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Xtasia

Rating: Fun
First time visit to club. Turned into a very enjoyable occasion. Quick tour from paul - then a wait for it to fill up (we arrived too early).

Single girl on dance floor for a while but got busier eventually. Play rooms not as spacious as those at chams (we like the couple's room there) - and being clothed made playing a little harder. Far easier to just remove shorts or towel and play - with clothes safely in a locker.

Thanks D&A - you made our night for us. Nice to have a watching crowd at the end of the night.


Date: 3 November 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Visited this fantastic club last night as was in the area and had been recommended by friends.

Wow. What can we say. The website is clear and concise but seeing the club in the flesh blew our minds away. SO many areas to explore. Something for everyone for sure.

Particularly loved the dogging area but my favourite room was the recording room. ( was feeling brave )

Superbly run. Was made to feel very welcome.

The hosts were very attentive.

With a Premier Inn on the doorstep WE WILL return.

Thankyou for a FAB evening xxxxxx


Date: 31 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
As a single professional male frequenting this venue, I feel compelled to share my experience after reading the last few threads. I have been swinging as a single for the last four years now and I have visited most of the clubs in West Midlands. I must say that some of them are pretty decent but it's for the following reasons that I keep coming back to Xtasia again and again.

Owners and staffs:

I find Paul & Flirt genuinely down to earth as couples who have made me feel at home from day one. Their nice and friendly staffs further add to this fondness.

Location:

Take a few steps to the left from the club and you have nice hotel which is very reasonably priced if you decide to stay over for the night. A few steps to the right and you have a kebab shop that operates till 4am. (often comes handy if you need a quick fill once the club is closed at 3am, whether you are heading back home or off to the hotel for extended play)

Coat area:

I really like the fact that the staffs keep a keen eye and a smiley face, making sure we leave our phones behind. The last thing I need is my office mates discovering my carnal adventures on the net. Not that I care but I always prefer to keep my private life private.

Club area:

This is a huge club with a nice dance floor, makeshift dogging loft, chill-out room, cinema room, jacuzzi and sauna, locker rooms, dungeon, reasonably priced bar with plenty of bar area and of course the various styled playrooms, glory holes and etc. I personally love the fact that we can move our plays around adding variety and not being stuck at one place all the time. It's also well maintained and clean which is very important to me.

Genuine swingers:

Unlike some other places, there is no paid girls here which stays true to the swinging spirit.

Quality members:

I have not to date witnessed any incident that has jeopardised the clubs ambience due to unruly behaviour of single men which could only be the result of proper controls and filtering.

However, having said all this, there is still plenty of room for improvements on the minor things, keeping in mind the tremendous improvements and changes that has taken place in the last two months. Now that I have shared my views openly, I also owe a duty to write my suggestions and drop them into the suggestion box. So team Paul & Flirt, please keep up the good work and aspiration to further improve the club along with promoting the lifestyle.

What did I miss on the last greedy girls Friday?? Looks like there is no break for horsemen and riders. I'm sure the single stallions from all over will come this Friday to restore the balance. So see you guys this Friday and come say hello to me or else ....I will come say hello to you. Enjoy your week :-)

Crusoeking


Date: 29 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
We too went along on the Greedy Gals night on the Friday and would agree with everything in the previous review, however feel we need to add a different take on it.

The club itself was A1. Everything was spotlessly clean and fresh, the prices for admission and drinks were great, the staff warm and welcoming, and the thought that had gone into the layout of the club is significant.

The issue, as pointed out is numbers, however we go back to days well before Paul & Flirt took over the place, and trust us, just before they arrived the place was absolutely dead. Week in and week out we see the numbers attending rise now, and you can see by the numbers talking about the place that the club is starting to become a place to go.

Its such a big club that numbers anything less than 100 can seem lost. However that's 100 people that you can potentially hook up with if you try and put yourselves out there a bit. We did and had great fun with two other couples that night, once in the Jacuzzi and once in the dungeon, but we understand how empty it might feel if you stick at the bar waiting for things to happen.

As for the singles, they missed a trick or two that night. Couples certainly outweighed the singles, but I know there are members on Fab who are trying hard to rectify this situation by encouraging guys along to the club. One day soon they'll spot that there's somewhere else they should join to stay in the action, its their loss until they do, :)

One cautionary word, we also remember when the club was heaving 10+ years ago. Then, it was too busy, so finding the balance and trying to maintain it should be the aim, we're just glad we came back and became part of it again at this stage. Keep it up P&F, we love what you're doing.


Date: 28 October 2013

Rating: OK
We've only ever been to one club and decided we should see what we were missing. So, this was our first visit not only to Xtasia, but to another club. We took along a single female with us too who also wanted to try the club. Positives - Paul who showed us around was a lovely guy and made us feel welcome and relaxed. The play areas appeared to be spotlessly clean and loved the quirky aspects to them with glory holes and mirrors etc. the dungeon again was well equipped. The jacuzzi looked inviting too. The bar was fairly priced and Sam behind the bar was lovely as too were the snacks! The people we met were also fun and really great to chat with.

The not so positives... You walk in and you have to check in your coats, any bags etc. I went back a few times, like a lot of people to check my phone, and had to wait in line to do it. Fair enough, but our bag also contained our supply of things like lube, condoms, makeup etc. if we were heading off for some fun having to queue to get my own stuff is annoying.

Capacity - this club can cater for what seems like a large number of people. If you don't have large numbers in then the atmosphere just seeps out. Unfortunately this was the case. The club was pretty empty and as soon as we'd been shown around, the conversation to leave was had. I think thats its Achilles heel - it big enough to hold some huge events, but with that you lose the intimacy.

We decided to stay as it would hopefully fill up later. It's fair to say more people did turn up, however even at its peak I'd describe it as very quiet. We purposefully went on a greedy girl night and we periodically did a count around the room and there were more couples than single guys. On a greedy girls night, I would expect them to have to be turning down single guys at the door. What's going on? And that's a good question - great staff, great facilities, reasonable prices - empty club? Why?

We didn't put avoid, because think people should make their own minds up and there was nothing hideously wrong and it could have just been a very quiet night.

It's taken us over 2 years to try another club because getting a night away is a costly, complicated exercise and we've always just gone with where we know we will have a good time.

Would we go again? Unlikely, but we would urge others who are considering it to make their own minds up. Overall it was a very clean, safe environment. Just need to sort out the numbers. I'm sure the management would love to see it busier too.

D&K. Xx



Date: 27 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
We have been to this club several times now, it just keeps getting better, each visit is exciting and welcoming. ALL staff are friendly, the club it self is very well kept, clean-tidy- warm & very comfortable. There are various play areas both private and open a great chill out lounge and very well stocked bar. The events are very well organised, so watch out for one you will especially enjoy. We have found it is really worth the 280 mile round trip and will be there again soon.

Date: 26 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
went to xtacia last week with my fabswinger man (billy1965),had a great time,the staff are very friendly,we loved the glory hole room ,very sexy, then we went in the couples room were we watched and was watched by orther couple.cant wait to go there again and next time stop in the premier hotel which is next door,so i can have a drink lol see you soon people xxx

Date: 25 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
We decided to give Xtasia a try last Friday & Saturday. Had a fab time. Met loads of fantastic people. Very clean club and fantastic bar staff to. Was made to feel very much at ease as it was our first time there! Can't wait to go again xx

Date: 21 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
A great place with excellent facilities and always welcoming staff. Lots of lovely, well-behaved and respectable people attend the many different parties there. The newly restored hot tub is the icing on the cake.

Date: 20 October 2013

Rating: Fun
Had a pre arranged meet and went to xtasia was made to feel very welcome and relaxed. Staff was really friendly and the club was very clean with plenty of different areas to choose from. Shall definitely be going back for another visit :)

Date: 20 October 2013

Rating: OK
Returned back to xtasia with my fb and my mate on Friday and it wasn't like it was last yr,I think it was because it was a mix night of bdsm and swinging,I now know these two DO NOT mix at all,after the bdsm people went the club was quite empty,maybe these mixed nights should be held on separate nights,I'll make sure what's planned before we return,shame.

Date: 19 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
We went to xtasia last night not been for a while and it was a mega night this club is getting better all the time play rooms r great music good new poles even better staff wonderful thanks guys for a great night see u all soon ***

Date: 19 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Oh what a night!! right from the start as gained complimentary entry as it was our 5th visit in 6wks Had a meet pre arranged and we all clicked which meant lots of fun. Took over the dungeoun for a couple of sessions throughout the night. As always everywhere immaculate and clean....sauna looked great although didn't dive in. Great to get to chat to Paul and see him around the club, apologies for getting my backside out whilst you were showing newbies around. The girls on the bar are great sam i will entice you onto that pole with me one night x Was great fun on the dance floor near the end of the night a great bunch of people in and up for a giggle and more. Can't wait to get back see you on the 9th Nov or the 2nd if I get withdrawals again x if you've not been yet give it a try club is first class!

Date: 15 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
great time on friday,great club and i tell you what pauls a top bloke,tells you if you over stepped the mark,we did sorry.

Date: 14 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Just made it home after 3 nights on the trot at Xstasia, making the most of the deal they do on new memberships. Loved the place, its a tardis with so many areas to explore and play in. Found everyone to be lovely, friendly and happy to not push us as new to it all. Paul did the tour for us on Thursday night when we tried out the new Bi night. Wasn't a lot in, didn't expect there to be, but Jacuzzi was lovely and spent a good hour in there with another guy (sorry forgot name).

Went back Friday for the Blackmans club night. wow what a difference, it was packed with loads of very sexy couples and lots of single guys to choose from, and not just black, so we were realy chuffed. Had a great play in a smaller private room, they are all so clean and fresh, and no holes in matresses which was great. The Jacuzzi was full to overflowing when we tried to get near it later, so went up into the loft area where the cars are (love the idea) and had fun with a couple of the guys there.

Saturday was different again, about 50 couples in which built up nicely over the evening. Think every room in the building was busy at some point although the dancefloor needed more people. Funny watching everyone dance around the edge, but not go onto the floor. At the end of the night though plenty folks came back from playing and we all had a massive danceout around and on the poles, was hilarious.

Can't fault the place really, everything was clean and fresh, plenty to do, staff were lovely, others in were all sexy and well dressed. Most importantly, close enough to become are regular haunt, happy days. No longer club virgins.


Date: 13 October 2013

Rating: Fun
We went last night for the flirty thirtys night and had a great time, the venue is fantastic as was the music! Loads of sexy couples and we had a very naughty time with quite a few of them! Deffo be back x.

Date: 13 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Hubby and I went to the BMFC event on Friday night and had a fantastic time. We had so much fun in the Jacuzzi which has added an extra fun element to what is already a great club. We also brought with us a couple who are new to the scene and they absolutely loved it, Paul and Flirt thanks for a wonderful night xx

Date: 13 October 2013

Rating: OK
First time at xtasia tonight, staff very friendly made us feel very welcome, place empty until around ten then started to fill up, I can't see what's the point of the dance floor if very few people are going to use it, I won't recommend the club to people but neither will I deter them from going, I don't think we will be going back, tried it and found it not for us, but I hope other people enjoy the place.

Date: 13 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
WOW,WOW,WOW...what a night!

Attended on the BMFC event of Friday night and what a night it was, with the Jacuzzi now re-opened, we joined in the hot tub fun and boy was there some fun to be had, god knows how many managed to get in, but it all added to the nights fun.

As always the place is very clean, great people, a brilliant atmosphere, what more can you ask of a club.

Thanks to Paul & Flirt, for another memorable evening..we'll be back very soon x


Date: 12 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
tried the thursday event had a great time as usual,the jacuzzi is up and running.just adds a new dimension to a great club.

we will be back in there soon bringing the rubber ducks next time


Date: 11 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
We had our first vist to the club on the 5th Oct and was made to feel very welcome by the staff

After a tour of the club we got ourselves a drink (fab prices btw) and then took time to have a good look around

we did notice that the whole place was very very clean

Have to say we really enjoyed the club , the varied play rooms are fantastic , the chill out room is a great place to people watch ;)

What we will add and is different to a few of the clubs we have been to is that a good 90% of the couples that were there were having a great time in the playrooms and dungeon etc

We will be back for sure and would recommend to anybody if they was thinking on trying the club

roll on this Sat as we will be back ;)

D&A


Date: 9 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
We are officially exhausted......but addicted!! 4th visit in 5wks hoping to be back next Saturday if my backside can take anymore punishment in the dungeon seriously bruised....had another amazing night loved the dj this wk great tunes.....some lovely people in that we chatted with and then had fun with our meet in several play areas. Flirt and Paul great hosts as always think its time for a Friday visit to get my pole dancing technique sorted as they also do pole classes!!

Date: 7 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
we had a great time on sat nite it was our 5th time. we will be going again soon. it is a friendly club and the staff are great

Date: 7 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
yet again had a great night.only been a member a month and already addicted lol,me and my lady friend who i go with are realy enjoying all the rooms,and making new friends,cant wait until we go again x

Date: 6 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
We visited Xtasia on Saturday, our first time after the re-vamp and it looks awesome! Really warm reception from staff had a great intro to all the new rooms and then left to mooch around and enjoy. Can't wait for our next visit and to make use of some of the new areas ;-)

Date: 3 October 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Just got back to our hotel from our first visit to the club and have to say it was amazing.the staff were extremely helpful and took the time to show us around and make these newbies feel welcome.we really found it a very chilled out,relaxed environment with some really funky and sexy rooms with some wicked twists :-) their were some really sexy people there tonight and we really got off on watching people teasing and fucking.we fucked like crazy together and maybe next time we will find a sexy woman to join us xx

Date: 29 September 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Had a great night at leather & lace was nice to see the club really busy, met a great couple had lots of chat and fun. Managed to end up staying till kick out the time flew by. Not going for a few weeks now will probably end having withdrawal symptoms though. Cant wait for our next night out @ Xtasia it's a brilliant place would highly recommend to all x

Date: 24 September 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Well what can we say about Xtasia !! We didnt review last time as it was our event so felt it wasnt right, however we attended last night not on business but for pleasure !!

We have to say this club is absolutely on track to becoming THE number one venue for lifestylers !! We have been to many clubs but Xtasia has all the right ingredients, facilities and staff for a perfect evening of fun, music and naughtiness. Paul and Flirt are two of the nicest people we have the pleasure of knowing and work extremely hard both behind the scenes and when the club is open to ensure everyone is looked after, catered for and have a fantastic time.

Xtasia covers all the bases and then some and with the new changes, upgrades and new events coming up you would be mad to not to attend this brilliant club. They are clearly leading the way forward and bringing the lifestyle bang up to date.

We love this club as much as we love working with Paul and Flirt and have a brilliant time everytime guaranteed and are thoroughly looking forward to more visits and holding our event there :)

Thank you guys see you soon :)

S and J xxx


Date: 22 September 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Well what can i say,we never been to a club before and we was pretty neavous,(understatement )lol.But as soon as we got in we was made to feel welcome,and they relaxed us straight away,the staff are very friendly,and gave us a guided tour,the people who was in the club was friendly and respectful,we can go as far and say we had one of the best night in years,great staff great people and great music,cant wait tillnext weekend.

Date: 22 September 2013

Rating: Fabulous
First visit last Friday to a BMFC event. Club is superb, well run by great hosts and premises are top drawer.

If you haven't been here then you are missing out...

Will be visiting again soon.

J+K


Date: 18 September 2013

Rating: Fabulous
2nd visit - Well what can we say? We had a fab time!

The club was busier than our first night and we got to chat to some great couples. Our first night nerves were definitely behind us. We had lots of fun in the cinema room - damn wish I could remember your user name!! No I wasn't drinking just high from the excitement. Inhibitions left at the door ended up on the spinning pole and loved it Thanks Flirt for showing me some moves hopefully I can remember them for next Sat that's saying my aches have gone by then. We both left the club later this time round maybe next time we can manage to be kicked out at closing. Great place for loads of fun as Paul told us on our first night "It's your night you make it as fun as you want it to be" So many parts of the club to have fun in!


Date: 16 September 2013

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