Vanilla…? Just a name…

Man in Kirkby In Ashfield, East Midlands, UK

... "A Sunday Chams visit required I think. Very very soon". Friday

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 4 hours ago

Not looking for NSA equally NOT Looking for Marriage…. Ideally something more than the occasional NSA thing.

Yes I’m married as most other guys on here but

10 years of an open and poly relationship. I can accommodate, for discreet times and discretion is assured. Single male account & my wife is not included and unlikely to be going forward... it’s just me here. My Couples profile Bella and Hubs.. but again, it’s just me here.

Lifestyle - Been here a while.. not looking for lots of play partners.. I’m hopeful and looking for a mutual respectful partner to play with and more., I’m free most evenings and weekends and some weekdays, would like to share my ‘free’ time with someone who has some free time. Local and regular(ish) (would be nice) , not looking for a one time thing. I love to kiss and heavily into foreplay, both in and out the bedroom as that is important. Stimulate the mind the body will follow.

Been told I’m a very good kisser and have good stamina. I do like to take time, absolutely love a gusher or squirter too, very lovely and please don’t stay silent.. I prefer a great conversation to see if there’s a connection before moving things forward, but it appears some peeps just need that itch scratched on occasion, which I suppose has a place on fab.

Would like a Fem Friend for local socials, club visits and just hanging out all possible.. let’s talk and see if we click.. again this not a guarantee to play, indeed the look but do not touch is a turn on ;)

Ask about my free baby oil massage service .. sex doesn’t have to be involved. Just a full body sensual baby oil massage, I just ask we have enough time for you to fully relax. It’s not a quick service, either your place or mine. Not a professional service, but I have the hands and ‘time served’ to help relax xx

Wink or message, let’s connect.

James

48 years old, Bi-curious

5'10" 178cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 40 to 65
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*rolixxx Parties (39), Couple on 24 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
What a pleasure it was to see this gentleman at the lifestyle lodge again, this time for the seduction party. He was dressed to impress and wasted no time chatting to the other guests. A credit to the lifestyle. JJay & H xx

*eduction Parties (41), Woman on 21 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
We had the pleasure of welcoming this charming gentleman to our very first Seduction party at The Lifestyle Lodge South Derbyshire .He looked absolutely fabulous and brought plenty of fun, seamlessly blending into the friendly and sexy atmosphere at our event. Can’t wait to see you again soon QoH xxx

*he Playgrounds (56), Couple on 26 March 2024 by Meeting in person:
One of the, fabulous, GENTLEMEN OF THE LIFESTYLE LODGE. What does that mean? A GENTLEMAN OF THE LIFESTYLE LODGE = handsome, respectful, naughty, sexy, indulgent, charismatic, sociable, fun, adventurous, flirty, provocative, sensual, daring, open-minded, unconventional, passionate and remarkable. What more do you need to know? XXX THE PLAYGROUNDS at THE LIFESTYLE LODGE XXX

*rolixxx Parties (39), Couple on 24 March 2024 by Meeting in person:
We had the pleasure of hosting this gentleman at our wonderland party. Very down to earth and respectful. Hope to see you again JJay and H x

*wingnswitch (42), Couple on 16 March 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely gentleman with his plus 1 yesterday at our local club. I (Lisa) have been friends with this handsome guy for a while now but it was lovely to introduce Steve into that friendship circle. MrJVanilla is a genuine friendly funny and charming person do not pass up the chance to connect with this genuine guy on a personal level. Hugs Lisa & Steve xx

*ibertine101 (43), Woman on 5 December 2023 by Meeting in person:
It was a delight to welcome you to the Libertine Winter Ball at Liberty Elite. It's guests like you that make the event what it is. Hope to see you for the next Libertine on the 7th of February x

*ibertine101 (43), Woman on 15 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
An absolute to delight to welcome this handsome gentleman to Libertine at Liberty Elite. Clearly confident and comfortable which is always pleasing. A real credit to the scene. Until next time… Cx

*luttysub80 (43), Woman on 28 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Have known this gent for many years. Lots of socials and friendly times. Non pushy and the more you have the better he gets.

*onicZ (35), Man on 25 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this great guy at d2s in Grantham. Respectful and easy going... Loads of fun too!

*rolixxx Parties (39), Couple on 10 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
We had the pleasure of meeting this gentleman and our summer of swing event. He is a lovely guy so very genuine and such a friendly guy to chat to. Always welcome back and hope to see you again soon x

*x_NBN_Host (51), Woman on 4 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Had the privilege of meeting & playing with this amazing gentleman and his partner in crime whom I now call the dynamic duo at the summer of swing event at the secret lounge. A lady doesn’t divulge however I’m no lady so to hell with that. This sexy man may appear quite possibly even shy but woah… believe me it’s a rues completely confident and skill set in play will blow your mind. From his sensual kisses to thrusting delicious cock. You are totally spoilt from start to finish!

*isssexy123 (52), Woman on 3 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
I have known J for a few years now not only is he a very very good friend but he is also a friend with benefits he is genuine and good Treat him with respect X S

*ots of fun 123 (57), Woman on 28 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
I was introduce to this Silverfox by mutual friend, He’s very easy to chat to and Witty with a very naughty streak Very much enjoyed him I mean his company On my top friends list that’s for sure mmmm Shelly xx

*niquez (53), Couple on 28 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
We met this gentleman at Club Amigos, he seems genuine and non pushy and great guy to talk to! Its always great to see you. Look forward to seeing you again soon, Club Amigos x

*arab3lla (51), Woman on 17 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
I've known J for several years now, we always have a fun time. He has a cheeky sense of humour and looks after me perfectly when we meet. Tara xx

*umplaywithus69 (37), Couple on 17 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely charming guy a few years ago and he is very genuine and we had the pleasure of some sexy fun with him xxxx looking forward to seeing again for round 2 xx