I like to make women feel amazing

Man in London, Greater London, UK

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I like to make women feel amazing.

Yes, I do mean sexually, but no, not using my cock (that's strictly reserved for my partner). Just my hands, along with perhaps a few other tools and toys to further enhance their pleasure. And not expecting or wanting anything in return.

I'm in a permanent committed relationship, so I'm not open to being involved romantically with anyone. Having said that, my partner is fully on board with me expressing that side of myself with others.

I'm not generally a confident person, and I don't say things unless I really mean them/believe them to be true, but my abilities in this area are one of the few things that I do actually feel confident about. I've always felt that I've had some sort of intuitive understanding of women's sexual responses, but I am always keen to learn more, especially as everyone is different. For that reason, I'd never promise or guarantee anything in terms of results. What I can guarantee is that I'd be absolutely respectful at all times, never do anything without your explicit consent, and just try my absolute best to fully satisfy you, based on your preferences and what works for you.

I'm not really into the pain/degradation aspects that are typically (or perhaps stereotypically) associated with BDSM, although I do like giving a good spanking to someone who enjoys it - but that's about as far as that goes, at least so far. I just like giving pleasure, as much of it as possible. I am however quite fond of having a woman tied up or restrained in some way while I do so, but that's entirely optional.

I definitely have a preference (not a fetish) for bigger women, but would do this for any woman who would like me to, as I feel that everyone who wants to experience this should be able to. For clarity, though, I can only do this for women with female genitalia, as I just don't have the same level of intuition for male bodies or cocks at all (even though I have one myself!)

Before engaging in play with someone, I always like to have a detailed discussion upfront about their likes and dislikes along with their limits (as well as my own limits, which are just as important), so that they can give properly informed consent, and because it will help me to create a better experience for them right from the start. So it's always best to be as honest as possible (absolutely no judgement from me), but even if you don't really know what you like, I can still try to (carefully and gradually) figure it out as we go along.

I tend to think of what I do as being roughly divided into three "stages" or "levels", each of which is entirely optional, depending on what you want from the experience and how far you want to go - that's why I want to try to explain them up front on here, in as much detail as I can.

In stage 1, I try to create a calm atmosphere and get you as relaxed as possible by gently stroking and massaging your body (I don't have any official massage training, I just do what instinctively feels right in this area too, but I have been told that I am good at it - I'm not making any claims about my abilities here though). So I would definitely recommend starting with this, unless you really want to skip it, or you don't feel comfortable with an unfamiliar person touching the rest of your body - that's no problem.

Stage 2 is when things become more sensual and sexual. I start to gradually explore and figure out what feels good for you (guided by our discussion at the start), and then concentrate more and more on those things. I feel that this stage still tends to be relatively relaxed - even though you will hopefully, eventually, be having many very pleasurable orgasms, I tend to slow things back down after each one, watching/listening for your body's responses (or what you tell me) to see whether you need a break/change of stimulation or just want me to continue with what I was doing. So a safe word isn't really needed here, as I will always listen and respond to anything you tell me to do/stop doing, but we would still have one in place (from the discussion at the start) just in case. I can do this for as long as you want to, and won't go any further unless you tell me to. But if you do want to go beyond this...

Stage 3 is when things get a bit more intense. The aim here is to explore the limits of pleasure that your body can experience. I feel that this might be most appropriate for those who are already well-acquainted with their own bodies and self-pleasure, but are wondering how it would feel to push things even further. So, being restrained/tied up is probably more relevant at this point, too. If you want me to, I would tend to get a bit more "rough", hard and fast here - using everything at my disposal to give you maximum pleasure and push you to orgasm after orgasm, doing my best to respond to your body and do what will feel best for you at every moment, but generally not slowing down or stopping unless/until you use the safe word (or you seem to be fully satiated and exhausted).

Of course, after all this is done, then comes the aftercare - letting you gradually relax again, seeing if you need anything and perhaps discussing how the experience was for you.

I only do all this at suitable clubs/events/parties (as it's a safer environment for everyone), so I'm always interested in hearing about venues which would be well-suited to this sort of activity (particularly if they have a place that could be used for an hour or more without too much disturbance or distraction, preferably with appropriate furniture).

I also feel that there really isn't enough of this sort of thing in porn, i.e. scenes focussed entirely on extreme, genuine female pleasure (especially involving bondage), while there's plenty of extreme everything else, and even less involving bigger women. And in most mainstream/professional porn, the women only get to cum once, if that (and even then it might be fake). It's like it's an afterthought, whereas for me it's the whole point. It also seems that many (though thankfully not all) porn production companies/studios really don't treat people with the respect that everyone deserves. So I've decided to be the change I want to see in the (porn) world and start producing my own.

This is really a separate thing though - I absolutely don't want to push anyone into that, so it's absolutely fine if you want the experience described above without any filming whatsoever. For anyone who is already involved in that industry though, and is into bondage/restraint and pleasure but not so much the other typical aspects of BDSM porn, it seems as though there are limited options for this sort of thing without having to also agree to experience pain/degradation etc, so perhaps I can provide another option.

In all of this, whether filming or not, my absolute top priority is to make sure you feel safe, comfortable and relaxed at all times (well maybe not always so relaxed, but certainly the other two). I'd never pressure anyone to do anything they don't want to (or change their mind about doing anything they'd already said a hard "no" to during the discussion we had at the beginning), would only do things within the boundaries that we've agreed, and you can change your mind about anything or completely stop at any time. After that, the next priority is entirely your pleasure, nothing else. Then, *if* we are filming, making the best possible video would come third on the list, because I want it to be as genuine as possible - not driven by what would look good on camera or "faking" anything for it.

So if any of this sounds like something you think you'd enjoy, just send me a message and we can discuss it. :)

37 years old, Straight

5'10" 178cm
Average
Non smoker
Don't drink
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Toys, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Making Videos, Adult Parties

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*ig Beautiful Babes (49), Couple on 26 August 2022 by Meeting in person:
E has now been to 2 of our parties, firstly Eurekas then HOP. He is quiet & reserved until he feels comfortable; then he comes out of his shell He is a lovely guy, respectful & genuine. See you again soon and hopefully one day your gf will be able to join us xx

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