Here for Fun and Friends New and Old

Man in Derby, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 2 months ago

Half of a couple here with [hidden] (will probably create a couple profile soon when we get round to it) and living our best life.

Fit, friendly and fifty-something, I am easy-going and consider myself a gentleman. I am not shy but neither am I presumptuous.

I am married and poly, my wife has a profile on here with her paramour and she is fully on board with what I am doing here. We are happy together and comfortable with what we do. I'm happy to talk about any aspect of that should you want to know more.

As my interests show I also have a BDSM side and can be found under the same name on that other black themed site... if you know you know. I showcase my photography there.

Venues visited and enjoyed include Liberty Elite, Xtasia, Purple Mamba, JayDees, The Attic (my local!), Club Play, The Facility and most recently the awesome Pandora's.

59 years old, Straight

5'10" 178cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 30 to 65
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys

Verified Genuine Profile

*assionate queen xxx (43), Woman on 3 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this gent via a mutual friend while attending the same event where I got to have the pleasure of enjoying what he can do always made me feel safe and secure and things definitely turned more steamy....so easy to talk too and hopefully play again soon to see if we can turn it up another notch xx

*arth Angel (59), Woman on 20 April 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this kind obliging man and angel at the SMug event where I was made welcome and he indulged me with lots of his time and took some fabulous pics of me. Thankyou Sir

*lue and missboo (51), Couple on 26 January 2025 by Meeting in person:
What a thoroughly enjoyable time we had with this gent and just_angel tonight. Thankyou so much for the encouragement and professionalism in the photo shoot - we can’t wait to see the results! Must say thanks for the snacks too lol!! It really was a great evening with the most genuine and friendly pair you could hope to meet. Thankyou so much! K and J xx

*kcouple92 (34), Couple on 20 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
Was lovely meeting you at the hotel and then pandoras for pirate night. Great chatting to you and fun later on. Thanks for making me feel less nervous at our 2nd club. Looking forward to next time k.x

*uss n Boots (52), Couple on 20 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
Finally got to meet this charming gentleman on sat night at Pandora and the bar beforehand. Had the pleasure of watching him in action in the dungeon sat night and then a bit later with a few others in a private room where a lot of fun was had, he is lovely, genuine and very easy to talk to. Look forward to seeing you again soon xxx

*awtyredhead (32), Woman on 19 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this gent last night at hotel for prinks before Pandoras such a fun person to be Orund and so glad to have met.. Even if I couldn't breathe with how tight he did my corset up.. Thought I was gonna need mouth to mouth resuscitation... Hope to meet again soon xxx

*exy4youxx (57), Woman on 22 August 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely guy through a mutual friend really easy to get along with and very much the gentleman even when in Dom mode do not pass this guy by you will not be disappointed x glad you decided to join back up x