Ok so I hear some men complaining that women don't reply back, even to say they're not interested (out of politeness etc) so I decided I put the effort in and say no thanks to men. But all I get is why and how they can change my mind...still think block is my friend. Personally, I really don't want the details of why someone isn't interested in me as ultimately I'm not not their type. So logically isn't it obvious why I am not interested??  |
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There's no need to reply because some people think it's rude not too. No reply is a polite "no thanks" as per Fabs FAQS. If you reply no thanks you will indeed get more unwanted messages and unfortunately maybe some abusive ones. |
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"There's no need to reply because some people think it's rude not too. No reply is a polite "no thanks" as per Fabs FAQS. If you reply no thanks you will indeed get more unwanted messages and unfortunately maybe some abusive ones."
This is true, we're all here to let out/explore out naughty side I don't agree being nasty that's not right |
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"There's no need to reply because some people think it's rude not too. No reply is a polite "no thanks" as per Fabs FAQS. If you reply no thanks you will indeed get more unwanted messages and unfortunately maybe some abusive ones."
This. |
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"Ok so I hear some men complaining that women don't reply back, even to say they're not interested (out of politeness etc) so I decided I put the effort in and say no thanks to men. But all I get is why and how they can change my mind...still think block is my friend. Personally, I really don't want the details of why someone isn't interested in me as ultimately I'm not not their type. So logically isn't it obvious why I am not interested?? "
In their head, Swingers will fuck anyone who asks so one who says "no" blows their mind.
They kindly offered their damp unused cock but got turned down.... there must be some amazing massive reason why. |
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I feel you pain. If you are polite and give a kind reason all you get is them trying to persuade you to change your mind ....
My PA's Ms Delete and Ms Block have no patience |
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"If we get a nice message we will try and respond politely and simply say sorry not for us but if it’s a dick pic then we simply ignore x"
This is nice, I'm fine if I'm not there cup of tea, don't ask don't get but as you say depends on message sent that is a factor in itself |
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"Ok so I hear some men complaining that women don't reply back, even to say they're not interested (out of politeness etc) so I decided I put the effort in and say no thanks to men. But all I get is why and how they can change my mind...still think block is my friend. Personally, I really don't want the details of why someone isn't interested in me as ultimately I'm not not their type. So logically isn't it obvious why I am not interested?? "
Is it a case of entitlement or someone finding a way for self-improvement….personally I like your approach….I’d rather not know why I’m not their type…..I think people should concentrate more on who wants them and not who doesn’t want them!! |
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By *linyMan
over a year ago
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"There's no need to reply because some people think it's rude not too. No reply is a polite "no thanks" as per Fabs FAQS. If you reply no thanks you will indeed get more unwanted messages and unfortunately maybe some abusive ones."
Completely agree |
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"Ok so I hear some men complaining that women don't reply back, even to say they're not interested (out of politeness etc) so I decided I put the effort in and say no thanks to men. But all I get is why and how they can change my mind...still think block is my friend. Personally, I really don't want the details of why someone isn't interested in me as ultimately I'm not not their type. So logically isn't it obvious why I am not interested?? "
Oh I hear you girl !
Once you message someone that you are not interested in to politely say ‘thanks but not what I’m looking for’ you open the gate for them to message back.
Not with a ‘no worries’ message it’s always a let me convince you etc one
I find it really awkward as I don’t like to offend anyone |
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Just reply you think you have a chance with me, what Dreamland are you in!!! 
But on serious note.
If you do feel the need to reply, just say "sorry not my type" should be enough but problem is lots of men seem to think they are god's gift and think they can talk you around then get shirty if they can't talk you around.
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I feel your pain OP
I too used to send the ‘no thanks’ which only gets them to reply back asking why not
So I just delete the message now, saves all the hassle, if they keep messaging then I use the block button |
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I just cba with it.. don't have the time to give an explanation to every message why I'm not interested.
Some men on here (and couples) take things to heart too much. To me no reply is a reply. |
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