Calm Authority moving with Purpose

Man in Kintore, Scotland, UK

Joined: 4 months ago
Last on: 2 days ago

The Vibe: I’m a fit, clean, and grounded gentleman who believes a good connection starts with a "blether" and ends with us both exhausted. I’m not bossy, but I’ve been told I carry an air of calm authority. Once the rules of engagement are agreed upon, I don’t wait to be told what to do — I move with purpose. My joy comes from ensuring you are left feeling amazing. I am confident and authoritative, but never arrogant. I know the difference between taking command and being controlling. I understand that a women's most sensitive erogenous zone is her mind.

What I Offer:

Service-Focused: I take pride in making my lover feeling wanted, then safe and relaxed, then satisfied, then breathless.

Intellect: I’m a thinking man. For me, intellectual curiosity and physical pleasure aren’t opposites — they’re neighbouring territories.

Discretion: Due to a public-facing career, I expect and provide total discretion in return.

Authentic: No games. If I message you, it's because I've read your profile and I'm genuinely interested.

Solo Play: I am a virile, long-lasting lover who enjoys making women feel worshipped.

The Optional Bonus: I know a sexy FWB who loves to join for MFF scenarios if the stars align.

What I’m Looking For: I go weak at the knees for women in heels and stockings (lingerie under a dress is a personal favourite). However, I’m not here to just tick a box. I am looking for a connection that leads to regular, respectful, NSA fun.

You understand that because of my job, I don't post public face pics, but I share privately once we chat. You'll also understand that I'm not here to be messed about.

The Bottom Line: I don’t take "no" personally, and I treat those who say "yes" with care, dignity, and enthusiasm. If you appreciate a man who knows what he wants but respects your boundaries, drop me a message.

I value your time as much as my own. If I’m not what you are looking for, I wish you the very best in finding your perfect match.

CGM

47 years old, Straight

6'1" 185cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports

Verified Genuine Profile

*carlet Sinn and James (53), Couple on 12 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
A true gent, we both totally enjoyed our social ... and the door is open to move things forward ... ladies, grab this man ... before Scarlet does ...

*ekate86 (39), Woman on 28 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
Had the chance to meet Calm_Grantie_Gentleman for a lunch social today. Great chat and some very interesting conversations had. He has a wicked sense of humour that has me blushing at one point. Looking forward to a more private setting for our next time meeting. :)

*ermission2fuck (38), Woman on 21 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this gent on a few occasions now. He’s a handsome, tall, strong guy, with an easy confidence that comes across straight away, helped by the fact he’s an intelligent and engaging conversationalist. He’s well endowed, a sensual kisser, and excellent with his tongue. He clearly enjoys what he’s doing and knows how to keep things exciting.x

*dventuresWithEve (45), Woman on 21 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
I have known this handsome sexy gentleman for a while now, we met on a previous profile of his. He is a wonderful man whom I could converse with for hours! He's also an amazing, soft, sensual kisser and has very talented hands whose ministrations drive me crazy with arousal! I really hope to meet him again one day with more time available for a nice long, thorough meet.

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