Advice required… joined the site when my partner and I broke up but we are now back together. Since joining I can’t keep away as it appeals too much.
She isn’t aware about the site but I am on the verge of telling her about it and asking her to make a couples profile. Just wondering how I deal with and bring up the conversation.
She already knows I like the thought of guys with her / wanking over her pics and she’s made comments to suggest she would be up for it too.
When we are having sex we both talk about a third party being involved whether it is her having another cock inside her or me licking pussy whilst she’s giving me oral. It turns us both on and sex gets crazy. We do go out in the car for fun and when the weather is warmer she likes to fuck outdoors.
It’s not so much me getting with another women but the thought of seeing her with someone else male or female that is the turn on
Any help will be much appreciated |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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Definitely don't arrange anything without speaking to her first of all op.
Sit down and talk properly, tell her your fantasies and say you've found this site and wanted to explore & want her to join you too .Ask her if she had fantasies she wants to make happen,just be prepared she might say no though.
If she does say no can you delete your profile and stay off fab though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely don't arrange anything without speaking to her first of all op.
Sit down and talk properly, tell her your fantasies and say you've found this site and wanted to explore & want her to join you too .Ask her if she had fantasies she wants to make happen,just be prepared she might say no though.
If she does say no can you delete your profile and stay off fab though."
This is Rick solid advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is it that makes you think she was to make fantasy reality?"
I think that’s what he is saying he doesn’t know if he tells her it would end the relationship
At least that’s how I read it ? |
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"What is it that makes you think she was to make fantasy reality?
I think that’s what he is saying he doesn’t know if he tells her it would end the relationship
At least that’s how I read it ? "
All I know is that there is no magic combination of words that make the question "will you make a couples profile with me on a swingers site because I want to watch you with other people?" any more of less appealing . People will say watch porn together or bring the subject up as a joke and see how she reacts but if asking about a fantasy in a straightforward way is a threat to your relationship it needs work anyway. |
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By *empusMan
over a year ago
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Difficult conversations are normally only difficult in your head. 99% of the time everything is much better once you open up to the important people in your life.
I think you should tell her asap. Sounds like she won’t be surprised.
Good chance for you to take control, which (potentially) is something you’ll need to get used to if you’re going to invite other guys into your fun.
Plus, if you don’t tell her it will eat away at your happiness and may even ruin your relationship.
Nothing to lose mate, go for it. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Advice required… joined the site when my partner and I broke up but we are now back together. Since joining I can’t keep away as it appeals too much.
She isn’t aware about the site but I am on the verge of telling her about it and asking her to make a couples profile. Just wondering how I deal with and bring up the conversation.
She already knows I like the thought of guys with her / wanking over her pics and she’s made comments to suggest she would be up for it too.
When we are having sex we both talk about a third party being involved whether it is her having another cock inside her or me licking pussy whilst she’s giving me oral. It turns us both on and sex gets crazy. We do go out in the car for fun and when the weather is warmer she likes to fuck outdoors.
It’s not so much me getting with another women but the thought of seeing her with someone else male or female that is the turn on
Any help will be much appreciated "
How long have you been back together?
Why not just ask her? |
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