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Couple in Cowbridge, Wales, UK

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Conscious, Masculine Dominant required for Mrs D.

Mrs D:

I’m a devotional, service-oriented submissive seeking a grounded, emotionally regulated Dominant for a conscious, negotiated D/s dynamic.

I am highly sensitive, so clarity, presence and genuine care are non-negotiable.

What I need from a Dominant: Consent, communication, clarity and attentive aftercare.

Willing to slow down, check in and repair if something lands badly.

Clear, purposeful instructions. A brief sense of why you’re asking for something helps me process and obey.

Steady in your tone and energy. Sudden harshness, contempt or unexplained withdrawal are triggering for me; firm but grounded, consistent dominance is what I respond to.

Emotional intelligence, to allow space to share honestly how scenes felt, for both of us.

What this dynamic is for: I’m using D/s as a space for psychological and spiritual growth, particularly exploring surrender, devotion and deeper nervous-system regulation, as well as my relationship with masculine authority.

What I offer and want to co-create: I’m not interested in a one-sided arrangement where my needs are the only focus. I want to understand and nurture your needs as a man and as a Dominant.. what feeds your leadership, stabilises you, and improves your functioning in your own life.

My submission, service and erotic energy are offered with the intention of strengthening your masculine presence, not just for sexual release and egoic gratification.

If you have a clear,ethical philosophy around power exchange,are willing to communicate openly, receive feedback, and talk about both our growth and are drawn to a devotional, sensitive submissive who wants to serve your real needs, then I’d be interested in talking.

Please share how you understand a conscious D/s dynamic and what you personally need from a submissive to feel nourished in your role.

This is a couples profile beacue we are experienced swingers although have been off the scene for around 8 years. Mr D holds overarching dominance in my life and is actively supportive of me exploring this dynamic under clear, ethical agreements, which will be discussed and shared with a potential dom.

Firm no’s: no hard dominance, no humiliation, no group scenes, no secrecy. I’m not available for anything that feels degrading, performative, or is satisfying to the ego. I am only interested in deeply intelligent, highly self aware and masculine men. NO BISEXUAL Men.

36 years old, Bisexual

5'0" 152cm
Slim
Non smoker
Don't drink
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

45 years old, Straight

6'2" 188cm
Large
Non smoker
Don't drink
Heavily tattooed
No piercings

Looking For

Men
Aged from 30 to 45
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Verified Genuine Profile

*amesjonez111 (50), Man on 11 July 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met Miss D for a coffee , very nice chat and nice to get to know her and understand her needs.

*osh bloke (45), Man on 27 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely couple for a social. Both d &D are genuine nice people and good to be around. Everything felt easy going and conversation flowed. Treat them right and be respectful because they are the epitome of what fab should be about.

*Sensual-Sam (34), Man on 27 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
I’ve only met Miss D so far but she’s a wonderful being. She’s down to earth, uniquely authentic and genuinely embodies her words and her vibe. I’m looking forward to meeting this true gem again x