Confident, Assertive & Dominant

Man in Kent, Greater London, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 14 minutes ago

Confidence is attractive. Standards are even more attractive.

I’m an educated, successful, gym-built man who values quality over quantity. I know what I bring to the table, and I’m only interested in meeting people who know their own worth too.

I’m drawn to confident, feminine women who enjoy excitement, chemistry, and living a little outside the ordinary. If you take pride in yourself, look after your appearance, and carry yourself well, we’ll already have something in common. Beautifully groomed feet, fresh nails, and attention to detail never go unnoticed.

I train hard, take care of myself, smell incredible, dress well, and expect the same level of self-respect from the people I meet. Hygiene isn’t negotiable it’s the minimum standard.

I have busy lifestyle, so I don’t spend my time endlessly messaging. If the chemistry is there, I’d rather make plans and meet than become pen pals.

I appreciate women of every shape and size when they wear their confidence well. If you’re a confident wife exploring the hotwife lifestyle or part of a genuine, fit couple, you’ll definitely catch my attention.

I’m selective by choice, not by chance. Fake profiles, outdated verifications, blank accounts, and endless time-wasters don’t make the cut. If I don’t reply, it’s simply because I don’t think we’re the right match.

Mutual respect, discretion, and maturity are essential. Nobody is entitled to anyone’s time, and I value people who understand that.

Safe sex is a must. I’m tested regularly and expect the same level of responsibility from anyone I meet.

I don’t accept friend requests from strangers. Let’s meet first, then earn the connection.

Interests: Gym • CrossFit • Trading • Crypto • Football • Travel • Fashion

If confidence excites you, effort impresses you, and you appreciate a man who leads with respect rather than noise… introduce yourself properly.

Drpleasure

35 years old, Straight

5'8" 173cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 65
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Webcams, Threesomes, Swingers Clubs, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Oral, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Dogging, Cuckolding, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

See 4 Public Videos

Verified Genuine Profile

*achel Ann (23), Woman on 16 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
BlackEnergy is certainly full of energy. Hes got a large package to match. He listened to exactly I wanted and made me cum so many times I was left wanting more. Cant wait to see him again

*lee69 (45), Couple on 14 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
We met this fabulous man on a night out. Respectful polite single guy with stamina who understands how to interact with couples if our paths cross again we wouldn’t hesitate to play again x

*iss Ripple (47), Woman on 9 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this sexy gent at VA and was invited to join in the fun with a lovely naughty lady friend of mine. He had plenty of stamina for the both of us, that was a lot of fun, miss ripple x

*RUERED79DJ (47), Couple on 8 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this gent at a private party we was invited to ladies he’s very polite n respectful see u soon at our events

*eeZire (62), Woman on 4 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
Another exceptional meeting with Blackenergy - and he certainly had a lot of energy today! We went to MILF at Vanilla Alternative - he arrived smelling delicious - and soon after - we went first to the couples room - where we had fun together ... and with others; hot tub; orgy room .... Always respectful, great kisser and OMG - the pleasure - he certainly knows how to deliver! Until next time gorgeous - xxxxx

*usclesCurves69 (28), Couple on 11 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Very nice guy with great energy. All round good vibes.

*rMMissB (49), Couple on 7 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Black energy is such a gentleman. Great fun to be around and full of respect. His super hard cock felt so good. He’s is, without doubt a real asset to the black tag team. See you again hun

*BC Gangbang (34), Man on 27 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
very respectful and decent guy. now one of my crew to bring more energy and excitement to the crew. watch out for him in our next GB

*BC GANGBANG LEGENDS (34), Man on 23 November 2025 by Webcam:
I had a great conversation in welcoming our new LEGEND. yes we are one most wanted, special and genuine group on fab and we are happy to have someone respectful like this guy. hoping and looking forward for the best from him to contribute to the success of the group. you ate mostly welcome bro.

*eeZire (62), Woman on 1 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met Dr Pleasire at VAs WWW. A great guy, not pushy at all and knows how to please! Ladies…don’t pass him by!!! xxx

*ueenSnowbunny (40), Couple on 26 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Meet this handsome man at WWW, he is an absolute lovely guy and I enjoyed having a play with him wiles Cuck watched us. 100% genuine and a credit to single guys.

*ve477 (46), Woman on 26 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
I had the pleasure of this horny guy in VA and what a rodeo that was. Amazing energy and stamina. Thank you for great night x

*pankthatass (41), Woman on 30 May 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely guy at WWW event and it was lovely to have you!!!! We didn’t waste time at all and went straight down to business. You have sweat your ass off I must say, lovely seeing you and until next time darling.

*urvyJayne (42), Woman on 5 January 2025 by Meeting in person:
Wow he really lives up to the name, so much energy, he just kept going and going, and I just kept cumming! He left me barely able to move but incredibly satisfied. Definitely need some more of that!

*ssexCuckoldCouple (34), Couple on 4 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
OMG. My brain is melted. Had a amazing time. Very respectful. But also knows how to control a situation. Provides the perfect balance of taking what he wants. Giving you what you want. Checks your okay. This man is perfect. With that said. Hands of ladies! He’s mine! I’m staking my claim lol.

*ediforce (49), Couple on 1 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met at a small gathering with three other gentlemen. W LOVED playing with this respectful guy who brought her to orgasm a number of times. A nice guy with great skills. What more would you want !

*ustyKentUnicorn (53), Couple on 13 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met yesterday in a hotel and all I can say is wow! We'd discussed what I wanted and that was fulfilled. He is very polite and respectful but treated me the way I wanted to be treated at the same time. He definitely know what to do with a woman. Very friendly. Will definitely be meeting again.

*bclovinbitches (58), Woman on 8 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
This lovely guy came along to my party last night great genuine guy had lots of fun thanks for coming xxLLxx

*agoda (48), Couple on 2 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
What a night it was!!! This gentleman joined our fun at the Pleasures club and made Blueberry have a wonderful night and made her fantasies come true. We will definitely invite him to play with us again

*ouple7982 (46), Couple on 25 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
We met in Pleasures on Friday!Great looking guy,very friendly and easy to talk to.Lovely smile and great attitude.We are looking forward to seeing you again soon x

*ubwife4u (54), Couple on 25 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
We have seen this chap several times at Pleasures over the last year. He always greets us warmly and has on occasion joined in with the chat and banter. Softly spoken, always well presented and polite. After making his interest in subwife known to me, last night he was invited to join us late in the evening along with a couple of other guys and definitely helped to give her the perfect evening end. If only there had been more time. Just what club nights are for. Respectful, not pushy and great attitude. Big too, apparently!

*iproperswingers (47), Couple on 21 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this awesome guy at silverleigh this evening.. Enjoyed the giggles and the awesome banta. Thanks for some lovely company.. Sorry there was no play time involved, we weren't feeling that vibe. Next time, maybe.. Char and Paul xx

*wbcouple321 (60), Couple on 5 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met last night at BlondeChockey interracial couple night unable to play as we had to go but he was very polite and well dressed and looked the gentleman he came over as

*orizon Parties (49), Couple on 17 April 2019 by Meeting in person:
Nice chap who attended our recent party. Easy to get along with and look forward to see him again soon.

*ouple36DD (50), Couple on 16 February 2018 by Meeting in person:
We met this lovely guy at Le Boudoir last night and wasn't long before we invited him and a friend into one of the private rooms. It was Sara's first greedy girl experience and we could not have found a nicer guy to join us.

*ink Oyster Parties (46), Couple on 4 July 2017 by Meeting in person:
This guy is always welcomed at our parties , this is the kind of Guy we want at our events , he's respectful , charming , good looking and a hit with the ladies , see you at the next one xx

*l 3freq (48), Woman on 30 April 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met at Pink Oyster Party, I had a great time with this horny fit gentleman. He gave me a good time, a very good time. Kisses El xx

*.Bootylicious (57), Woman on 8 April 2017 by Meeting in person:
Lovely to meet Fred at BBW on Sunday 2/4 at Eureka...Handsome quiet guy...Sorry didn't get much chance to chat but see you again soon xxxx

*ink Oyster Parties (46), Couple on 2 April 2017 by Meeting in person:
Top fella this guy will always see welcome at our parties , well behaved , good looking and knows how to party :) see you at the next one x

*nsomnia2014 (53), Couple on 15 March 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met this good looking relaxed guy at Le Boudoir. Not pushy in any way. Respectful and sexy as hell. Would definitely meet again x

*ink Oyster Parties (46), Couple on 27 February 2017 by Meeting in person:
This absolute of a gent attended our party on Friday , this is the kind of men we are looking for at future events , he's well behaved , looks good and knows how to have a good time , see you at the next one x

*lutmeup500 (30), Woman on 7 April 2015 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of meeting this great chocolate sexy guy at our most recent gangbang. It was a little too packed for much movement lol but i certainly had the pleasure of relishing up all this guys stamina! Lush body and a lush dick! He knows how to please!x