She Blushes, He Encourages...

Couple in Dorset, South West, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 2 days ago

Happily married, very secure, very open with each other and apparently finally brave enough to stop talking about our fantasies and actually explore them.

We’ve dipped our toes into the swinging scene together and loved the atmosphere, but we’re now curious about exploring something a little different.

Her...

Mid-30s, curvy, initially shy and currently discovering that she really likes confident people who can take the lead. Naturally submissive, loves being given direction and has spent far too long overthinking actually taking the plunge. Once she’s comfortable, though, the shy act disappears rather quickly...

She’s looking for someone confident, playful and dominant without being arrogant or pushy. Someone who understands that dominance and respect belong in the same sentence, can communicate properly, enjoys teasing and building anticipation and is happy to take things at her pace while showing her the ropes. Pun now thoroughly intended...

Him...

Very much involved, very much supportive and, judging by recent conversations, enjoying this whole situation considerably more than he anticipated...

He loves the idea of her exploring, hearing about her experiences and seeing her confidence grow. There are fantasies we'd eventually like to explore together too, but there’s absolutely no rush.

Us...

We’re not looking to collect notches or arrange something clinical. Chemistry matters massively. We want flirting, laughing, filthy banter, anticipation and that delicious “are we actually going to do this?” feeling.

Boundaries and consent are non-negotiable. No pressure, no entitlement and no assuming that chatting means anything is guaranteed.

Couples, singles and different dynamics may catch our attention, but right now we're particularly curious about finding the right confident person for her to explore with while hubby gets to enjoy being very much in the know.

If you can make her laugh, make her blush and leave her wondering what the hell she's got herself into...

You're probably doing something right.

32 years old, Bi-curious

5'7" 170cm
Curvy
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

32 years old, Straight

6'2" 188cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Men Women
Aged from 25 to 40
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Toys, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Safe Sex, DP, Cuckolding, Blindfolds, Anal

Friends

ozylion (34), Man
Harry (27), Man
Mr Mechanic (41), Man
Craig (40), Man