Man looking for women

Man in Mountain Ash, Wales, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 3 days ago

The Doctor : Our lives are different to anybody else's. That's the exciting thing! Because nobody in the universe can do what we're doing.

Hello my name’s Thomas

I’m in an open relationship. We are ENM and she is also on here as well.

Welcome to my page which gives some information about me.

I'm open minded, respectful, hopefully funny depending sense of humour and quite laid back.

I have 3 sides to me, my kink side, my swing side and my vanilla side.

The kink side.

I’m a Dom I have two play partners at present, one of which is the partner ive mentioned.

I am open and looking for more to play with in person or online.

I do go to some events ive been to kinkclusive, BBB and usually at the Cardiff city munch.

I have a handful of times also been to the metal munch but usually attend the Cardiff munch.

If you do see me at events or munches your more than welcome to come and say hello.

If you see me outside at a non kink event while generally I'd probably be OK with someone saying hi it might depend if I'm on my own or not.

Swing side

So swinging is a bit more new. Just like the kink side done safely. I do get tested too and have a recent all clear proof I can send if needed, but any sex will be safe sex. I enjoy oral a lot, both giving as well as receiving. Looking to explore this side more.

Vanilla side

In my vanilla life I’m a bit of a geek. My degree was computer based, and I love films, TV shows, listening to music and spending time with friends.

Some of my favourites TV shows are Doctor Who, Star Trek, NCIS and so many more besides.

Some of my favourite film are Watership Down, Lion King and T2 Judgment Day.

Music wise is quite varied but some favourites are Pink Floyd, Mostly Autumn, Karnataka, Joe Satriani, Jean Michael Jarre.

Not going to say all leave plenty to chat about when getting to know each other if you want know more before meeting or a public meeting first.

I have a professional job so face photos are set to friends only.

As in rugby theres is respect and that respect goes both ways. So please dont waste my time.

Thomas

37 years old, Straight

5'4" 163cm
Average
Non smoker
Don't drink
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women TV/TS
Aged from 20 to 70
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Watersports, Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, SM, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Oral, Group Sex, Gangbangs, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

Verified Genuine Profile

*ilkmilkmilk (28), Man on 22 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
Very nice bloke

*istresskat2024 (33), Woman on 1 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Brilliant loveable person who is not shy of bdsm x

*aindrops210 (40), Woman on 2 February 2024 by Meeting in person:
Can confirm I know this man in real life and that he is genuine ??