Counting the days.

Man in Padiham, North West, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 7 days ago

so after being on fab for over 15 years I have taken the following decisions:

1. Once again I have renewed my gold membership, let's see if anything changes this time ?

2. I am no longer going to send any first messages, if you want to chat you can send the first one. I am sick of unread messages sitting being unread - really makes you feel worthless, I am worth more than that.

If I am already talking to you as a friend then that will remain and I will still converse.

3. I am polite, honest, a gentleman that was brought up in the correct way. I will not have people belittle me on here.

4. This is a swinging site, not POF, not Match and certainly not Tinder. we all know what we are here for so anyone's views on my personal home situation is nothing to do with you. stop judging!

just for information in my 15+ years on here I have met a grand total of 4 people, 2 ladies and 1 couple. I have never wanted to work my way through fab and still feel this way. trust has to play a big part in all of this, that still applies.

Well done if you have got this far and thank you for reading. apologies if the previous comments may offend but things had to be said.

I am who I am, I'm not perfect I'm just me, so take a chance.

In answer to your early questions:

Yes, I'm attached

I can do evenings with notice but I don't do weekends

Yes, I'm ok

Me doing Oral is one hell of an experience for you ... Trust me

Tested and negative through SHUK -Nov 2025

60 years old, Straight

5'10" 178cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, SM, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Dogging, Cuckolding

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* Girl (57), TV/TS on 21 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
It was lovely to meet this gentleman for some sexy fun at my place, very easy comms and arranged a meet after a couple of messages. I am quite sure he enjoyed himself as I was rewarded xx

*astymuffi (55), Woman on 12 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Was haveing social meet in pub with my m8s and this guy happen to be such lovely guy x

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