Refined in Public. Unfiltered in Private

Man in Southsea, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 28 minutes ago

Not Gay Not Bi So Gents pass me by.

A gentleman in the streets, but far from a saint behind a locked door.

I’m a divorced, intelligent man who knows that true chemistry starts with a great conversation and ends with a breathless "thank you." I pride myself on my manners and my ability to listen, but don’t let the polite exterior fool you—I have a taste for the rougher side of fun and the stamina to back it up.

I’m here for stolen moments and secret smiles. Your private life is your own; I’m just here to make it much more interesting. Shall we start with a chat and see where the tension takes us?

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Ian

62 years old, Straight

5'9" 175cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Webcams

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*va29 (60), Woman on 10 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met Spike again, he is so easy to talk to, intelligent, I can have a good laugh with him, he helped me to relax by giving me a wonderful massage, he managed to find the spot that no other man has done let's just just say I left the bed sheets very wet. Hopefully see you again soon.

*va29 (60), Woman on 20 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely man for the first time ,so easy to talk to and have a laugh with ,the evening went to quickly, I look forward to meeting up with him again.

*olent socials (55), Couple (FF) on 12 January 2020 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for coming along to the recent Solent Social. It was a pleasure to meet you. Thank you for your support and we hope you enjoyed yourself, meeting lots of other likeminded people. We look forward to seeing you at a further event. L&S

*otkisses33 (54), Woman on 12 January 2020 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely guy at the social Portsmouth after chatting on fab handsome looking but we didn’t chat long a very busy social glad I met up with him

*ornyMoi (57), Woman on 4 January 2020 by Meeting in person:
What a lovely guy spike is, as I said your photo does not do you justice, you are a very handsome man. I am glad we finally got to meet, thank you for the drink, great company and impromptu support with my shopping :-) Girls if you get the chance to meet him I think you will be pleasantly surprised too.

*issinocent (52), Woman on 21 December 2019 by Meeting in person:
After a long time chatting and a couple of meets for coffee we finally managed to meet for some naughty fun!!! It was definitely worth the wait!!! A genuine friendly and fun guy, let’s hope it doesn’t take as long to arrange some fun next time! X

*unfun 21 (55), Woman on 12 May 2019 by Meeting in person:
U have just put the reason bk in fun Thanku awesome looking forward to a repeat performance x

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