 | We went on Saturday with some hopes: we'd read good things and we'd had fabulous visits to another club, and so felt prepared and open and flexible. We're definitely not novices or newbies, but we both agree that this club is to be avoided completely.
The biggest issue is the clients' inabillity to respect etiquette for swinging, and the staff's refusal to uphold their own policies.
I have truly never come across a group of clients with such a blatant disregard for 'don't touch until told it's OK' and 'don't verbally abuse female patrons'. I have also never come across staff who openly watch single males reel and stagger in abject drunkenness and ignore that, even as these men approach female clients and bad-mouth them.
I laughed at the review below saying something about how people should say something at the time and not moan on the internet. Truthfully, if my partner and I had reported every single male who touched me without my consent, swore at me, verbally abused me, and made me feel unsafe, the place would have been pretty empty that night.
Some battles are simply not worth waging, so we left and we won't be back. We know of better, more respectful clubs where I can wander freely without worry and know that any man who approaches me won't be leglessly drunk, slurring curse words, and lunging in for a grope.
Date: 17 September 2019
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