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I have had this urge to play with another guy, whilst with a couple.
I have tried with a guy one-on-one, but I didn't get aroused.
Does anyone else only want to play with the same sex, only when the opposite sex in involved? |
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"That’s exactly it! Why put a label on yourself! It is what it is in the moment .. not like you wanna hold hands with a dude "
Totally agree with you. I don’t fancy men never have but have and will meet men for fun |
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"Himself has sucked a dick before and would love to do it again!
Kissing guys is not an interest "
Yeah I love kissing girls, the thought of a stubbly snog doesn't do it for me lol.
Love the thought of a couple sucking me. |
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"Himself has sucked a dick before and would love to do it again!
Kissing guys is not an interest "
Same kissing a man has never appealed to me, I do enjoy a guy sucking me especially if it’s a couple and she watches I meet a couple regularly off here and she absolutely loves watching him suck me. They have a video of it on their profile I’ve got the vid for friends only to view but will make it public for a while now and I also enjoy sucking |
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Its actually so difficult to find a couple thats understandimg of this i feel the same way. Once i touched a guys cock thinking he was wanting that and him and his wife quickly decided im not for them |
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Stag feels exactly the same he is not interested in guys at all but I've convinced him to try oral and wanking only just so we all get to play together, he's finally agreed so hopefully will happen soon. xx |
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By *hubs101Man 5 weeks ago
West Midlands |
"Stag feels exactly the same he is not interested in guys at all but I've convinced him to try oral and wanking only just so we all get to play together, he's finally agreed so hopefully will happen soon. xx"
Happy to help 
Don't find men attractive at all, it's all about the cock lol |
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Always considered myself straight and have no attraction towards other men
But in the heat of the moment with other couples we have both had bi oral wile playing together
Electric at the time but don't find men attractive so that’s as far as it goes |
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I would say to be completely honest about what you want with all parties, but that doesn't necessarily work either.
I tried to organise a bi mmf for myself and my FB.
I met with a prospective guy and told him what it was we wanted - orally bi (giving and receiving) and touching, but nothing else. The guy gave me full assurances he was up for this and had experience of doing this previously with other couples.
When it came to the meet he would only touch my FB's cock. Turned my encouragement to suck his cock with me and only wanted to play with me from then on.
It was still fun, but not what we had both hoped for and a real let down that he lied.
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I’ve been told I am hete exible and would be happy to stroke and suck a cock whilst playing with couples but when I’m horny and I see a nice cock I just want to grab it and enjoy. Lots of interest locally from bi & gay men for 1 on 1 cock play but not sure if I should run with it ?? |
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That describes me pretty much, I’ve always described it as ‘sexually bi sexual’
I’m not attracted to men, at all. But I am to the cock and the pleasure it can give during sex.
I wouldn’t kiss a male or ever look to do more than play with one during sex. |
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"I don't fancy guys but I've sucked cock during MMF meets, also met guys on their own for mutual wanking and cock sucking fun. Not into kissing men or anal but do enjoy a nice hard cock."
Sums me up, though I have topped a few times. |
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"I would say to be completely honest about what you want with all parties, but that doesn't necessarily work either.
I tried to organise a bi mmf for myself and my FB.
I met with a prospective guy and told him what it was we wanted - orally bi (giving and receiving) and touching, but nothing else. The guy gave me full assurances he was up for this and had experience of doing this previously with other couples.
When it came to the meet he would only touch my FB's cock. Turned my encouragement to suck his cock with me and only wanted to play with me from then on.
It was still fun, but not what we had both hoped for and a real let down that he lied.
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Sadly a familiar story that makes it difficult for those if us who like playing with both, |
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By first bi experience was a bit of a shock. The husband held my ball while I was in his wife. Such a shock that I would never surprise a straight man in the same way.
It took me about a year to experiment.
What I can say is I'm atracted to women, with men it is just sex and never more. |
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By *W72Man 2 weeks ago
Sheffield |
Pretty much the same on attraction side of things and it is strange that I’ve sucked cock and had my cock sucked by a guy and both fucked a guy and been fucked but it was the kissing that I thought “No”!!
When it did happen during a MMF threesome it wasn’t the end of the world and would repeat but it is mainly about the cock for me. |
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Thanks for posting this! This is where I am as well. I want to experiment with a man in a MMF scenario but have no attraction to men. Bi playful it is then!
Sadly not that many opportunities for single men, especially with a dad bod! How do these guys stay so ripped! |
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I’m similar to you. I could probably meet a different guy a day if I wanted as I get lots of offfers but meeting a single guy doesn’t really do anything for me.
My turn on is the dynamic of a couple both wanting to touch my cock, and it can be of me wanting to share the hubbies cock if he wanted that to happen. I’ve played with a wife of the couple as I would do if I was playing with a straight couple and had the husband afterwards has said that he enjoyed looking at my hard cock and would I mind touching it. This has led to some horny bi fun at future meets. |
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"I have had this urge to play with another guy, whilst with a couple.
I have tried with a guy one-on-one, but I didn't get aroused.
Does anyone else only want to play with the same sex, only when the opposite sex in involved?"
Yes I love playing with bi couples. (Oral only)
Started of when I was part of a couple and just ended up sharing the guys cock with her. Enjoyed it and women love it.
Guy has to have a good size cock for me to suck it tho lol. |
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"Being attracted to and liking having sex with are in my experience two different things.
Am I attracted to men? No.
Do I like sucking cock and being fucked by men? Yes."
I am the same theres probably once or twice I have been attracted to a guy enough to kiss him, but sex on the other hand, is a completly different ball game. |
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"Being attracted to and liking having sex with are in my experience two different things.
Am I attracted to men? No.
Do I like sucking cock and being fucked by men? Yes.I am the same theres probably once or twice I have been attracted to a guy enough to kiss him, but sex on the other hand, is a completly different ball game."
Kind off how I feel |
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N doesn’t fancy men and wouldn’t play one on one but within a group play dynamic, we both find it incredibly hot for there to be hands and mouths every where with everyone pleasuring everyone and being pleasured by everyone. Not everyone feels the need to label their sexuality, as long as you’re able to clearly define what you do and don’t want, that’s all that matters.
C x |
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"I don't fancy men but always found the thought of a woman sucking mine and another guy's cock together so erotic...and obviously our cocks would be touching in the woman's mouth..."
There is nothing gay or bi about this. I’ve done this with two straight guys. You’re being pleasured by a woman.
C x |
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"I don't fancy men but always found the thought of a woman sucking mine and another guy's cock together so erotic...and obviously our cocks would be touching in the woman's mouth..."
This was my first experience and was so nervous.
When she got the both in her mouth they touched and it felt awesome.
At the end of the day it’s a pleasure feeling and I would gladly do it again |
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I haven’t had sex with a man but mutual play and oral plenty of times. It’s easier to get another guy that a woman when I’m suddenly horny 
I kiss if asked which is something I can take or leave.
I’m likely to have sex with a guy at some stage but more interested in receiving as I have had anal with lots of women.
No interest in a relationship with a guy though |
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"N doesn’t fancy men and wouldn’t play one on one but within a group play dynamic, we both find it incredibly hot for there to be hands and mouths every where with everyone pleasuring everyone and being pleasured by everyone. Not everyone feels the need to label their sexuality, as long as you’re able to clearly define what you do and don’t want, that’s all that matters.
C x"
This sums up my own definition of how I play bi probably better than I could have stated myself  |
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I definitely fall into this category.
I dont fancy guys, nor see a guy on the street and think any of the thoughts that I would do when I see a beautiful woman.
But every now and then I crave cock and would love to play with one. I'm the same in MMF or with TS, if I'm in the mood then I'm all for it but otherwise I don't even think about it
Now where are all those MMF and TS? |
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