Honest, decent, individuals ONLY!

Woman in Galashiels, Scotland, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: over a year ago

DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU LIVE OUTWITH MY LOCAL AREA!!

DO NOT ADD ME AS A FRIEND WITHOUT SPEAKING TO ME FIRST OR YOU WILL BE IGNORED!!!

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I am educated, opinionated, direct, assertive, independent, kind, thoughtful, and loyal. I am not looking for a relationship, but if the right guy comes along, I might consider it. I have kids which means I cannot accommodate. I don't drive either which means I cannot travel very far.

I'm looking for a friends with benefits situation, this would mean I will need to get on with the person. I don't do one night meets. I am looking for someone I can meet regularly, because of this I want someone I can spend time with socially too. I do NOT meet just for sex and nothing else! If you don't have the time or the inclination to spend time with me socially as well as sexually then DON'T bother to contact me.

Yes, I might be slow to meet, so don't take it personally. My time is a currency, and I choose to spend it as it suits me. If you want to meet me, try chatting to me. I'm here because I'm single and I want to enjoy myself. Not as your sex toy! I would not have sex with anyone who I wasn't attracted to. So if you want to meet me, send me a FACE pic or you WON'T get a reply!!

I am a good girl with a naughty side. I am sensual and love to touch and be touched. I am NOT into BDSM, being humiliated or called names, or serving a master. It is all about pleasure. I know what I want and I'm not afraid to tell you. Same goes if it's something I DON'T like! I have a very high sex drive and I like trying new things as long as it appeals to both involved. Sensuality is a big thing with me. Touching each other, skin on skin, hands roaming everywhere. It's as important as sex itself. Foreplay is definitely under-rated, I like lots of foreplay before full penetration. So if you just want a "quickie" then ask someone else. You're not getting it here!! I want someone who's interested in giving me pleasure!

The only taboos I have in the bedroom are:

1) Pain, not my kinda thing, much prefer pleasure

2) Watersports etc, its disgusting!

3) I DON'T do anal!

AND

4) I don't allow a man to cum in my mouth or on my face. So don't bother even asking!

Any decent offers out there? If you know how to treat a woman right... drop me a line.

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My Ideal Person: WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR?

Please be interesting, intelligent, and have a sense of humour. Physical attraction is very important, but subjective. It is hard for me to describe what I am looking for, but I know it when I encounter it! It seems loyalty and honesty went out of fashion, but they will get you a second look from me.

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I WILL NOT BE INTERESTED IF:

You are a liar or a player. If you quibble about the definition of either, you are probably one or both. Please move on. We will not be a good match.

You are married and are playing behind your wife's back. I will not be part of creating heartache for your wife. Besides, if you are not strong enough to leave a bad marriage, you are not strong enough to handle me.

If you have not specified a marital status in your profile, I consider you married!

You are a blabbermouth or lack common sense. If we use messenger to chat or if we communicate via e-mail or phone, or if by some act of God we actually meet, what I say to you and what we do is between you and me.

Don't ask me about it or talk about it in the room or talk about it behind my back...it is not yours to tell. If you feel the desire to tell me what others have confided in you, betray elsewhere. I don't want to hear it. It doesn't make me feel close to you, but it does tell me how you will treat my confidences.

You are passive-aggressive, pout to get your way, or unable or unwilling to communicate. Communication is very important in any relationship, be it sexual or platonic!! Have a backbone. Stand up to me and feel free to have an opinion. I like nice guys, not doormats. If it is more important to you to be liked than to be who you are, get some self esteem.

You are verbally or emotionally abusive (physically and sexually go without saying). If you attack others or make derogatory remarks about women, don't bother to talk to me. If you trash talk the people in your life to me, I know you are doing the same about me when you talk to them.

You think a woman's role during sex is to provide friction for you. Please know (or be interested in learning) enough about a woman's anatomy to make it good for me too. If you think that is solely my responsibility, then I don't need you, do I?

You want to "hook up" five minutes after you speak to me. I am not desperate, and I find desperation in men extremely unattractive. If you feel compelled to ask me, "What are you looking for tonight?"....well, don't. I know this is a sex site, but I didn't leave my common sense at the door.

You resort to calling me names out of frustration or as a means of manipulation (or any other reason you try to justify). When your vast vocabulary and command of the English language fail you, and you scrape the bottom with the use of words such as tease, bitch, slut etc.

I am not offended, but it sure tells me a lot about you.

You use the excuse "...but all men are that way." No, they are not! Don't use gender as an excuse for your unappealing behaviour!!

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No-one older than 55 or younger than 30. I may like younger men, but experience (for the younger guys) and a ability to accept if its wrong and try again (for the older guys) are always good things.

What use to me are you if you don't know how to please me?

If you have a cock pic on your profile and not a face pic and if you are considering contacting me, send a face pic.

If you leave comments about how long my profile is. It only makes me wonder if reading is a challenging activity for you. You might want to keep that one to yourself!!

Chix

52 years old, Straight

5'7" 170cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Men
Aged from 30 to 49
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Cannot travel

Interests

Toys, Threesomes, Swingers Clubs, Soft Swing, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Oral, Group Sex, Adult Parties

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