Mingles Club

Colchester, East Midlands


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Mingles is a very Sexy, Fun, Friendly, and Intimate Private Members Club where the emphasis is very much on the social side of the swinging but with the potential of taking things further in our very sexy playrooms.

We have tried to create something a little different, a beautiful, intimate and sexy place where like-minded can come relax, socialise and meet new people within an intimate, non-pressured environment.

Whether you are new to the lifestyle or are more experienced you will love the atmosphere at Mingles.

With beautiful décor, fabulous music and great company you can enjoy a really fun night out with friends, we have a night to suit all including Couples Only, Gay/Bi, Ladies who enjoy a little bit more, Fetish, Themed Parties and our regular events each and every week including Wind Down Wednesdays, Indulgence Fridays and Seduction Saturdays.

If you are interested in becoming a member or would like more information then please visit our website for more information.

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Rating: Fabulous
Big thank you to Becks send Jason for a fantastic fun night. Mingles is a club where from the moment you arrive you are made to feel totally at ease. The fun and laughter sets the mood for a great social night and for those of you who want to play upstairs it's always immaculately clean. See you soon

Date: 10 February 2018

Rating: OK
What a fabulous night at this great club. The club owners also make us feel very welcome everytime we go. Just a great atmosphere and great tunes to get everyone up dancing!. Thank you for making our night one to remember. Till next time. B & S xxx

Date: 4 February 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Well we decided to attend last minute and so glad we did Bex made us feel so welcome the minute we walked in the door

Us two ladies had a great time and will definitely

Be Corning back for more

Jen (nipples) & Vicki xx

Date: 28 January 2018

Rating: Fun
Cosy with an incredible interior! Small but perfectly formed. The best bit had to be the hosts, welcoming, funny and lots of fun.

Date: 28 January 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Well Bex and Jason did it again last night with the NYE party. So glad we went and caught up with some old friends.

The very able bar staff Richard and Sarah kept every one well served and had a smile on their faces all night, well done you two.

If you haven't already been to this delightful little club then you are missing out.

See you all there for the reopening on the 17th.

Gordon and Sue xx

Date: 1 January 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Had another wonderful night at the Mingles Christmas party, so good seeing friends old and new. Great music as always from Jason and the beautiful Bex’s is the most amazing host always making sure everyone is having a great time. Thank you for 2017 and looking forward to many great nights in 2018.

Date: 24 December 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Had my first visit to Mingles (which was also my first experience of any club), and everyone was very easy to get along with and helped to put me at ease to get over my initial nerves (though playing upstairs also helped!).

The club is very clean and had a nice, enjoyable atmosphere and the space is well organised.

The only downside to my visit was that I missed the last bus (too distracted by the lovely people) and had to walk back home!

Date: 22 December 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Decided to make the effort to go to Mingles last night dispite the freezing temperatures and so glad I did.

I always have a fabulous time at the club. It's clean, friendly, laid out well and always full of beautiful, Happy, playful people.

Met some lovely people last night and enjoyed putting on a show with my machine when we managed to find room on the bed.

Love this club and can't recommend enough...if you haven't been....go you will love it....if you a regular... I hope to see you soon.

Thank you Jason and Becs.... don't stop doing what you do... you do it so well...thank you.

Date: 10 December 2017

Rating: Fabulous
My third visit to Mingles and I had such a great time. Bex and Jason are such a friendly couple and in the three times I have been I have made some great friends. Looking forward to next time xx

Date: 3 December 2017

Rating: Fabulous
My first time here for a Transcend event, but it will not be my last!

I arrived dressed and was made to feel very welcome by Becs as soon as I walked through the door. Then completed the formalities of a first visit before being given a tour of the establishment and its facilities by Goddess Felicity.

The venue is stylish, sophisticated and very clean with a range of areas to enjoy, depending upon your mood. No pressure to play unless I wished too. I met some lovely people here......guys, gurl and girls....and I hope to get to know a few more of them a little more intimately next time...

Thanks for the encouragement to get on to the dance floor in heels...you know who you are x.

Great atmosphere throughout the venue with great bar service (Richard) and music (Jason) all night along with some nice finishing touches such as the tasty snacks laid out later in the evening.

Good location and a safe walk to and from the nearby car park whilst dressed. They're happy to provde someone meet you/walk you back if you prefer.

Don't let the application form put you off from attending a great fun venue.

See you all at the next one..

Sarah xxx

Date: 27 November 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Well have to say... Why have we stayed away so long, attended mingles Saturday with friends the atmosphere was amazing the people friendly and fun and the playroom entertained us for a good while.

If you haven't been yet sort your yourself out and get down there you are truly missing out on an amazing night with beautiful people xx can't wait for our next visit the hosts and staff really make you feel welcome xx thank you for a brilliant night x

Dave and Kerry x Road and Mrs Tinks

Date: 27 November 2017

Rating: Fabulous
We visited Mingles for the first time a free weeks ago. We've been to another couple of clubs but nothing like this. This was an exclusive, well decorated and very friendly club. The owners gave us a great tour and made us feel really welcome. Everyone who attended were really friendly and we made some new friends. There were some great play areas some of which we made use of. Everywhere is really clean and I loved all the products available in the toilets...the hairspray smelt lovely!

The club isn't big but what it offers is so much more than other big clubs. We can't wait to go back for some more fun.

Date: 25 November 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Mingles.. is foremost the sexiest club in Essex and Saturday night was no different and definitely was the place to be. The club was literally buzzing with a great sexy mixture of guests; even the staff look seductive in their pjs (though the guys were keeping their bananas concealed). Naughty Fun was going on most of the night even downstairs in the curtained room ;) At one point the lockable room had at least 12 naked bodies wriggling around with some serious playing going on. Away from all the naughtiness; everyone was polite, sociable and all Mingled together nicely - newbies, couples, single males & females alike. To say the least we don't think anyone left without a big grin on their face by the end of the night. This sexy lil club just keeps on giving and everyone keeps coming back for more and more. Mingles we luv you xx LLnG

Date: 19 November 2017

Rating: OK
Firstly a big thank you to Bex and Jason, my first visit to a club and they couldn’t have been more friendly and welcoming. Lovely friendly atmosphere and a great time was had. Definitely be back. Thank you

Date: 13 November 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Well what can we say apart from if u get a chance... visit this club It's such an amazing fun sexy friendly club, bex & Jason are fantastic hosts & very sexy we might add ;) the staff a amazing to always a sexy fulfilled evening at mingles so glad we found you guys x

Date: 9 November 2017

Rating: Fun
Attended last nights Halloween party and what a fantastic night it was. Amazing fancy dress outfits, fantastic friendly atmosphere and awesome fun upstairs. This club may not be as big as some of the others but that means that your always guaranteed a more intimate and friendly environment. Keep it up xx

Date: 29 October 2017

Rating: Fabulous
We had our first visit to this wonderful classy little club ,spotlessly clean ,great hard working chilled hosts that have created a lovely intimate feeling ,felt like a fabulous house party in a club we definitely will be visiting more !!!xx

Date: 8 October 2017

Rating: Fabulous
We've visited this club on a number of occasions now and can honestly say that it's clean, beautifully decorated and has a great party atmosphere. The hosts and staff selflessly go out of their way to ensure that your time there is enjoyable and memorable. The DJ is top drawer and knows how to spin a few decent tunes. Always a pleasure.


Date: 30 September 2017

Rating: Fun
Our second time at this lovely little club. As before greeted and looked after by the fabulous friendly couple that own it. We love a dance and the music is great. The place is beautifully designed and maintained throughout and very, very. clean.

Date: 17 September 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Absolutely wonderful. The decor, layout and facilities and atmosphere is truely perfect. The hosts are the most genuine, reassuring people we've ever met. The clientele are just lovely, nothing but lovely kind and respectful. Cannot wait to go back. Brilliant experience. Thank you so much xxxxxx

Date: 20 August 2017

Rating: Fabulous
The adage 'the best things come in small packages' certainly applies to this club.

Do not be fooled by its discrete and unassuming exterior.

The interior, although not large, is very well presented and spotlessly clean. There is a good choice of social and play areas to suit all moods.

The hosts were both professional and friendly, and were always on hand to keep their guests happy.

Although this was our first visit to this club, the members made us feel very welcome and relaxed.

Looking forward to returning soon.


Date: 13 August 2017

Rating: Fun
We attended this club for the first time on Saturday, for their beach party. The place is well situated and would be easy to miss driving by. Very unassuming from the outside but divine inside. The hosts were fantastic, very lively and fun and nothing is too much hassle, the place itself is cool and sexy, the bar is great with a nice dance area and a sexy little play area to the side. Clean facilities with a shower and lockers. Upstairs there are 2 playrooms, one with a gorgeous hex bed, one lockable with plenty of room to play.

The club was a little on the quiet side, and everyone seemed to be a local, but everyone we spoke to were friendly and welcoming we didn't feel out of place for a second. Lots of fun to be had here if you're willing to get in the convo and leave your inhibitions at the door. We had a great 5sum to end the evening, it was the perfect night. If you're thinking of going then go, you won't regret it

Date: 24 July 2017

Rating: Fabulous
We have been chatting to Bex & Jason, online for over 2 years, yet either of us had struggled to meet up until last Saturday when we finally managed to venture to there club. We were greeted by the elegant, sexy Bex as we approached front door, who recognised us straight away and kindly ushered us into the reception area. Immediately their was a sense of elegance to the club as we signed in. As we entered the main area a beaming, welcoming Jason appeared who then proceeded to show us all the wonderful features of Mingles.

The two playrooms upstairs looked very inviting, fun and sensual. One room was an open play area with two large beds and an hexagonal bed, the other lockable room also had two beds. The chair behind the iron bars with restraints attached to the wall I particularly liked x. The initial sense of elegance we felt was reinforced as we were show around, the club oozes a feeling that a lot of time, energy had been spent on creating the perfect ambiance in a very contemporary style enhanced by the subtle neon mood lighting. As we walked around fellow guests warmly welcomed us. The busy bar severed up a variety of soft drinks from the friendly barman. Music flowed through the main social area at a level that suited that time of the evening enabling all us guests to converse with each other with out shouting that you fine in other clubs. A fabulous, sexy eclectic mix of guests were in attendance this evening all busy chatting and socialising. It was so pleasing to see our hosts taking time in introducing, a new couple to the club, to other guests and immediately putting them at ease, a sign that this club goes that bit further. As the evening progressed the music level was raised, followed by classic dance tunes we all love to dance to, several birthdays were being celebrated this night so the appearance of candles and cake simply added an additional buzz to an already fantastic night. We met a lovely couple from Romford who are regulars to the club to the point that Mr of the couple had never been to any other clubs because "its that good here". Our meeting with this couple would of progressed further but unfortunately we had to make our exit due to other commitments. We thanked the fabulous Jason and Bex for a wonderful evening promising to return very soon. And we will.

We totally enjoyed our visit to Mingles with is welcoming ambiance and guests and would recommend anyone within or new to the lifestyle to visit as soon as you can. Most ladies in this lifestyle claim that "size isn't everything" and in Mingles case this simply means that everyone is mixing with each other and this is what a club should be like.

If you have been thinking checking Mingles out, then what are you waiting for ? you will not be disappointed xxxx

Hi to the lovely couple from Romford, didn't catch your Fab name xxx


Date: 18 July 2017

Rating: Fabulous

We visited mingles last night and wow! The pics on their website really dosnt do the club justice, it's stunning! It's small but it's great as you get to speak with so many people! The play area upstairs is great fun with sexy lighting and is always clean! The hosts are amazing and made us feel very welcome! We will 100% be back! X

Date: 16 July 2017

Rating: Fabulous
We had a great time at Mingles last night (lots of sexy tennis outfits to celebrate Wimbledon). We found all of the positive comments on here to be true. The hosts are lovely and very sexy too. They make you feel like VIP members of an elite club. The venue is perfectly laid out and complimented with the right levels of lighting (not dark and dingy nor bright and unflattering) loved the music too. The bar area is comfortable and ideal for meeting new friends and socialising. We had an intimate and rapturous experience in one of the private play rooms but there are also open play areas too for the exhibitionists. Impressively clean and hygienic throughout, clinical in fact. Perfect for a first club experience just as much as for seasoned swingers.

8/10 from us (add the facility to keep our wine chilled and it would be 10/10).

We eventually left an hour after the official closing time and could have stayed for longer. Thank you for an excellent night.

Date: 9 July 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Spur of the moment decision to head to Mingles last night and so glad we did. The venue was clean, intimate and tastefully decorated. Pretty busy, a good crowd of chilled, fun and respectful sexy swingers. Good to see so many confident women dressed up and looking gorgeous. We enjoyed a few drinks, chatted with guests and owners...and had a play with a few. We will definitely be back. Best club experience for us thus far. Jo and Mike

Date: 11 June 2017

Rating: Fabulous
What an amazing night we had last night! The venue was clean and well laid out. The hosts were awesome, though Jason's equipment did overheat several times and stopped and started a few times throughout the night! (I am talking about the music, you dirty minded fuckers and I don't blame him for technical difficulties, these things happen) The neon theme was so much fun and was good to see most people making an effort to dress up. Friendly staff and clientele. Thank you for a fantastic night! We will be back again!!!

Wild and Rain x

P.S. 2 suggestions, with it being so warm, maybe put deodorant in the loos for freshening up and please put lube in the units upstairs with the wipes and towels. Wild mistook the antibacterial hand cleanser for lube, it was erm... interesting!! PMSL

Date: 11 June 2017

Rating: Fabulous
Had to visit this fabulous little club to add another tick to the challenge.

It's great... clean...wonderful play areas...fabulous staff...and relaxed atmosphere. If you have been thinking of going don't hesitate... just go!! You will have a great evening.

Just let me know when you are going as I will defo be going back!!

Q of C

Date: 14 May 2017

Rating: Fabulous
We visited Mingles for the first time on Friday for a sexy friends birthday. The club is small but beautifully decorated and spotless. The hosts are very friendly and approachable. The music was fabulous and we felt at ease from the moment we walked in the door. Definitely visit there again soon.

R & S.xx

Date: 7 May 2017

Rating: Fabulous
We attended our first club night on Friday and had an amazing time. We were welcomed and shown around the club by our fabulous host. The ambience was perfect. It was a very relaxed atmosphere with no pressure. The play rooms were ideal and all guests were respectful. Lots of fun was had and we will certainly be regular visitors. Thank you to the Mingles Team for a great first club experience xxx

Date: 7 May 2017