Living the lifestyle..

Woman in Derby, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 3 months ago

I have been off the scene a couple of years, I'm now back and ready to get back into the swing of things. Pun intended haha, will slowly add my pics and try get some of my verifications on here

I’m a single woman who’s selective, self-aware, and fully immersed in the lifestyle. This isn’t just a weekend thrill for me — it’s something I live with intention and respect. I’m not here for random hook-ups or to entertain time-wasters. Chemistry, manners, and genuine vibes matter.

I’m exclusively attracted to Black and mixed-race men — it’s simply my preference, and I make no apologies for knowing what I want.

I attend most clubs across the UK and I’m always open to travelling for a good event. I love the atmosphere, the connections, and the energy that comes with the right crowd.

Private meets are strictly off the table unless we’ve already met at an event — no exceptions. My safety, comfort, and standards always come first. I also can’t accommodate, so please keep that in mind.

And let’s be real — personal hygiene and cleanliness aren’t negotiable. If that’s not a priority for you, we’re not a match.

If you’re confident, respectful, genuinely part of the lifestyle, and know how to carry yourself then let’s talk xx

I have an insatiable appetite and an extremely high sex drive — connection only fuels it more. I’m not shy about my desires or the intensity I bring. For me, pleasure is a passion, not a pastime — and I need someone who can match that energy, not be intimidated by me.

40 years old, Straight

5'2" 157cm
Slim
Smoker
Don't drink
Heavily tattooed
No piercings

Looking For

Men
Aged from 30 to 45
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Group Sex, Oral, Safe Sex, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Voyeurism

Verified Genuine Profile

*ynxxx (44), Man on 1 June 2025 by Meeting in person:
So I forgot I'd previously met this sexy, fun girl when introduced by a mutual friend at Xtasia recently. But after said mutual friend suggested I should give her a tour - what happened next made sure I won't be forgetting her anytime soon! Great to be reacquainted, I'll be seeing you around ;)

*aisydukes2000 (35), Woman on 1 June 2025 by Meeting in person:
My girl is back! Was so wonderful to see you friday! One of the best girls there are and always so amazing to be in your company! Great to have you back girl! Xx

*bsidian King (41), Man on 11 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
We first met at one of her events which was a great night, fun sexy hostess great vibe. We’ve also met privately which was another great night. Get to know her have fun.

*itten tiana (40), Woman on 11 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
Have know thing sexy lady for a while now, throws and amazing party and always in the middle of the fun. She was one of the first friends i made on the scene and I’m So happy to see her back after a break away. Can’t wait to see her back in action and being her naughty self!

*lopop (48), Woman on 10 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
I have known this special lil pocket rocket for a few years now and she has become a good friend away from the scene. She's back after a break and if you have the chance to meet her you had better treat her well!!!! It's great to see you back here beautiful xx

*ceofspades78 (46), Man on 10 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
Yes the Queen is back and she’s the definition of the sweet fun lifestyle mwaaaah. Known her for time and she’s fun amazing and yes super sexy.

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