Adventure before dementia

Man in Bristol, South West, UK

Joined: 8 months ago
Last on: 23 hours ago

Been on fab a few months, and still learning the ropes, but have had some terrific experiences already, and hungry for more!

I'm respectful, not pushy, in decent shape for my age. I'm straight and love the thrill of giving a woman pleasure, but I'm completely happy being with couples too, and being in groups. I'm realistic and respond best to people who are honest about what they want, and what they expect - I'm very open minded, discrete and want to hear what you're after.

Although not my primary persona, I've recently had my eyes opened to the pleasures of being dom in a sub/dom dynamic - something I fell into by accident, but surprisingly naturally, enjoyed it and would enjoy it again if the right person came along.

I haven't displayed any cock shots as have noted that SO many people say it's the surest way of getting messages ignored or deleted without being opened...but I also notice that there are others who specify that a cock shot MUST be attached to a first message! My compromise is to reserve those shots, and only supply on request or as indicated by messaging preferences. I guess that's not exactly rocket science - just a matter of reading (which, judging by the number of updates with scowling face emojis seems to be a dying skill among single guys).

Happy to supply a face pic to people who are genuinely interested.

I'm based in Bristol but make frequent trips to the Southwest. Can't accommodate in Bristol but happy to sort out a local hotel or visit you.

I'm up for entering into chats to see if there is mutual interest though, ultimately, I'm much more interested in having real meets - hoping to find other fabbers who are after the same. Adventure before dementia!

Ben

57 years old, Straight

6'0" 183cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 72
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Oral, Rimming, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Toys

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*rincess_boi (53), Couple on 14 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met Ben last night at chams. An absolute gem. Handsome, respectful and awesome play. If you get the chance do not let this guy pass you by. Thankyou my lovely xx

*porty_and_Naughty (51), Couple on 14 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
We met Ben at Chams in Darlaston last night. He had contacted us ahead of attending the event via the forums, which was a great ice breaker for meeting in person. Ben is a very good conversationalist, with confidence and humour. He also has a very good physique and a twinkle in his eye.

*uicy4Lucy (42), Woman on 1 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Ben and I had a brief encounter last night. First a polite, flirty chat.. and then some sexy fun in the jacuzzi. Ben was putty in my hands and he was in ecstacy throughout. Thank you sweetheart.. J4L x

*idscouple7778 (48), Couple on 31 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this great guy at Chams last night , was very polite and respectful and had really good chat and banter, was a pleasure to spend time chatting and he definitely seemed to enjoy his evening , don’t hesitate to meet him If you get the chance.

*moothie4664plus1 (57), Couple on 19 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
We met this respectful guy in Chams Friday night. we chatted for a while before Nic and Ben found a room, Nic had a great time with this very lovely genuine man. He knows how to satisfy a woman. Hopefully we'll meet up again soon. M and Nic

*rettylittlevice (22), Woman on 25 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Lovely gentleman who’s a pleaser x

*aked Occasions (44), Couple on 14 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
This lovely gent attended nakedoccasions for our naughty Funtime spa day he had a very relaxing and enjoyable time making lots of new friends, look forward to seeing you again soon, thank you