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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just me....(one for the ladies here)...but if you get a message from a guy with big cock or similar in their name, or telling you they have a big cock.... Is it usually total bollocks. If you look they just have a fairly average cock (which I do actually prefer) what they do have is cock for brains most of the time!! |
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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago
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"Is it just me....(one for the ladies here)...but if you get a message from a guy with big cock or similar in their name, or telling you they have a big cock.... Is it usually total bollocks. If you look they just have a fairly average cock (which I do actually prefer) what they do have is cock for brains most of the time!!"
. Very true . Only you the recipient of the message can make a judgement based on the pictures . In any event , quality is better than quantity..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a guy starts banging on about his cock whatever the size, I'm not interested. I want to meet a person, not a cock or one who thinks its the only thing women want. |
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It's how they use it, but pics are funny in terms of perspective, we've had a couple of meets (great meets) with guys whose pics showed "huge cocks" and on the day, I was bigger than both, so perspective on pics is strange. Clearly the only way to prove it is with a tv remote or lager can ....that was a joke before anyone starts sending us pics like that!  |
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"Is it just me....(one for the ladies here)...but if you get a message from a guy with big cock or similar in their name, or telling you they have a big cock.... Is it usually total bollocks. If you look they just have a fairly average cock (which I do actually prefer) what they do have is cock for brains most of the time!!"
Ok... Know this is one for the ladies, but I find it weird too.
I wouldn't put a cock pic up, but get asked for one so often, it's easier and saves time to do so.
But I also dislike describing yourself as BBC, a bull or having black in your name...
When I was in China I got given the king of all "black names".
The "Heise Long" meaning Black Dragon, but i find it a little cringe worthy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of the best sex I've ever had has been with men with smaller or average size cocks..... I had a boyfriend at uni whose penis was rather thin and small but fuck me,he knew exactly what to do with it! Size ain't everything! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm being totally honest here and in no way trying to create a "look at me" twist but I personally don't think I'm big but get told I am , ( by women and men ) , I'd rather be liked ( in a wish to meet sense ) for my sense of sincerity and willingness to have sexy fun for both of us rather than to think it's about boosting anyone's ego....we were given what we have ( from being created at birth lol ) ... its not what we have but what we do with it I think.
I'm NOT that shallow to think it's all about size.... more about the chemistry between lovers that makes for great sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get instantly turned off by a guy that feels he has to draw my attention to his cock. Don't get me wrong, I like to see what I'm potentially going to get, but I prefer to have a sneaky peek without referring to the fact that I have seen and like what I see.  |
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Having a big cock is not the be all and end all of it. Might be big but can he use it and not just think cos it's big it's going to make me cum.
It's not just about penetration it's the whole package from start to finish. |
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"Is it just me....(one for the ladies here)...but if you get a message from a guy with big cock or similar in their name, or telling you they have a big cock.... Is it usually total bollocks. If you look they just have a fairly average cock (which I do actually prefer) what they do have is cock for brains most of the time!!"
Most men like to think they've got a 'big' cock.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a guy starts banging on about his cock whatever the size, I'm not interested. I want to meet a person, not a cock or one who thinks its the only thing women want."
This. If they think their size is the only/best thing going for them, I'm not interested. Names with the size in really put me off.  |
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I want to know what he's like and going to do for me and understands me. Usually the big cock emphasis masks something that is important to know.
I'm happy with a range of sizes.
Can I just remind everyone that some milking is needed in Penge tonight.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women show off their tits and pussies and us men don't complain!!!
There's a difference between showing it and waving it in our faces!  "
Exactly, I can't imagine many women send a photo of their tits saying look at my huge tits, I want to shove them in your face or maybe they do, might give it a go!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Women show off their tits and pussies and us men don't complain!!!"
How many women boast about having a "big" pussy?
It's one thing to show pics (not too many) but it's the boasting about it being the be all and end all.
Just shows that the biggest cock is the guy himself.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no problems with my own size, as far as I can tell it's average. I have been told a few times however that when the woman had enjoyed was my girth. To be honest I think my tongue and lips (AND brain) do most for a woman !!!
All this said I 'sigh' a bit when women 'demand' BIG cocks. It's true they DO have better sex with them, but I wonder if that's through anticipation as opposed to physical effect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have no problems with my own size, as far as I can tell it's average. I have been told a few times however that when the woman had enjoyed was my girth. To be honest I think my tongue and lips (AND brain) do most for a woman !!!
All this said I 'sigh' a bit when women 'demand' BIG cocks. It's true they DO have better sex with them, but I wonder if that's through anticipation as opposed to physical effect. "
How do you know its true, have you conducted a survey??!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women show off their tits and pussies and us men don't complain!!!
There's a difference between showing it and waving it in our faces!
Exactly, I can't imagine many women send a photo of their tits saying look at my huge tits, I want to shove them in your face or maybe they do, might give it a go!!"
There are women's profiles that do state look stuff like huge tits wet pussy blah blah blah but they get positive attention because they are females |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"It's how they use it, but pics are funny in terms of perspective, we've had a couple of meets (great meets) with guys whose pics showed "huge cocks" and on the day, I was bigger than both, so perspective on pics is strange. Clearly the only way to prove it is with a tv remote or lager can ....that was a joke before anyone starts sending us pics like that! "
Damm i was about to get me camera and tape measure put lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women show off their tits and pussies and us men don't complain!!!
There's a difference between showing it and waving it in our faces!
Exactly, I can't imagine many women send a photo of their tits saying look at my huge tits, I want to shove them in your face or maybe they do, might give it a go!!
There are women's profiles that do state look stuff like huge tits wet pussy blah blah blah but they get positive attention because they are females"
But its the men that give them that attention! Men are generally more receptive to talk like that, women aren't. I guess they're aiming their profile at their target market. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women show off their tits and pussies and us men don't complain!!!
There's a difference between showing it and waving it in our faces!
Exactly, I can't imagine many women send a photo of their tits saying look at my huge tits, I want to shove them in your face or maybe they do, might give it a go!!
There are women's profiles that do state look stuff like huge tits wet pussy blah blah blah but they get positive attention because they are females
But its the men that give them that attention! Men are generally more receptive to talk like that, women aren't. I guess they're aiming their profile at their target market. "
So if a guy does it is it seen as a bad or nasty thing or is it the fact that 50% of guys do it so its become irrelevant
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have no problems with my own size, as far as I can tell it's average. I have been told a few times however that when the woman had enjoyed was my girth. To be honest I think my tongue and lips (AND brain) do most for a woman !!!
All this said I 'sigh' a bit when women 'demand' BIG cocks. It's true they DO have better sex with them, but I wonder if that's through anticipation as opposed to physical effect.
How do you know its true, have you conducted a survey??! "
No, and I admit this was a bit of a 'Sweeping statement' but many years ago I did read an article in Forum Mag in which some sexologists conducted experiments that showed a large number of women (Blind-folded) couldn't tell size from how it felt 'In' and if they were told it was big said it was better. Often it was the same guy as before.
I guess if the sight of a bigger one arouses you more then you will enjoy it more....and if a girl has a wish then that's her wish.
Guys who feel they NEED to say it's big I guess are worried all women will say BBC and they will lose out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women show off their tits and pussies and us men don't complain!!!
There's a difference between showing it and waving it in our faces!
Exactly, I can't imagine many women send a photo of their tits saying look at my huge tits, I want to shove them in your face or maybe they do, might give it a go!!
There are women's profiles that do state look stuff like huge tits wet pussy blah blah blah but they get positive attention because they are females
But its the men that give them that attention! Men are generally more receptive to talk like that, women aren't. I guess they're aiming their profile at their target market.
So if a guy does it is it seen as a bad or nasty thing or is it the fact that 50% of guys do it so its become irrelevant
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Lots of guys do it as they think because that sort of thing turns them on, it will have the women falling at their feet. The successful guys know what attracts women on here. How many threads have you seen where women (not all I grant you) say they're turned off by cock photos yet how many guys have exclusively cock photos on their profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lots of guys do it as they think because that sort of thing turns them on, it will have the women falling at their feet. The successful guys know what attracts women on here. How many threads have you seen where women (not all I grant you) say they're turned off by cock photos yet how many guys have exclusively cock photos on their profile? "
I'm sure if the numbers were more even then this wouldn't be a bigger issue because 50% of womens profiles have pictures of their assests too but its more magnified due to the number of blokes but I understand both ends of the stick |
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"Women show off their tits and pussies and us men don't complain!!!
How many women boast about having a "big" pussy?
It's one thing to show pics (not too many) but it's the boasting about it being the be all and end all.
Just shows that the biggest cock is the guy himself...."
I don't think a woman would do herself any favours saying she had a 'big pussy' A small tight pussy is more sought after. It would be like a man bragging about having a tiny penis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If all a man has available to advertise is the size of their cock then I'm guessing the meet sounds ominous. I get asked for cock pics by men and couples and I never see the point.
I've always found it funny when someone says how long they are and I look at their profile pic, or see them on cam, and I think 'yeah right. Were you measuring from your anus?'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lots of guys do it as they think because that sort of thing turns them on, it will have the women falling at their feet. The successful guys know what attracts women on here. How many threads have you seen where women (not all I grant you) say they're turned off by cock photos yet how many guys have exclusively cock photos on their profile?
I'm sure if the numbers were more even then this wouldn't be a bigger issue because 50% of womens profiles have pictures of their assests too but its more magnified due to the number of blokes but I understand both ends of the stick "
Because in general, men like to see that but there are always some exceptions. Men, on the whole, are visually stimulated where as women are more mentally stimulated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me....(one for the ladies here)...but if you get a message from a guy with big cock or similar in their name, or telling you they have a big cock.... Is it usually total bollocks. If you look they just have a fairly average cock (which I do actually prefer) what they do have is cock for brains most of the time!!"
Some of them are alright to talk to actually, they're just advertising what they feel is their best feature to promote on here.
Many of them do have bigger than average cocks definitely. Although one guy (mentioned his big dick in his name) did do a pic that was angled so it looked massive and i actually didn't wanna meet him coz it looked too big, but i was horny one day and he messaged me again and i wanted to try it so met him, he was still massive but not as big as i initially thought he was.
There are a small proportion of guys who do feel their dick is all they have to offer on here. |
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