Friend With Benefits...

Man in Sutton Bridge, East Midlands, UK

... "Just once, I'd like to log in and find a message waiting for me...". 14 hours ago

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 11 hours ago

Hi, I’m John.

Easy going, discreet, and definitely missing that fun, cheeky spark that makes things exciting. I’m happily married and plan to stay that way, but I’m looking to add a little extra connection, chemistry, and playfulness back into my life with the right person (or couple).

I’m drawn to people who don’t take themselves too seriously, enjoy a bit of flirtation, and appreciate that the best chemistry starts with a good conversation and a genuine connection. A laugh, a spark, and seeing where things naturally lead… that’s the kind of vibe I enjoy.

I’d describe myself as fairly “normal” with a curious side, someone who enjoys exploring, teasing, and discovering what works for both of us. Nothing extreme, just good energy, mutual enjoyment, and a bit of adventure.

Discretion and respect are a must, and I’m not here for drama, just relaxed, no-pressure fun with someone who gets it. Ideally we chat, build a little rapport, and then meet for a drink to see if there’s that all-important spark in person.

I’m open-minded when it comes to connections, including couples, and happy to explore where there’s genuine chemistry.

If you like the sound of something easy, fun, and just a little bit mischievous… say hello!

John

58 years old, Straight

5'10" 178cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Spanking, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*ellsmand (59), Couple on 18 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met with this lovely gent again today and had a great time. He is a very considerate lover and we really enjoyed our play with him. If you invite this man into your life you will not be disappointed. Not only is great to play with is also very articulate and can hold a great conversation.

*ellsmand (59), Couple on 16 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met with this lovely gent and had a great threesome. He is sexy, attentive and has the most wonderful cock for us both to enjoy. Not only is he good in bed he is also a pleasure to talk to and we thoroughly enjoyed his company. If you decide to meet with him you will not be disappointed and we are already looking forward to meeting with him again.

*ehind closed curtains (54), Couple on 15 July 2021 by Meeting in person:
It's great to see this lovely man back on here. We had a couple of very intimate photo shoots a few years ago. So much fun. He is kind and courteous, understands boundaries but mostly was what a giggle was had by all. If you get the chance, whether it's photos or play or both! I don't think you'd be disappointed. xx

*ife and husband 71 (56), Couple on 17 October 2016 by Meeting in person:
All I can say is what a guy very nice bloke great kisser and Defo knows how to use that cock he is on my do list again and hopefully soon thanks john for a brill morning "J" xxx

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