Normal guy looking for fun

Man in Sevenoaks, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 1 hour ago

Hello

Been on here before and like many left to come back once again. I’m looking for genuine meets and people.

I live in Kent and work in London

Oh I work in education hence the private pictures

In case my name didn’t make it clear I’m a chunky average bloke.

Dominant male, 44, with a dad bod and a dark mind. I’m not here to play it safe. I’m here for the mindfuck, the dynamic, the slow unravelling of who you thought you were before you let me in.

Sapiosexual to the bone. Intelligence turns me on harder than aesthetics ever could. I don’t chase pretty. I chase potential. I get off on seeing someone clever, capable, guarded — and then slowly, deliberately, breaking that down. Taking it apart. Rewiring it. Watching it melt into something pliant, hungry, obedient.

Currently in two ethically non-monogamous dynamics. One with my long-term partner, also a Dom — it’s intense, layered, and built on mutual power. The other with my submissive kitty, who’s been carefully and lovingly guided from high-functioning overthinker to soft, needy pet. Her submission isn’t performative. It’s real. And earned.

What I’m Into:

Control. Mind games. Rituals. Ownership that seeps deeper than just titles and toys.

I like watching the moment the resistance fades. When the sass turns into service. When a sharp tongue quiets because it’s too busy obeying.

I’m into:

• Mental domination

• Training and transformation

• Control dynamics that go beyond the bedroom

• Psychological play

• Objectification, conditioning, rules, protocol

• Intelligent brats and ambitious overachievers who secretly want to be told what to do

What I’m Looking For:

Not here for flakes or fantasy-only messages. If you’re smart, curious, and a little dangerous, we’ll get along just fine. Especially if you’ve got that itch you can’t scratch yourself. The one that whispers you might not be in control as much as you think.

If you think your mind is safe with me, you’re already wrong.

oaksbloke

40 years old, Straight

5'10" 178cm
Large
Non smoker
Don't drink
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Watersports, Toys, Threesomes, Spanking, SM, Safe Sex, Role Play, Oral, Making Videos, Dogging, Cybersex, Cuckolding, Cross-dressing, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

Friends

J (40), Woman
squirter (46), Woman