why I’ve not gone and thanks for the great advice and I’d never cancel on you ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they haven't logged on they mustn't care if you've messaged to cancel and if they've had an emergency causing them to not even be able to log in then they wouldn't want you turning up anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

That’s very true well I’m going to try and enjoy my evening and see who’s about

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I always insist on speaking to them on the day of the meet, either on fab or via another method. If they go offline I dont leave my house and message them to remind them why I haven't done so. Hope this helps OP. As for whether you should go to ighy, personally speaking, I wouldn't bother. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always try for a social first so you don't waste your time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let us know whether they reply and whether it was the right decision to not go

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

thats why we always get a phone number, atleast then you can ring or tx, hope it goes well

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By *oney to the beeWoman over a year ago

Manchester

Never travel to a meet without a contact number. If they won't chat on the phone or give out their number its highly unlikely they will turn up its all about two way trust and commitment.

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