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how old is TOO old ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Having been in the "scene" for a number of years, and having met many people through the social side of things, clubs etc.
Well it got me thinking about age.
I have met people from 18 to 65 and its only been recently and with yet another birthday looming, that i wondered if swinging has an age limit ?
How old would you be before you considered it TOO old to swing ?
How old would you go re swinging partners ? would you give up at 60 + or carry on if you felt fit enough, attractive enough, bits still functioning etc ?
just curious thats all ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never thought about being too old..
Suppose when the interest goes away... I mean if you were 80 and still interested and someone else wanted to.. well, thats the answer lol.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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lmao
im sure they havent lied, just embellished the truth
but i cant see me bonking a 100 yr old or visa versa .
i will want the young and gorgeous even at 80 whether i can get me legs up and over is another matter .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you've met ppl of a similar age and played with them fairly regularly,whats to stop you playing together as you age together?
Thats probably another plus side to developing a close circle of swinging friends.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Very true,
i can give him his sanatagen and he can rub the deepheat into me joints prior to trying to have a bonk .
i likes the sound of that in me old age
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never lied about my age but I DO find that a lot of younger people DO lie about their age especially men.I don't find that being 59 has reduced any interest in me at all........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have never lied about my age but I DO find that a lot of younger people DO lie about their age especially men.I don't find that being 59 has reduced any interest in me at all........"
but u dont look 59 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Didnt read the replies was looking at the mighty fine pairs of boobies hehe xxx dam lovely whoes lol"
do you have boobies?
or do i need to get mi specs on lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many people lie about their age, some reply to our ad say yes we would like to meet then they check it and read the profile and say "just notice your ages and sorry not what we are looking for".
Your loss I say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"now me n u is thinking along the same lines here great minds eh? x
That mean you are deleting your profile next yr lol"
nope the gorgeous guys on here just cudnt do with out me |
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Your never too old, think you just slow down abit. Have to say im not as wild as i was when i was younger so i guess in another 20 years i will be really mellow. Boyfriend doesnt do anything like he used to but then i wear him out enough lol |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
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At Chams last week and there in attendance was a very old frail looking lady who had to be 90!!!
The fella she was with only looked about 60/70 - so werent sure if he had brought his mum out for the day.
Didnt see em getting any action, but then only glanced sideways et em for 5mins.
Rock on!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At Chams last week and there in attendance was a very old frail looking lady who had to be 90!!!
The fella she was with only looked about 60/70 - so werent sure if he had brought his mum out for the day.
Didnt see em getting any action, but then only glanced sideways et em for 5mins.
Rock on!!"
i used to be the manager ov a residential home for the elderly ....... shivers so cudnt go there!! xx |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
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"At Chams last week and there in attendance was a very old frail looking lady who had to be 90!!!
The fella she was with only looked about 60/70 - so werent sure if he had brought his mum out for the day.
Didnt see em getting any action, but then only glanced sideways et em for 5mins.
Rock on!! i used to be the manager ov a residential home for the elderly ....... shivers so cudnt go there!! xx"
Whats wrong with all that wrinkly translucent saggy skin then hey??? LOL
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At Chams last week and there in attendance was a very old frail looking lady who had to be 90!!!
The fella she was with only looked about 60/70 - so werent sure if he had brought his mum out for the day.
Didnt see em getting any action, but then only glanced sideways et em for 5mins.
Rock on!! i used to be the manager ov a residential home for the elderly ....... shivers so cudnt go there!! xx
Whats wrong with all that wrinkly translucent saggy skin then hey??? LOL
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you having a go at me there??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At Chams last week and there in attendance was a very old frail looking lady who had to be 90!!!
The fella she was with only looked about 60/70 - so werent sure if he had brought his mum out for the day.
Didnt see em getting any action, but then only glanced sideways et em for 5mins.
Rock on!! i used to be the manager ov a residential home for the elderly ....... shivers so cudnt go there!! xx
Whats wrong with all that wrinkly translucent saggy skin then hey??? LOL
you having a go at me there???"
if the cap fits bigboy lol |
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seriously ,i saw this programme on agism in the workforce a few weeks ago and they had a doctor on who said they can prove conclusively now there is very little difference between a 45 yr old and 65 yr old providing they remain active .so it really should be down to looks ....but its more than that isnt it .? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"snip...that i wondered if swinging has an age limit ?
How old would you be before you considered it TOO old to swing ?
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Have you done a search on all, say start at 60 to 99, be surprised that there are a few who enjoy a swing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"seriously ,i saw this programme on agism in the workforce a few weeks ago and they had a doctor on who said they can prove conclusively now there is very little difference between a 45 yr old and 65 yr old providing they remain active .so it really should be down to looks ....but its more than that isnt it .?"
I guess it is...many of the comments on this forum are really quite nasty and unpleasant when it comes to mentioning age.They forget that one day they too will be in their 50's and 60's.....age does not stop desire in many people and we don't all look like Shrek either. |
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"seriously ,i saw this programme on agism in the workforce a few weeks ago and they had a doctor on who said they can prove conclusively now there is very little difference between a 45 yr old and 65 yr old providing they remain active .so it really should be down to looks ....but its more than that isnt it .?
I guess it is...many of the comments on this forum are really quite nasty and unpleasant when it comes to mentioning age.They forget that one day they too will be in their 50's and 60's.....age does not stop desire in many people and we don't all look like Shrek either."
yeahhh I think its the stereotypes we all remember hun rather than the reality its completely wrong since HRT and Andropause treatment. I know a few guys approaching 60 who can outfuck and out run guys half there age and have so much experience....
The funny thing is ...not one person on this site is heading the other way ...its going to hit everyone and theres something quite good about that.....
For the record, for me ..sexiness comes from within and is nothing to do with age.Give me a 60 yr old with a sparkle in her eye anytime ...no kids to worry about ...comfortable with herself ,,,wise ...and despite what we think ,of course always being chased by guys half her age . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For the record, for me ..sexiness comes from within and is nothing to do with age. Give me a 60 yr old with a sparkle in her eye anytime "
Never mind a frigging sparkle, give me a 60 year old with one good eye and I'm bloody happy!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only started swinging once I hit 50 I've never been short of offers, I have had to put on my profile no-one under 30 please, it's there for a reason, my kids are under 30 too lol. You would be surprised at the amount of young guys and femms who contact me daily even though that is on my profile. I for one couldn't swing with an 18-25 year old but judging by the mail they have no problem swinging with a 50 yr old plus... so party on people there will always be someone out there ready and willing to party with you regardless of age! xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I suppose what started this thread was a looming birthday and you get to thinking. lmao
but like others, and regardless if ive been on the bigger size or slimmer, ive never been short on offers.
Swinging is a state of mind also i think and have met many at clubs who are 20+ my senior and been having fun.
And as long as whoever im with and ...having fun with accepts who i am regardless of age and wobbly bits.
Its onwards and upwards and fun all the way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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started swinging at age 53 - now 58! never had so much fun and met some great friends of all ages! some younger friends verified me by saying.....don't let age put you off.....or words to that effect! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have had younger but now im quite happy with similar age,
Its all to do with who you meet and who rocks your boat so to speak, and im more than happy with what i have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think age depends on apearance also you could be 47 as i am yet i get told i look younger and also your performances if i can perform as good as any young 23 year old wy should age stop me lawrence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As regards original question, our rule of thumb is 10 years younger than female and 10 years older than male. But is only a rule of thumb, if they look nice and their is a spark then age doesnt really matter.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got a "Thanks but no thanks" explaining that I was too old. Boo hoo - I'll go get me zimmer frame!"
What!! who was that from? someone at nursery lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure here, we are in our mid forties, think the idea for us at least would be to have fun for a few years to CUM ! lol but somwhere along the line we dont want to impose all our wrinkly bits on other people later on lol. think we shall retire hopefully gracefully hehe. |
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